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Dommes in a couple seeking menl - 7/23/2007 4:21:48 AM

MissIsis

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I always read on the profiles that come up on my home page on this site & others, from women wanting to add a second woman to their relationship with their dominant, some wanting to add a submissive or a slave. Sometimes the profiles is from the women, themselves, & sometimes it is from the Dominant.

But one thing I rarely see is a Domme, seeking a second man, nor have I ever seen a posting form a male slave or submissive, seeking to add a second male submissive or slave to their relationship with their Domme.

I would love to hear thoughts & feelings about why this is, or is not the case.

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RE: Dommes in a couple seeking menl - 7/23/2007 6:11:33 AM

BeachMystress

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Many Domme have or want a stable. It is just so easy for us to get multiple submissives that when we want it, we don't need to advertise for it.

The Dom who wish to add an extra femsub to their households have to look long and hard to find them. The numbers game means that there are more Dom than femsubs (so the femsubs often get to pick and choose) and a large number of those females want to be the primary in their man's life. The few females who do want to be part of a poly group are highly sought after, especially if they are bi. Since it is not easy to find those few females and there are a lot of Dom who wish to have them, you see ads.

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RE: Dommes in a couple seeking menl - 7/23/2007 6:41:00 AM

chiaThePet

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i'm game, though i'd probably want to be the alpha boy, i don't do well
submitting to submissives, i know, just another of my badboy attitudes.

A Dominant will have many appetites and requirements, i'd probably
appreciate the assistance in keeping them uplifted and happy.

i'm proficient at many things, but at others i just suck, (get your minds out
of the gutter) why shouldn't a Dominant have the best of everything?

chia* (the pet)

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You can stick me in the corner, but I'll probably just end up coloring on the walls.

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