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slave4yew -> help (6/23/2005 7:36:05 PM)

My master told me not to touch myself and I could not help but doing it. I came up to him and told him the truth that I did in fact touch myself. Writting in this is my punishment , and I need somebodys help please. How do you stick to obeying your masters ???



gretchen -> RE: help (6/23/2005 9:10:26 PM)

Here's a thread about obeying to "DON'T TOUCH YOUR SELF, SLAVE".

I don't know exactely what are you looking for, so, check it out.

how to stop masturbating/orgasming



perfection20005 -> RE: help (6/24/2005 5:34:01 AM)

I guess I've never had a problem obeying orders from anyone. You just have to remember what will happen if you don't do what you're told.

perfection



zephyresque -> How to stop? (6/24/2005 5:53:42 AM)

Fear of disappointing my Dominant by disobeying a direct instruction does it for me every time.

Treat D/s as a game, and that's all it is.



slavedesires -> RE: How to stop? (6/26/2005 10:02:18 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: zephyresque

Fear of disappointing my Dominant by disobeying a direct instruction does it for me every time.

Treat D/s as a game, and that's all it is.



whole heartily agree 100%

bratting is something i find digusting for myself....some Doms like it.... its a game, makes D/s fun....whatever, but NOT for me or Mine.

~~shy



noumenon -> RE: How to stop? (6/26/2005 2:10:39 PM)

Perhaps you should re-evaluate what motivates you to listen or not listen to your master. Keep in mind that with the correct inspiration the human mind and body are capable of incredible things. I'm sure we've all heard the story of a mother lifting an entire car off of her child to save him. Love is the strongest motivator in the world, in my personal opinion. If you are not obeying your master out of love, then I would consider that the problem. Love can't be a choice for the most part.. so if it isn't there it isn't there and there's very little you can do about it consciously. However, I would definately recommend focusing on obeying orders specifically because you want to make your master proud/happy rather than fearing punishment. Think of it as proving your love every time he/she asks you to obey an order that a normal person would not obey. Hopefully this will help both of you feel more connected and appreciated. Good luck!



Hissweetshiv -> RE: help (6/27/2005 8:51:24 AM)

If this is simply an obedience issue, all i can tell you is that mentally contrasting His reaction when He is pleased and proud, and His reaction when i have disappointed Him, i'll take pleased and proud any day. However, i have to say that if you are so addicted to masturbation that you "can't help but do it" then there are more serious problems involved than obedience. Seek counselling.
~shiv



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