MaamJay
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Wow, I can't believe this week! Last Friday, a fem sub I met on collarme drove 4 hours up to visit Me for the first time, after a lot of emails, homework tasks and LONG phone calls. she has fitted in so amazingly well, with both Master and Myself, it has been awesome. As she is a newbie with one former bad experience, I have taken things slowly and gently, and seeing her increase in confidence has been wonderful. At every step, where I have presented her with 2 options, she has chosen the "riskier" or more challenging one ... and then has been so thrilled with her accomplishment! When it came to wearing skirts with or without panties she chose without (a really big deal for her), and in her first Dungeon play session she chose to repeat the activities that had been done badly in her prior experience with someone else, rather than take the easier course of some totally different activity. I am thrilled to say the past bad experience is now behind her, and she was able to get quite spacy (enough to find it hard to count spanks past 22 LOL!). I am just so proud of her, and I will miss her badly when she has to go home on Sunday. W/we are already planning the next visit when the acid test will be to see how well the "kids" get on ... Our 2 white Westies and her black poodle! To say nothing of Our nearly 19 year old cat ... Well if this wasn't feast enough, a male sub who has corresponded with Me here phoned and said he would be in town for a little while this week. As a younger man, O/our potential relationship would likely only be one based on introductory play and education, to give him a taste of this to see if he wishes to venture further into the lifestyle. I made room in the schedule for a coffee meet today ... he was brave enough to meet the whole entourage, Master, Myself and My fem sub! It went very well once he got over his nerves, he appreciated hearing from another newbie and W/we left with the concensus that he was a very nice young man who would be worth the investment of time and energy. So he is starting My reading program for newbies with a view to a play session next time he is in My area! And in all this, Master is My rock, My foundation, My strength and My love. How did I get so lucky??? (Answer ... I just kept practicing!!) One very happy Maam Jay aka violet[A]
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