RE: face slapping (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Submissive



Message

VeeTee -> RE: face slapping (11/2/2009 8:10:19 PM)

Really interesting thread for me. Getting my face slapped has been kind of a soft limit for me - not sure if i could handle it. Yet something about it seems intriguing. i've been beat up before, had my lip split...and not in good way. So i worry a bit about having some kind of weird PTSD experience if i went through with face slapping. But who knows - it would be an entirely different dynamic. And i do know that that kind of physical assault certainly does take you to a different place entirely - in the presence of a loving and trusting Master, i suppose it could be the positive experience i see many of you have experienced. Thanks!



LanceHughes -> RE: face slapping (11/2/2009 8:10:43 PM)

I once had a sub that was very, very into face-slapping.  He had protective eye glasses - wrap-around, high impact.  We did a public scene <previously negotiated and practiced> in which I flogged his face......  How's that for hawt?

Current S.i.T. (slave/sub in training - I'll tell him later which he is) had land-mine planted in his cheek that he wasn't even aware of.  Hit him a couple of times with no reaction except pure pleasure.  He actually leaned into it.  Later, during after-care, he said that he had a flash-back to when his G'ma had slapped him, the only time she ever did. He had totally forgotten about it....

So, I guess the question is "How does one discover the land-mines without stepping on them?"



sincityprincess -> RE: face slapping (11/2/2009 8:11:15 PM)

I am really surprised that so many people have voiced the concern of getting slapped hard enough to cause real physical damage or long-term injury. I have never met a Dom/Master who would permanently damage his property, so I cannot wrap my head around this being a concern.

In my opinion, there is a big difference between slapping (even forceful slapping) and open-handed "hitting". I wouldn't feel safe with anyone who hit me...in any way. But a Dom could slap me until the sun came up and the only problem I would have would be possibly getting exhausted from having too many orgasms! [:)]

But I know it is a real concern, I've actually chatted with a couple of Doms (who I met here on CM) that have asked me about my having that as a "lives for" in my profile, and that it "concerns" them. I guess that just goes back to the fact that so many people think that all submissives are abuse victims or something like that. Hadn't even occured to me before they brought it up...I have been slapped by a man in anger before and not only did I NOT find it arousing, it really doesn't even register in my brain as being the same thing. Sort of like "slave" in the Underground Railroad days and "slave" in the BDSM sense are really nothing like each other. Homophones at best.



Icarys -> RE: face slapping (11/2/2009 8:15:18 PM)

quote:

So, I guess the question is "How does one discover the land-mines without stepping on them?"


Good point.



Surrenderwithin -> RE: face slapping (11/2/2009 9:53:54 PM)

My first experience with face slapping left me feeling vulnerable at a level I never imagined possible. I experienced a level of sub drop I never dreamed possible. For several days I was emotional and felt so confused. My Master was wonderfully supportive and worked through this with me. I expressed to him that it had such a deep affect on me that I didnt think it was a good idea, for me on an emotional level, to do that type of play again.
As time passed, I found myself craving the intimacy that came within the vulnerability I had tasted only through that face slapping scene. I once again approached Master and explained my feelings and the confusion. We had several in depth conversations about the topic and he basically made me convince him that I truly did wish to try again.
Knowing what effects it had on me in the past and being prepared for the aftermath I now consider this more intimate than any other type of play exchange he and I share. I love face slapping and the place that it takes me to...one of humility and vulnerability....and serenity.
I now look back to our first face slapping scene and it my favorite most memorable scene of all time.
In a nut shell, I love face slapping....and it has been far too long since I have felt the sting.....



Hierodule -> RE: face slapping (11/2/2009 11:55:08 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: bull4cuckolds

For those of you who enjoy having your face slapped, it the enjoyment more from the physical action/stimuli, or is it the mental humiliation factor that turns you on?


Its not humiliation to me. Its power. Physical power. A slap says to me "I could hurt you, BAD. I could snap your neck in  heart beat. But I won't. I'll just give you little taste. Cause I like that little neck.' Sick I know. But yum. Its controlled violence. The hand is open. Not closed. That hand could do real damage. But it chooses not to. Does that make sense?

sleep in T minus 6 minutes...



DesFIP -> RE: face slapping (11/3/2009 4:13:51 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sincityprincess

I am really surprised that so many people have voiced the concern of getting slapped hard enough to cause real physical damage or long-term injury. I have never met a Dom/Master who would permanently damage his property, so I cannot wrap my head around this being a concern.



