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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/11/2007 2:25:25 PM

salilus

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Why are there so many rotund men, throwing their weight around and calling it domination?

Don't get me wrong: my best friend is fat! I'm just curious, is all.

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/11/2007 2:30:20 PM

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I think he's off to a great start, and right out of the gate too. 4 posts and 3 intriguing, thought provoking questions.

1) Am I a Dom?
2) How do I know I'm a member of the elite Dom society?
3) Why so many chubby subbies.

I've no clue really...after my long conversation in IM's with the Englus teechur (his spelling not mine), and sorting through messages from marble egg wielding Dominants, I'm too exhausted to respond. Probably a good thing.

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/11/2007 2:49:01 PM

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1) Am I a Dom?

because he said so??

2) How do I know I'm a member of the elite Dom society?

because he said so?
3) Why so many chubby subbies.

because they ate the skinny doms???

lol

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/11/2007 2:53:58 PM

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Warm greetings,

I have been to many public events and have found that larger women out number smaller women (estimate of course) by about 8 to 1. There must be a reason that women who are larger are much more comfortable with their appearance, sexuality and public expression of their desires then their smaller counterparts. I actually envy the women who are able to do so.

wishing all well :)

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/11/2007 3:03:50 PM

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I would give almost anything to have my figure back…. I love me as a person, but hate how fat and out of shape I have allowed myself to get…

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/11/2007 3:58:26 PM

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I agree, why so many Masters that are fat and out of shape?

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/11/2007 4:11:33 PM

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Given the utter inanity of your questions, I have one for you, Stevie....

Are you truly a clueless dweeb or rather a trolling HNG?

(want to be sure to put you in the correct species)

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/11/2007 4:37:46 PM

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My thoughts? Well, who really gives a fuck all is my thoughts. I mean really Steve, if it doesn't effect you why should you care if some little piggy is on her knees to another guy? Right? I only care about the girls in my collar. As long as I can stand looking at them it's all good. That and as long as I don't have to wrestle them for the last pork chop, that is.

There is also the fact that men allow their women to get fat, don't they? Thats what I've seen. "I love you the way you are." Isn't that what they always say? And what do the women say? "You have to love me the way I am." No thanks. A girl of mine will toe the line as I do or it just isn't going to work. That means I'll say if their wieght is acceptable and if not, it changes.

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/11/2007 5:14:40 PM

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There really should be a required IQ test before an ISP is allowed to hand out internet subscriptions.

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/11/2007 5:20:00 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: instynctive

There really should be a required IQ test before an ISP is allowed to hand out internet subscriptions.

wow, that wasn't very nice.

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/11/2007 5:49:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

wow, that wasn't very nice.

Perhaps not, but it's true.

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/11/2007 5:55:01 PM

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why should a persons weight determine your opinion on them being a good Dom or for that matter sub. I guess maybe we were also supposed to judge a person based on their character and their kindness rather than if they are over weight. Honestly who cares what you weigh as long as your a good and decent human being!

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/11/2007 6:00:24 PM

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i agree...too many shallow people in this world

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/11/2007 6:06:06 PM

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As Garfield would say, "I'm not overweight, I'm undertall." Lol

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/11/2007 9:07:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: MasterSteve57

Why is it that so many subbie ladies are chubby? Don't get me wrong I actually prefer a fuller-figured submissive woman. (within reason).

But why are there so many? Does it have to do with low self-esteem? Or are heavy women more sexually liberated in their thinking? Or are they more sexually desperate?

Your thoughts?

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A while back someone asked why so many Dommes were overweight.

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/11/2007 9:13:47 PM

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Because we can take a licking and keep on tickin!

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/11/2007 9:19:37 PM

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that sounds sturdy.

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/11/2007 9:40:09 PM

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I am not a BBW, and I am still offended at this kind of Q. It is a certain strain of question, even when it is cloaked in the guise of "intellectual curiosity" - and it usually comes from Dominant men. Some (not all) of them are usually:

1) Overweight to some degree themselves

2) Obviously fail to workout or exercise

3) Have poor taste in clothing

4) Lack manners generally

I am not saying the OP is in this category (I really am not). I just don't understand how a man who exhibits qualities above 1-4 (or 1 or 2 of them, even) - can reasonably assert he demands a female submissive who is:

1) Beautiful

2) "Stays in shape"

3) Is the "Epitome of grace" - And so on.

It's laughable.

***At times like these, I say to myself: *Give me a male submissive - who actually takes care of his own physical appearance, and also truly knows how to treat a woman. I know there are HOT, decent, trustworthy male Dominants out there who don't act this way, and I am a Switch. BUT-

There are more than a handful of male Dom profiles around that tout attitudes like the OP's, I just have to wonder if these men ever stop to ask themselves: Does saying this even make sense? Especially considering what I myself am offerring to a woman?

I am not saying it's not a fair or intellectuially intriguing question. But face-it: The "real answer" is still going to be a matter of opinion. And anyway - someone out there loves BBW's. If it's not you - then, Oh Well. Would it kill the OP to just not ask, and simply move on with his search, instead?

I am just really tired of seeing these kinds of comments. Thanks for listening to my rant. I rarely rant - but these kinds of threads have just really gotten to me. Everyone has their "breaking point". I guess I've reached mine.

- Susan

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/11/2007 10:01:09 PM

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*sees another overweight sub thread and runs around in circles screaming* NOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/11/2007 10:05:36 PM

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Why are so many masters idiots?

Damn beotch beat me to it!!

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