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BondageTopJere -> RE: Romantic Fetishism (8/10/2007 5:54:14 PM)
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Associations, 100 percent, with a healthy dose of symbolism added to it, and I rather suspect its going to be the same for most others who have a fetish for something that could even be remotely tied to being human. I work best by analogy so....
Catholic schoolgirl anyone? Yes, the skirt shows a lot of leg unless it an actual schoolgirl skirt, the blouse tend to be easy to take off, pull up etc. But the reality of it is the outfit is tied very strongly with youthfullness, and thus by extension everything that is stereotyped as the attribute of the girl child. Playfullness, innocence, feminity, happiness; all words that easily come to mind when the idea of "girl" crosses the brain. For some, it evokes strong "parent protector" emotions and feelings; for others the whole "rape, pillage, and plunder" instinct is brought forth, and its sometimes a combination of both.
But what about something a little less stereotypical? Tennis shoes, running shoes, cros-trainers etc. The Nikes, the Adidas, The K-swiss etc. Both men and women wear them, albeit with a bit of disticntive styling. This is one of mine btw, but it did take me quite a while to figure out why I had this paticular attraction. Then one day (ever notice that epiphanies always start with "then one day " ?) it dawned on me it wasn't the shoes I found attractive on of themselves, but the people who tend to wear them the most that I liked, namely women who tend to workout a lot or just have a lot of energy to burn, which is a quality I like quite a bit.
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