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RE: sub mentor required - 6/30/2005 7:24:10 AM   
sub4hire


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I dont play with ohters, i dont mix with others from this community. I like my anomyninity that the internet provides. Im not denegrating those that do, its great - for them, not for me. My life is private to me and mine. So the usual luxury of sharing with others is not open to me as a consequence of my privacy, hence the wanting a one on one mentor if that makes sense to you all.

The one friend i do have, that is also a lifestyler, is a ex, and i find their opinions to be awfully biased toward getting me to Domme again, rather than 'pretending to be a sub'. Its that 'other agenda' thing again.

And sub4hire, our view points differ too greatly as our experiences are vastly different. You are not going to have any pressure from me love. I can see that you would however, fullfill this role wonderfully for others, and have learned a lot from your posts. I can see why your name was bravely given by another, nothing quite like being volunteered is there lol.


My dom and I don't play with other's either. Because we run the group. When a good chunk of people don't see us play a few year's back we got braded wannabess. Preaching the education of the lifestyle yet not living it. Because we were'nt renting hotel rooms on every corner playing with anything that happened by.
Well we have a home together. We need not rent hotel rooms. We pick and choose very carefully those we allow in our little circle whom we play in public with...and those very few we actually play with.
So I totally understand your feelings there.
Thank you for not wanting me. Yes, people send people to me all of the time. Although I personally do not feel comfortable with a mentorship online. As I stated, people get hurt.
Some things are just too hard to verify here. It is easy to get played and ripped apart.
So, I'm happy we have different views.
For clarification none of us were upset here. Feline and I talk a great deal offline..and always have. Some people here I do communicate with. She thinks I'm the greatest thing since sliced butter. She had e-mailed me and told me I'd be perfect for the job. I said no I would not...then went behind my back and posted here. The pushy bitch, yet at the same time the very caring person made her do it.

(in reply to pandoravampire)
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