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A question for the swingers.... - 7/19/2007 3:59:13 PM   
GhitaAmati


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Status: offline 		Hi, I know this isnt really the right forum for this, but I dont happen to belong to any forums where it is the right place for this question and Im hoping there are enough people here that might be able to answer it.

Say Sir and I were thinking about finding a local swinging group, how would we go about it? Say we arent really sure we even want to do this, do swingers have things like munches where you can meet people without the pressure of being expected to do anything? Are there places to go to talk to other swingers, find out their thoughts on everything and see if it really is something we'd like to try first?

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RE: A question for the swingers.... - 7/19/2007 4:03:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		I never had any luck at any type of  "Munch."
Too many runaways from Weightwatchers at those events.
Try some venue that doesn't involve food.

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RE: A question for the swingers.... - 7/19/2007 4:07:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		Join AdultFriend Finders, they're "swinger oriented", and I think you can search out local groups through their site.

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RE: A question for the swingers.... - 7/19/2007 4:08:06 PM   
GhitaAmati


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Status: offline 		Ok...minus the food..same atmosphere ...a meet & greet type thing.....

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RE: A question for the swingers.... - 7/19/2007 4:13:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: GhitaAmati
Hi, I know this isnt really the right forum for this, but I dont happen to belong to any forums where it is the right place for this question and Im hoping there are enough people here that might be able to answer it.

Say Sir and I were thinking about finding a local swinging group, how would we go about it? Say we arent really sure we even want to do this, do swingers have things like munches where you can meet people without the pressure of being expected to do anything? Are there places to go to talk to other swingers, find out their thoughts on everything and see if it really is something we'd like to try first?

GA,
It is relatively easy. Go into any local 'adult' book store and ask for the local swinger's magazine. Inside are advertisements for local groups.

Want to keep it on-line? Here's a site to start: http://www.swingtowns.com/clubs/

They have GREAT conventions. The Vegas one, run by the "Lifestyles" group is unbelievable. We went a couple years ago. There is a small, but very active, group of WIITWD people who also attend.  http://lifestyles-conventions.com/www/index.php

It will be held at the Tuscany on August 8-12. Still not too late to go.

Obviously these are VERY friendly people.

ENJOY!

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RE: A question for the swingers.... - 7/19/2007 4:17:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		If all else fails, Look up Georgia Swingers groups on yahoo adults groups.  This is just me but I prefer to do my swinging in the bdsm,pagan and sci-fi/fantasy crowds.

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RE: A question for the swingers.... - 7/19/2007 4:21:53 PM   
GhitaAmati


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Status: offline 		I thought that was all the same crowd??

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RE: A question for the swingers.... - 7/19/2007 4:21:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		Some cities and states have clubs you can try some dont but an online site that My husband and I have had some luck with  www.swinglifesyle.com  In general an "off premiss" swingers club will be way less presure and in your face then an "on premiss" swingers club

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RE: A question for the swingers.... - 7/19/2007 4:30:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

I never had any luck at any type of  "Munch."
Too many runaways from Weightwatchers at those events.
Try some venue that doesn't involve food.


The NYCmunch is great.People mostly have tea,coffee,etc.It`s about socializing and hanging w/ like minded people,but w/ out the pressure of being hit on(you`re not supposed to flirt,or make hay,or do anything BDSM there).The NYCmunch has moderators and people there to assist you,answer questions.It`s held at the Moonstruck Cafe.There`s discussion,chat,Q&A,networking,etc. On one evening,people just talked about the best was around rush hour traffic in Manhattan.lol

I have friends who host meets,for a swinging group,here in north NJ.I`m not a swinger type,but I respect couples who can love that much,as to let there partners get buck wild with another and be cool.There should be swing groups and social meets near you.




"Too many runaways from Weightwatchers at those events.
Try some venue that doesn't involve food."

Bwahh!! You`re all class ,Popeye.

Peace


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RE: A question for the swingers.... - 7/19/2007 4:34:28 PM   
Trampler


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Status: offline 		*says dryly* and all heart popeye.  Personally I love going to my local munches.

GA **snickers** why do you think I like them?  Seriously though swingers in those groups tend not to think I am crazy when I mention my other interests.

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RE: A question for the swingers.... - 7/19/2007 4:55:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sheesh, leave it to popeye to figure out a way to bring weight into a thread about swinging.
 
I have talked to a few that I met on www.swinglifestyle.com , it's free so that gives you a lot of choices, but you have to weed out the wankers.  Maybe you could just meet a couple  for drinks or something and see how you felt afterward.  There wouldn't be the pressure you might feel at a bigger event or a swingers club.
 
We have talked about doing this, I am just not sure it's for us right now. 
 
Good luck.
Sin

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RE: A question for the swingers.... - 7/19/2007 5:52:56 PM   
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quote:

I thought that was all the same crowd??


no, no
There are swingers who just exchange partners, no d/s or bdsm or s&m


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RE: A question for the swingers.... - 7/19/2007 6:12:39 PM   
GhitaAmati


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Status: offline 		Katy...I was mainly joking to trampler about us bdsmers and pagans and scifi freaks all being the same crowd...lol...

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RE: A question for the swingers.... - 7/19/2007 6:21:08 PM   
GhitaAmati


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Status: offline 		Thank you all so much for the tips and links! Yall are wonderful...

ghita~

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RE: A question for the swingers.... - 7/19/2007 6:32:52 PM   
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Katy...I was mainly joking to trampler about us bdsmers and pagans and scifi freaks all being the same crowd...lol...


Oh, that went right over my head!




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RE: A question for the swingers.... - 7/19/2007 6:39:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

quote:

Katy...I was mainly joking to trampler about us bdsmers and pagans and scifi freaks all being the same crowd...lol...


Oh, that went right over my head!





You had to be there....

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