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as we age - 7/1/2005 8:01:46 AM

dixiedumpling

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I was having an online conversation and this came up and we're both curious about it. Do D/s couples continue to play and scene when they are in their 60's and 70's? And I mean when both of them are that age. I'm not talking about older Doms with much younger subs. As age ravages the body and erodes the ability to kneel or get up without assistance, as women get past menopause with its host of physical changes, what happens to D/s couples? Do they continue to enjoy the lifestyle or do they become like other retired couples playing bridge once a month and eating out every Friday?

(I hate grammatical boo-boos, especially my own!)

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RE: as we age - 7/1/2005 9:51:04 AM

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Oh my...now there is a thought...i can relate to closely...i actually have been doing quite a bit of thinking on that recently. i'm glad you brought it out in the open, my answer to your question is i don't know...but i really wish i did. Because i am in charge of what happens to me at that age...if still without a dominant of course...

...i would want to keep it going. No matter what my age, i will still be me. If it did when i was young, what would stop me from being active in the Lifestyle when i am older? Alter it perhaps. But not done by a long shot. Sometimes aging, i heard, 65-80's brings on depression, and i wouldn't want to play

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much of anything if i was depressed. So the first thing i would do when aging, or at any age for that matter, if i lose all desire to play, is find out if something else is going on. So i can't be of service to you, i don't know what people do. i plan to forge ahead with my bag of equipment till i reach 101. (except i'm going to have to break it down from 2 gym bags to 4) <hugs>

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RE: as we age - 7/1/2005 10:54:35 AM

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I'm not that age so I can only share with you what I've witnessed. Yes they do. I know several D/s couples who are in their 60's and 70's. I guess, being around them and watching them....the biggest fetish of all I've seen is rope.

Not that it matters, but yes they do play.

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RE: as we age - 7/1/2005 12:36:39 PM

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Hubby is 63 and i am 59 and we feel our journey is just beginning. It gets better all the time. We both have our limitations with hip and knee problems but we work around them. I'm not sure what the future holds but i do know that He will always be my Dom, whether we continue to scene or just live together in a D/s context.

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RE: as we age - 7/1/2005 8:39:39 PM

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When pet and I age into our 70's, I'll post to let everyone know how we're doing as well as a link to a web site to see pics and recorded web cam coverage. When you click on it, I don't think you'll find us playing bridge.

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RE: as we age - 7/2/2005 6:21:21 AM

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If my mind holds out, I'll still be willing to top my partner one way or another.

I advise you to log into usenet soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm and look for posts by Thorney ... he's a wonderful writer, a man in his late 60's or early 70's involved in a passionate and torridly physical relationship with an 'older woman' in her 80's.

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RE: as we age - 7/3/2005 1:58:22 PM

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im only 43, so i dont know..... but i guess i'll find out soon enough! lol

i dated a man with dentures before and when they were out, i found kissing a denture-less man to be quite pleasurable...... lol

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RE: as we age - 7/3/2005 3:24:19 PM

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When pet and I age into our 70's, I'll post to let everyone know how we're doing as well as a link to a web site to see pics and recorded web cam coverage. When you click on it, I don't think you'll find us playing bridge.

Well then I guess they'll be watching us play poker because the other stuff isn't going online.

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RE: as we age - 7/3/2005 5:02:07 PM

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I'd sure hope that a few more years doesnt errase my way of thinking. The way I see it is if I think it then it creates a will, and if there is a will there will be a way.

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RE: as we age - 7/3/2005 6:38:36 PM

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so far, this has been the story:

college in the 70's....o boys were so sweet, but being engaged 17 xs is no assurance of good sex; only no 16 gave me oral sex, and i was amazed!

marriage tiill i left him at age 35 -- well, i have a wonderful daughter

30's -- thank God he's gone

40's -- i am successful at work and wrangling with the Lil princess turned teenager-from-hell

late 40's -- HOLY SHIT I WANT SOME SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

at this rate i'll be the bane of some nursing home, ROFL

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