desiresluv -> Is it hard for a Dom/Master to keep His word? (7/31/2007 9:19:40 AM)
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In this world of bdsm that we live in...trust and integrity are valuable. I know that a relationship built on cyber space is not one likely to last. So my question is more for the 24/7 relationships or ones working towards that. As submissives, we offer our complete and total trust to our Doms. We give our thoughts, feelings, needs and desires and love to you. In turn, you feed our desires, provide us with a stable, loving environment. You allow us to pleasure you which in turn gives us a great deal of satisfaction and self worth. A true submissive takes a great deal of pride in making her Dom/Master happy and contented. Having our limits pushed is not only exciting but shows us another side to ourselves that we might have not known. So..with that being said...is it hard for a Dom to keep his word to his sub? If his feelings change, for whatever reason...is it feasible to expect him to convey that? A sub always defers to her Dom, so if she is getting warning bells does she have the right to question him? I am not in this situation, but I am looking for the right One for me. I have had a disappointment with a Dom I met online..we did meet in r/l...he lied..enough said..but he did make me think there was a future for us. I am wondering though, because I did have warning bells--I chose to ignore them. I think now it would have been better for me to have confronted him. So..to the Doms/Masters...do you agree that trust is vital and important and that a sub should be able to voice her concerns? I guess I am trying to make sure I don't go through another relationship like my last. Afterall..if you take the time to meet a sub, shouldn't the honesty be expected? Thanks for your input.
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