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PairOfDimes -> RE: I hope this all makes sense. (7/29/2007 1:02:37 PM)
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Yes, I have experience with men who wanted to "try on" the role of a woman in private, limited spaces, or who find it erotic to roleplay being a woman--they're something between crossdressers and "proper" transgendered people, I think. And you're absolutely right to distinguish it from forced feminization, or femme humiliation--it seems to work quite differently. It's not a favorite kink of mine. In my experience, interactions generally have overtones of a sort of charm school and makeover--he might want you to instruct him on how to properly apply makeup, or how to walk gracefully in high heels.
(By the way, he'll probably want a very, very femme and idealized, somewhat historical version of femininity--you're not trying to teach him how to supervise a team of men who have never answered to a woman before, or how to kindly remind a mildly sexist professional to pay attention to *both* you and your husband, or other social graces of modern womanhood.)
Did you have a female relative who decided to teach you about properly ladylike behavior as an adolescent? I did--and some of it was archaic and dreadful, but much of it was useful, although that's a topic for another day. Anyhow, if you did have those sorts of conversations, you might dredge them out of your memory and try to exaggerate them for playtime with this man. That's a bit of a strict, admonishing, condescending tone. If not, have you ever gone to a makeup store, a skincare shop, or a boutique, where sales associates fussed over helping you choose the perfect lipstick or moisturizer or dress? That friendly and attentive, yet mildly condescending instructive role might be a different angle to use.
I hope this gives you some general advice. Your question was a touch vague, and it's always easier to answer specific questions. Perhaps this will give you a starting point.
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