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EmpassionedRogue -> this is embarassing to ask but... (7/17/2007 2:10:34 PM)
applogies in advance... but i couldnt think of a better group to ask, and it is a serious question to me at least: does/would a jacobs ladder piercing on the male genitalia (shaft) enhance intercorse for the woman... or not. reason, ive been considering getting it done, and would if it would enhance HER enjoyment.. if not, i wont. tis that simple. this, assumeing i could get over the monumental modesty TO get it done.

Politesub53 -> RE: this is embarassing to ask but... (7/17/2007 2:15:21 PM)
It needs to do something because it looks very painful. [;)]

GhitaAmati -> RE: this is embarassing to ask but... (7/17/2007 2:17:47 PM)
Ok, for me personally...its never really done alot of me vaginally...most of the enhancement of male genital peircings come about during anal sex.

goddessAVA -> RE: this is embarassing to ask but... (7/17/2007 2:21:33 PM)
ouch-something like rugburn in my pussy, hate the ribbed condoms too

BabyNyla -> RE: this is embarassing to ask but... (7/17/2007 2:27:16 PM)
I have a picture I found on the net of a jacob's ladder piercing ... and the guy had a few other piercings on his cock and balls as well ... to this day it's still my favorite picture to look at ... mmmmm

LadyeSaige -> RE: this is embarassing to ask but... (7/17/2007 8:28:50 PM)
Well don't tease - give us a link!

MistressT2you -> RE: this is embarassing to ask but... (7/17/2007 8:58:14 PM)
Just my experience, with intercourse, no, it didn't enhance it, but it was pretty awesome when I had him rub the shaft up n down on the outside, over the clitoris.

michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: this is embarassing to ask but... (7/17/2007 9:03:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: EmpassionedRogue applogies in advance... but i couldnt think of a better group to ask, and it is a serious question to me at least: does/would a jacobs ladder piercing on the male genitalia (shaft) enhance intercorse for the woman... or not. reason, ive been considering getting it done, and would if it would enhance HER enjoyment.. if not, i wont. tis that simple. this, assumeing i could get over the monumental modesty TO get it done. ouch. i'm glad i'm not into piercings. especially in THAT area.

MisPandora -> RE: this is embarassing to ask but... (7/18/2007 12:04:55 AM)
Rogue, It really physically depends upon the woman. Some can't handle the hardware, if you get my meaning. Why not talk to her about it and let it be HER decision what adornments your body carries for her pleasure?

velvetpetal -> RE: this is embarassing to ask but... (7/18/2007 12:25:32 AM)
i know not the same idea, but this thread reminds me of when my husband, when we first began dating, found this gawdawful condom.. looked interesting, and i thought why not? It came sporting these HUGE rubbery points.. gawd it hurt... felt like i was being sawed from within... Ha ha..way to funny

WyckedMystress -> RE: this is embarassing to ask but... (7/18/2007 12:31:45 AM)
I have never felt it or tried it but as politesub says I would hope it does something cause it looks damn painful. MMMMM but then that does have it's advantages

Vendaval -> RE: this is embarassing to ask but... (7/18/2007 2:20:42 AM)
Rogue, some women like genital piercings and many do not. Are you already in a relationship? A long term one?

Politesub53 -> RE: this is embarassing to ask but... (7/18/2007 2:28:37 AM)
OMG at going through with the piercings and then getting released a week later... Blinks at the thought. Worse still a Mistress making You have that done then making You take the piercings out again..... Yep......careful what you wish for... [;)]

petdave -> RE: this is embarassing to ask but... (7/18/2007 5:08:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MisPandora It really physically depends upon the woman. Some can't handle the hardware, if you get my meaning. Why not talk to her about it and let it be HER decision what adornments your body carries for her pleasure? It is very individual. The only problem is that as several women have mentioned, you don't always know until you try! From reading a lot of anecdotal reports, the male piercing that gets the most consistently favorable response is the Ampallang, which goes horizontally through the head. However, it is also one of the most painful piercings to get, and one that takes quite a while to heal. If you're already involved with a particular woman for whom you're considering doing this, find out if She enjoys toys with a ribbed or studded texture. A dildo to mimic the effect can be had for minimal investment. If single, wait, because even in the D/s community there are still a lot of women who would be put off by The Bionic Schlong on principle alone. ...dave

