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cumulus -> RE: How to and safety concerns involving a gangbang (8/2/2007 8:53:13 AM)
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- Safety First
Condoms / Dental Dams are a must. No exceptions. During the scene, you and your Master will need to keep an eye out for condoms that are slipping. Make the adjustments yourself if you can without saying anything about it. If you have to say something, then do so gently. Embarrassment in these situations is unpredictable. Some guys get sensitive about everything. Some don't.
STD/HIV tests also a must. The closer in the timeline to the scene you have those screenings done, the better.
Foreign objects should be left out. No dildos/vibes during the scene. I recommend you 'warm up' any of the holes you intend to use. You need to be loose and heavily lubricated. Essentially hit the ground running. This will prevent any 'overexcitement' thrusting problems early on that could lead to light tearing of the vaginal or anal openings.
Have someone there that's fully dressed and sober at all times that can mitigate problems. They don't have to be standing there in the room. If the lighting is low enough for them to be there unnoticed, then all the better. (I'll cover lighting later) You'd be surprised at how many gangbangs have led to fistfights. Just because you think you know someone, that doesn't mean you know them when they're being aggressive and sexual.
Have cool drinking water / gatorade handy. You're gonna need it. You'll be generating a lot of body fluids. I don't recommend taking breaks unless you have to. Just getting a few seconds to have a drink will be helpful, though.
Have all the things you'll need for a nice, long shower when it's over. It may seem weird, but every girl I've ever known that had a gangbang felt like a million bucks after the shower.
- Environment
It'll get hot in that room very quickly. A ceiling fan is pretty much required, as is good air conditioning. You might consider a box fan or two. For everyone's comfort, it should start out at normal ambient temperature, but be prepared to start dealing with heat as you go. If it's a hotel room, those are the easiest to adjust temperature in since the A/C unit is only cooling one main space.
Lighting shouldn't be high, regardless of what the videos on the net seem to portray. A medium light level is helpful in maintaining mood and rhythm. The brighter the light, the faster guys fuck. I dunno why we do that, but that's how it winds up.
Music is nice, but it's hard to judge what everyone will consider 'mood music', so I'd recommend leaving it out.
Chairs/Sofas, clean towels, and bathrobes. Once someone is 'done', give them access to something to drink, something to wipe the sweat off their face with, something to cover up with, and a place to sit that stays in view of the action.
- Mental Preparation
The fantasy rarely plays out identically in reality. People can do and say some things in a gangbang that you might not be ready for. The guys might not say anything. They may be so tense that the whole thing just doesn't click. And yes.. it has to really click. The guys might talk shit the entire time. Be prepared to be called every name in the book without missing a stroke. In general, these things have a slow start, but once they get going, it's quite a party.
Reconcile with yourself that you're going to be chasing every cock in the room until they've all gotten off. It may take some time. It may happen quickly. You never know. Just be ready to put in the work.
Any reticence or hesitation on your part will be the buzzkill. All energy will start and end with you.
People will laugh, fart, and belch. Your holes will make noises as air gets crammed into them. Some guys will start to stink when they sweat. Lots of little un-sexy things will happen. You will have to simply ignore it and keep going.
- Final Curtain
If this was a gangbang that consisted of all long-time friends, then you already have a relationship with them, and no doubt you can decide what to do next. If you're feeling a little weird, then here's a few suggestions:
When you're done, you are off to the bathroom. I recommend showering immediately. Everyone else should be wrapping up the postgame banter, getting dressed, and moving out the door. The party is over. Your 'team' is helping the guys get things together and shaking hands and expressing gratitude for their participation as they shoo them out. A bunch of people standing around after they've screwed you fifty ways from Sunday can get a little surreal. Every comment and every glance has the potential of either hurting feelings or egos.
Once it's just 'your people' around you, then you can relax. You've had a shower, so maybe have something to eat. Watch TV. Have a nap. Just do it all with your Master. Ideally, a good gangbang will give you an afterglow that you can both bask in.
Talk to your Master about the event. Talk Talk Talk. The one question will be whether or not you'll ever do it again. Don't be too quick to say yes. Make sure you've both talked about everything openly and honestly before coming to any conclusions.
- Fallout
It's ugly, but many times, there are negative consequences to a gangbang. People who have participated might 'assume' that you are sexually available to them at all times. They might start making alot of rude and offhand comments about you that previously they wouldn't have. Some of the guys might start rumors or incite gossip that's damaging to your relationship. Unfortunately, none of this is foreseeable. You can't prepare for it and you can't prevent it. You can only hope to choose the right guys for the event in the first place. Strangers help that situation because in all probability, you won't see them again. Unfortunately, strangers are unreliable for STD/HIV testing ahead of time. Strangers also can't be trusted, so discretion and safety will become even greater concerns.
It's the people you already know that will give you the most trouble with fallout. It's not guaranteed to happen, but it's something to consider.
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