Obviously none of us think our d types are planning to deliberately blind us.
But the eardrum is very sensitive. Hit wrong and it will burst, with no guarantee that you'll heal properly and recover your hearing.
The orbital socket is very delicate, break one of those bones and you need major surgery.
All it takes for a hit to go wrong is his aim to be off by an inch or me to move that inch.



lusciouslips19 -> RE: face slapping (11/3/2009 4:20:56 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LanceHughes

I once had a sub that was very, very into face-slapping. He had protective eye glasses - wrap-around, high impact. We did a public scene <previously negotiated and practiced> in which I flogged his face...... How's that for hawt?

Current S.i.T. (slave/sub in training - I'll tell him later which he is) had land-mine planted in his cheek that he wasn't even aware of. Hit him a couple of times with no reaction except pure pleasure. He actually leaned into it. Later, during after-care, he said that he had a flash-back to when his G'ma had slapped him, the only time she ever did. He had totally forgotten about it....

So, I guess the question is "How does one discover the land-mines without stepping on them?"


I stepped into a landmine with face slapping. There is only one certain kind I am ok with. Thats too complicated to maneuver through. So Its off the table when I play as most of the time it sends me to a bad day. A really bad day.



Elizabeth666 -> RE: face slapping (11/3/2009 4:27:05 AM)

i mentioned face slapping to Sir last week. He had done it with past partners but not with me. i told Him i wanted to try it, i wasn't sure how i would feel about it.

When He did it, it was during a play session. He didn't hit hard enough to cause alot of pain, but considering the situation (saran wrapped to a post while on my knees, with my arms bound above me) He had His cock in my mouth and it was gagging me, every time i tried to turn away He would slap my face. i'm still up in the air as far as enjoyment, i felt more humiliated than anything but i think that was his goal. It was a very hard session.

i would like to try it again, but in a different situation



lizi -> RE: face slapping (11/3/2009 6:47:22 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19


quote:

ORIGINAL: LanceHughes

I once had a sub that was very, very into face-slapping. He had protective eye glasses - wrap-around, high impact. We did a public scene <previously negotiated and practiced> in which I flogged his face...... How's that for hawt?

Current S.i.T. (slave/sub in training - I'll tell him later which he is) had land-mine planted in his cheek that he wasn't even aware of. Hit him a couple of times with no reaction except pure pleasure. He actually leaned into it. Later, during after-care, he said that he had a flash-back to when his G'ma had slapped him, the only time she ever did. He had totally forgotten about it....

So, I guess the question is "How does one discover the land-mines without stepping on them?"


I stepped into a landmine with face slapping. There is only one certain kind I am ok with. Thats too complicated to maneuver through. So Its off the table when I play as most of the time it sends me to a bad day. A really bad day.


I stepped into this landmine as well. We tried it once. I shocked us both by bursting into tears and sobbing and everything came to an end for that session. Neither one of us is into humiliation or edge play. I'm not sure if he should have pushed beyond that and kept going or....? I know he stopped because he had never seen me react like that before. I had asked him to try it sometime but I had no idea that I'd react that way either. None at all. In my mind when we talked about it I thought it seemed hawt.

It wasn't necessarily bad, I'd kind of like to try it again...or maybe not. I'm so confused lol.



seany -> RE: face slapping (11/5/2009 3:58:21 PM)

Its a mix of the physical action and the idea that it truly shows ultimate dominance over you. Nothing better to put you in your place than a swift slap to the face! I cant say i find it humiliating at all



DesFIP -> RE: face slapping (11/5/2009 4:22:27 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LanceHughes
I once had a sub that was very, very into face-slapping.  He had protective eye glasses - wrap-around, high impact. 


Now that's a creative solution. Better if painted black inside so they serve as blindfolds. Wonder if I could talk him into it with these.



LanceHughes -> RE: face slapping (11/7/2009 10:21:08 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

quote:

ORIGINAL: LanceHughes
I once had a sub that was very, very into face-slapping.  He had protective eye glasses - wrap-around, high impact. 


Now that's a creative solution. Better if painted black inside so they serve as blindfolds. Wonder if I could talk him into it with these.


STILL watch those EARS, though.  And I think he got off on watching the flogger coming at him.  I bet painting inside would've made him less likely to take a flogging to the face.  Your milage may differ.

ETA: Cheekbones can break fairly easily.  As always, we're talking sensations here, NOT abuse.



fadedshadow -> RE: face slapping (11/7/2009 10:30:24 AM)

i enjoy being slapped



trueshadow -> RE: face slapping (11/7/2009 1:01:11 PM)

Yumm.   I find face slapping to be terribly erotic.  As one writer put it, it certainly puts you in your place!  I like the shock, the pain, and the humiliation.  Kneeling naked at a Domme's feet, being tormented and then having my face slapped it very, very nice.



Page: <<   < prev  4 5 6 7 [8]

Valid CSS!




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy
0.046875