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Hardon while passed out? - 6/27/2005 11:52:14 AM   
muffinguy69


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Status: offline 		I did not know if this was the place to ask about this but here goes. When I drink 5-6 drinks and am having sex, while I am a bottom or tied up, at times I pass out from 5 minutes to 30 minutes and am told I stay hard during this period. I do not even realize it and wake up as if nothing happened. Needless to say I am still being used during this time, so I am told, and don't even know it. Has this ever happened to anyone else?
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RE: Hardon while passed out? - 6/27/2005 12:21:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		could be priaprism.. (not sure how it is spelled).. however I would be concerned if you pass out drinking, let alone playing while drunk, Not a wise thing to do.

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RE: Hardon while passed out? - 6/27/2005 2:47:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MaitresseEden

could be priaprism.. (not sure how it is spelled).. however I would be concerned if you pass out drinking, let alone playing while drunk, Not a wise thing to do.


I agree thats what it is. I can't remember if thats how its spelled either, but as a nurse, thats what it sounds like.
Also agree that drinking till you pass out is a dangerous thing to be doing while in a scene.

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RE: Hardon while passed out? - 6/27/2005 3:18:37 PM   
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however I would be concerned if you pass out drinking, let alone playing while drunk,


Not to mention, I would have serious concerns about anyone who would continue to play with someone while they are unconcious. Doesn't seem like a very responsible thing to do to me.


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RE: Hardon while passed out? - 6/27/2005 5:08:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've been passed out before and still had sex or so I've been told by those I woke up to in the morning.

Other than that, pet and others that I've been with have told me that while I'm asleep I still kiss, groap, and hump them. But then I stop to role on my back and start snoreing again.

Either way, your dick can still be hard regardless of conciousness. REM, nerve endings, and such are still in the mix.

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RE: Hardon while passed out? - 6/27/2005 5:46:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		Priaprism is the persistent, usually painful erection of the penis as a consequence of disease. It's also been observed in cases of head injury, where some sort of damage to the brain has occured. When I was working as an EMT, we were taught to do a quick groin sweep during our physical assessment of unconscious male patients to see if priaprism was present.

I don't know if alcohol-related blackouts are contributing to that in your case but I have to second (or third or fourth) the concerns expressed about you drinking that heavily. It's dangerous, and even more so if you're playing while in that state.



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RE: Hardon while passed out? - 6/27/2005 8:00:53 PM   
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Other than that, pet and others that I've been with have told me that while I'm asleep I still kiss, groap, and hump them. But then I stop to role on my back and start snoreing again.



I agree it can happen while one is sleeping. I have been known to grope and start blow jobs while I'm sleeping. But like you, I usually don't finish, unless I get woke up! Good thing Master and I can laugh about it when I do wake up!

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RE: Hardon while passed out? - 6/27/2005 8:36:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		IV'E BEEN TOLD I AM A HARDON EVEN WHEN IM SLEPING

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RE: Hardon while passed out? - 6/27/2005 9:26:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MaitresseEden

could be priaprism.. (not sure how it is spelled).. however I would be concerned if you pass out drinking, let alone playing while drunk, Not a wise thing to do.


From the Merriam-Webster Desktop Medical Dictionary, this is how priapism is defined:

Main Entry:priapism
Pronunciation:Pri' uh pizum (The notation did not cut-&-paste properly, sorry for my feeble attempt here)
Function:noun

: an abnormal, more or less persistent, and often painful erection of the penis ; especially : one caused by disease rather than sexual desire
Priyaypus \pr*-**-p*s\ , Greek mythological character. A god of gardens and fertility, Priapus was the son of Aphrodite, who disowned him because he had a grotesque little body with a huge penis. He was a member of the retinue of the god Dionysus and chased after nymphs.

There are quite a number of causes of this condition as has been mentioned, and they range from the normal to the'better check that out' seriousness. In the absence of injury or disease, however, it is probably not a major thing to worry about. You might want to talk with your Health Care Provider (MD, DO, NP, PA, ARN, or local friendly nurse) about it, and/or do some research on-line to find out more.