MisPandora -> RE: this is embarassing to ask but... (7/18/2007 5:16:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: petdave quote: ORIGINAL: MisPandora It really physically depends upon the woman. Some can't handle the hardware, if you get my meaning. Why not talk to her about it and let it be HER decision what adornments your body carries for her pleasure? It is very individual. The only problem is that as several women have mentioned, you don't always know until you try! From reading a lot of anecdotal reports, the male piercing that gets the most consistently favorable response is the Ampallang, which goes horizontally through the head. However, it is also one of the most painful piercings to get, and one that takes quite a while to heal. If you're already involved with a particular woman for whom you're considering doing this, find out if She enjoys toys with a ribbed or studded texture. A dildo to mimic the effect can be had for minimal investment. If single, wait, because even in the D/s community there are still a lot of women who would be put off by The Bionic Schlong on principle alone. ...dave Partially true, dave. Being a woman and having had several sexual partners who were heavy in the hardware department, I can speak from experience. Frenums, amphallangs and apradrayvas, depending on what direction the fucker is driving, really can leave track marks within the walls of the fuckee. (Ask my gynecologist.) Women know whether they're extremely tight, have sexual issues with penetration, and ESPECIALLY cervical issues. I truly think that this sort of deep commitment (piercings are a commitment from both partners, both in terms of sexuality as well as care and maintenance of) should come only after a deep conversation between an intimate couple. If one was to venture out and try it, I'd suggest going for a simple single frenum piercing and seeing how she tolerates it -- with and without a condom -- after the piercing is healed (3-4 weeks is recommended, but it's more like 6 until they're not too sore and sensitive that they can take the rigors of penetrating any tight space.) Fucking with piercings are completely different feelings/sensations, and can be terrifying on both sides if you're rushing or not being sensitive to the relaxation of the receiving party.

michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: this is embarassing to ask but... (7/18/2007 5:22:10 AM)
i am wondering here. has anyone ever had a guy that was pierced in such a manner and has been injured due to the piercings? sound too hazardous to me.

EmpassionedRogue -> RE: this is embarassing to ask but... (7/18/2007 6:51:28 AM)
well put Ma'am. just... trying to consider things ahead. better ild think to get it done when i really have no use for the thing other then to be rid of bodily waste. less downtime for Her should that indeed be her wish. but yes, you are right. i'll let Her decide. whomever that may be........ _________________________________ No Miss Vendaval, regretfully i am not. _________________________________ @petdave: ouch? think ill pass on that one (ampallang). am only Somewhat massocistic, NOT a painslut O_o

pixelslave -> RE: this is embarassing to ask but... (7/18/2007 10:39:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MisPandora If one was to venture out and try it, I'd suggest going for a simple single frenum piercing and seeing how she tolerates it -- with and without a condom -- after the piercing is healed (3-4 weeks is recommended, but it's more like 6 until they're not too sore and sensitive that they can take the rigors of penetrating any tight space.) Fucking with piercings are completely different feelings/sensations, and can be terrifying on both sides if you're rushing or not being sensitive to the relaxation of the receiving party. Just curious MisPandora, since you seem quite knowledgeable on male piercings, can you tell me which ones are practical for men who are uncircumcised? I know many are not. A guiche is not something that would be suited to me as I ride bicycles too often. I've heard that frenum piercings aren't normally a good idea for an uncircumcised male, but don't know if that's absolutely true or not. Since the general subject was being discussed, I thought I'd tap into your knowledge along with any others who might have something to share. [&:] - pixel Collared to Majik

Politesub53 -> RE: this is embarassing to ask but... (7/18/2007 10:58:01 AM)
Pixel.....a Dydoe ( Ridge of the glans ) piercing can be used if a man has a foreskin or not. The drawback is that due to moisture, under the foreskin, it can take ages to heal or become infected. It can also tear during intercourse. I dont know the name but there is a piercing which can be done to the foreskin, which involves small rings being inserted into it. Im unsure which others are suitable myself though. [;)]

MistressSassy66 -> RE: this is embarassing to ask but... (7/18/2007 11:29:09 AM)
I have no experience so I cant say one way or the other on feelings during sex. But...they dont look like I would enjoy it,they look like they could cause some pain to both P/parties. I'll pass on the hardware.

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