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RE: male slave physical appearance - 8/5/2007 9:30:56 AM

unbroken33

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MisPandora:
Having not been a pro since long before I came to this site, I'm not sure what any of that has to do with the topic at hand. But since you've chosen to take issue with me, I'll address your slight...

i have no issues with anyone who was once a pro, or is currently a pro, so please don't take it as a slight... But You read my profile, and rather than address a question, slam me for even being here. i was really just pointing out that Your situation and needs have changed, and You now sit in judgement of those who once gladly laid tribute at Your feet. Pandora, good luck with Your search, thankYou for all You've contributed to the world of bdsm and pro-domination--for which by the way there is a very legitimate need, by the way. But please don't judge me unless You plan to own me and change me, because i have never judged anyone here.

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RE: male slave physical appearance - 8/5/2007 10:05:42 AM

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I DID address your question -- size/weight has nothing to do with it, but other things do. You simply didn't like my answer and chose to make the retort a personal dig.

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RE: male slave physical appearance - 8/5/2007 5:17:38 PM

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i learned in fine art there are two types of slaves: muscular or rebellious slaves ,and, thin emaciated submissive and slaves.
Guessing by your choice of user names IE:"unbroken" i guess that you are the muscular body/REBELLIOUS SLAVE BODY- type...,(where every tie up looks like a struggle or rebellious),overall ,that hints universally by site alone ,at the possible rebellious slave body type -like it or not-it's universally interpreted and perceived that way.
the other is submissive not rebellious slave, w/ a thin body structure(first impression and presentation).the image, if not muscular is a less rebellious; more sub-image ;accepted as sub more easily..
weather this is true or not ;is an individual case;
and ,weather you can trust that the body ,follows the mind ,or the mind, follows the body .
i believe it's observable -time after time, that:
our minds and emotions are contained ,by the structure ,or body ( shell )we are in ,
and i can prove that little interesting fact;
IE: try being a ''samovar-chair'', for a month ....
,as far as plain fat ;overweight goes, in anyone ;....
you have to plan your moves much more ,and, you don't look good in all positions ,or youre, not comfotable placed in all positions ,not as a skinny person can take any positon
and,still look good or natural ;hence :only the skinny actors can take any direction ;pose and, position ,and ,look comfortable ,in any body pose, in front of the camera, to everyone;
they always will look correct,in any position ,w/out having to say to the camera/or director "wait;
stop!",
and,try to fix a leg ,or an arm first .....,so your actual body-type is ''rebellious''(muscular);
''submissive''(lithe) ,
*or ...has to be a perfectionists (full-figured).

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ORIGINAL: unbroken33

Obviously attitude and true submission are the most important attributes a slave could have. But i want to get back into shape. Mistresses and Masters, which would You rather have in a slave a why? Would You go for someone really skinny and flexible, or muscular?

Right now i'm overweight and out of shape, but that's not a permament condition for me. i've been skinny (135 lb) and very flexible at some points in my life, and quite muscular (coming in around 180 of lean weight) at different points--bear in mind i'm only about 5'7". So, i can either run, stretch and weight train to go for skinny, or weight train, stretch and do lighter forms of cardio to go for muscular. i'm just wondering what You look for, and what generally serves You better. Any advice? ThankYou.

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RE: male slave physical appearance - 8/5/2007 5:24:38 PM

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Outside appearance certainly counts, to a certain extent.
I would not want someone I am ashamed to be seen with.
But, the inside is so much more important than the outside.
Nicer if you can find both in one partner, like I have.

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RE: male slave physical appearance - 8/6/2007 12:50:28 PM

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I like muscle. Thin and in shape is OK but I muscular in shape is better. Also like them over 6' tall. Kind of like the Alpha male type that submits to me and who I tell them to.

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RE: male slave physical appearance - 8/6/2007 1:32:38 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyZee

Personality attracts me so much more than any physical trait possibly could. It is much easier to sculpt/modify a body than a person's intellect, sense of humor and such. I'm especially drawn to those who really understand that submissiveness does not mean having no will, opinions or direction, but rather subjugating your own desires/needs to those of your Dominant partner.

My advice: focus on being happy and healthy for yourself.

i agree.. it is much easier to train someone to eat healthier then to train them to think a different way.. true some ppl r very open minded and can think different ways at anytime.. bit i find it is easier to find some one who thinks they way u want/need and mold the form of that person then the other way around.. in the end its about how u feel your self.

my personal perference is someone who is strong and thin. i didnt say skinny so dont say i did.. thin meaning a lil fat and a lil meat.. muscle is important.. but u can usually work onthat if u dont have any.

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RE: male slave physical appearance - 8/7/2007 10:53:54 AM

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I'm a bigger girl...5'9 1/2 and a bit over 200lbs...in good health and very very flexible.

I want a boy with some meat on his bones...the skinny pointy ones I'm afraid I might hurt them, truly. Also with a bigger boy I love the amount of surface area I have to work with, but dont get me wrong, if you're a bigger boy you'd better be in good health and able to ask "how high" when I say JUMP!

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RE: male slave physical appearance - 8/7/2007 4:51:04 PM

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ORIGINAL: MadameMarque

To me, ideally, a "spare" figure is beautiful - trim, slender, but with muscle working under that, giving some definition. So, not bulging muscle, but enough to create a bit of that V, a bit of meat on the thighs, some pecs. Flexible is more important than stiff muscle. Ideally.

Hmmmm... sounds kinda like me. After viewing your profile, I can only too bad I'm not Asian.

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RE: male slave physical appearance - 8/7/2007 10:58:35 PM

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You have some amazing comments on here, you are full of interesting thoughts

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RE: male slave physical appearance - 8/8/2007 1:32:39 PM

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unbroken33,

you seem to be very 'busy' with your own body. Shall i train it in this way or in the other way?
And training your body especially if you want it in a specific shape or condition costs time, energy, money, a lot of attention...

All this time, energy, money, attention... you put in training your body, you can't put into serving your Mistress. So i think many Mistresses wants a slave who is more concerned for the needs of his Mistress then for the shape of his body.

To much concern for your own body can become a 'fetish', and instead on concentrating on serving your own fetishes you should concentrate on serving your Mistress. Of course a slave must pay attention to his body, his health and his hygiene. If he doesn't do that he is a burden to his Mistress.

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RE: male slave physical appearance - 8/9/2007 3:51:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

I like them a little on the thin side..........But, guys that are a little over weight and not
in the greatest of shape are much easier to train with huge strapons..

Diane

When you look at the weight indexes that tell you what your ideal weight should be, they do not take into account the size frame and muscle structure that a person possesses. For example, I am 6’5”, about 240 lbs, ex college basketball player, and I am overweight according to the index. When I played in college, I was actually 275, but that was from lifting all the time. I have gotten down to 220 and it made my face look gaunt.

So, my question is when a Domme sees a profile of a guy that is 6’5”, 240lbs, is she turned off by the size just assuming that he is too overweight? Maybe that is my problem!

On the other hand, I always wondered if a Domme found it a challenge to boss such a large person around.

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