Most men have a number of erections during normal sleep, so being asleep and having a hard-on is probably not of concern. Being drunk and tied up is more a problem than being tied up, passed out, and hard. Alcohol numbs, amongst other things, the sphincter between the stomach and the esophagus. This leads to the possibility of gastric contents being released up the esophagus to the pharynx, where it can enter the mouth for a bad taste and creating havoc with dental enamel, and possibly being inhaled into the lungs. Alcohol also tends to sedate the cough reflex, and may keep the epiglottis from 'epiglotting' nicely. If that has left you scratching your head thinking "Wha'Duh;Fuh?!?" it's simple; tied up when stuff goes up the foodpipe into the lungs is bad. It can cause what is called aspiration pneumonia. This can cause big-time illness, and may even cause death. I don't know about any of the rest of you folk, but I strongly object to people dying in this lifestyle from things done in this lifestyle. Not only is it bad press, but it reduces the number of people to play with, and most importantly eliminates people that someone cares for and about.

My suggestion is to go ahead and play. Have a blast, but when either you or your sub pass out, stop long enough for recovery to happen. I like it when my sub experiences everything --- surprises are fine, but how much fun is it to 'surprise' someone with what was done to them when they were passed out and missed it? Doesn't sound like a recipe encouraging or inviting a repeat.

OK, so I ramble. I shut up now.

C/



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RE: Hardon while passed out? - 7/25/2005 2:57:01 AM   
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Status: offline 		So why are you drinking and playing, and playing with people who don't have the sense to stop playing with you while you're intoxicated and passing out?

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RE: Hardon while passed out? - 7/30/2005 9:21:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		Doing abythung until you pass out is just stupid.

You are taking chances with yourself and others (since you are not responsible for your own well being).

Play of anysort should be concensual and guess what that means AWAKE!!!!

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RE: Hardon while passed out? - 8/1/2005 1:52:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		Perhaps you've heard the lewd expression
'a hard dick got no consience'

Apparently this could be extended to convey the notion
'a hard dick don't need no stinkin' counciousness'

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RE: Hardon while passed out? - 8/1/2005 3:08:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		I just have a question here so don't run me up the flag pole here...I'm wondering if you need to be intoxicated to get into a lifestyle mode...

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RE: Hardon while passed out? - 8/1/2005 4:11:30 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mistoferin

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however I would be concerned if you pass out drinking, let alone playing while drunk,


Not to mention, I would have serious concerns about anyone who would continue to play with someone while they are unconcious. Doesn't seem like a very responsible thing to do to me.


Unless you're into that sort of play and agree to it beforehand.

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RE: Hardon while passed out? - 8/1/2005 4:14:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: arryshannadragon

Doing abythung until you pass out is just stupid.

You are taking chances with yourself and others (since you are not responsible for your own well being).

Play of anysort should be concensual and guess what that means AWAKE!!!!

That's not true. After all plenty of people play while in subspace (in fact it's often the GOAL), and for a lot of people that's hardly the same as awake, aware and rational.

I agree that passing out from alcohol is generally unhealthy, but simply not being awake and aware doesn't make play wrong or non-consensual. You can consent to it beforehand or have what people call "non consensual consent" play.

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RE: Hardon while passed out? - 8/2/2005 4:44:33 AM   
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ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2


quote:

ORIGINAL: arryshannadragon

Doing abythung until you pass out is just stupid.

You are taking chances with yourself and others (since you are not responsible for your own well being).

Play of anysort should be concensual and guess what that means AWAKE!!!!

That's not true. After all plenty of people play while in subspace (in fact it's often the GOAL), and for a lot of people that's hardly the same as awake, aware and rational.

I agree that passing out from alcohol is generally unhealthy, but simply not being awake and aware doesn't make play wrong or non-consensual. You can consent to it beforehand or have what people call "non consensual consent" play.


I agree in spirit to what you say. My luvdragon often, and prefers to go so deeply into her subspace that she appears to be unconscious. But I can always bring her back if I feel that she needs to come back. If the 'space' that you go to is caused by too much alcohol, and you can't be readily aroused back to consciousness if an emergency demands, then that's dangerous to everyone involved.

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