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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/17/2007 9:20:10 AM

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I think it would be nice if there could actually be personals sites for a change, while Pro's and FD's continue on their sites. This would make it easier for everyone including Dommes looking for relationships, subs looking for Dommes for relationships and the like. I dont feel this is going to happen though because any personals site that was evermade will end up with a vast majority of Pro's FD's amd tribute Dommes on while the other Dommes get peterbed and dont bother and as a result the sites become less usefull for subs too and they end up essentually as little good for anyone unless you are a sub looking for a fix or a Domme looking to make a profit.

Heres an idea for you...Go start one of YOUR own.
That way you can control everything.No Pros or FD allowed.
Simple as that.

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/17/2007 9:22:40 AM

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ORIGINAL: FitnessModel
I once applied to be a financial slave, my query was declined with a reply which went "You dont look desperate enough to me"
You may not look desperate, but they say looks can be deceiving.

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I found this an insult. I cannot see how one "looks" has anything to do with their sexual procliveties?! Financial Domination being a genuine fetish it should have nothing to do with that.
Oh puhleez captain obvious. I see your condemnation and judgement of those who don't share your kink are still in full effect, and you're just here to bitch, bitch, bitch, and rage against all the women who don't think you're worth a million dollars on looks alone, and therefore exempt from having to put forth any more effort in terms of work/submission/personality. Good luck with your looks babe, and if you're not a living testament to the fact that looks mean very little, I don't know who is. M

lol, its pretty clear you are determined to convince yourself I want to get by on looks alone. I would not feel that good about myself if that where the case regarding the kind of attention it might irk, as opposed to people getting to know me as a person.

and I see FD as the masochistic erotisizaton of a statistical disadvantage, masochism can be contextualized and interpreted in many ways. Its just as valid fetish as castration, amputee etc on those terms. However FD reaps in an altogether different advantage for the Domme which could suggest as to why it is so very popular. So its ok you dont have to worry I still know FD is a genuine fetish but I dont look at things black and white all the time becuase most things never are anyway.

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/17/2007 9:25:55 AM

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ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66

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ORIGINAL: FitnessModel

I think it would be nice if there could actually be personals sites for a change, while Pro's and FD's continue on their sites. This would make it easier for everyone including Dommes looking for relationships, subs looking for Dommes for relationships and the like. I dont feel this is going to happen though because any personals site that was evermade will end up with a vast majority of Pro's FD's amd tribute Dommes on while the other Dommes get peterbed and dont bother and as a result the sites become less usefull for subs too and they end up essentually as little good for anyone unless you are a sub looking for a fix or a Domme looking to make a profit.

Heres an idea for you...Go start one of YOUR own.
That way you can control everything.No Pros or FD allowed.
Simple as that.

I couldnt agree more and if I had the time I would. However I do not think it would work anyway, I have written about why that is on the 5 post from the bottom on page 4.

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/17/2007 9:36:41 AM

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ORIGINAL: FitnessModel

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ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66

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ORIGINAL: FitnessModel

I think it would be nice if there could actually be personals sites for a change, while Pro's and FD's continue on their sites. This would make it easier for everyone including Dommes looking for relationships, subs looking for Dommes for relationships and the like. I dont feel this is going to happen though because any personals site that was evermade will end up with a vast majority of Pro's FD's amd tribute Dommes on while the other Dommes get peterbed and dont bother and as a result the sites become less usefull for subs too and they end up essentually as little good for anyone unless you are a sub looking for a fix or a Domme looking to make a profit.

Heres an idea for you...Go start one of YOUR own.
That way you can control everything.No Pros or FD allowed.
Simple as that.

I couldnt agree more and if I had the time I would. However I do not think it would work anyway, I have written about why that is on the 5 post from the bottom on page 4.

Thanks but I read it once and that was more than enough.
I was just trying to help you out so maybe you could stop bitchin already.

Now...I'm off to suck the money out of every submissive I meet...

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/17/2007 9:47:07 AM

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ORIGINAL: FitnessModel

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ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66

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ORIGINAL: FitnessModel

I think it would be nice if there could actually be personals sites for a change, while Pro's and FD's continue on their sites. This would make it easier for everyone including Dommes looking for relationships, subs looking for Dommes for relationships and the like. I dont feel this is going to happen though because any personals site that was evermade will end up with a vast majority of Pro's FD's amd tribute Dommes on while the other Dommes get peterbed and dont bother and as a result the sites become less usefull for subs too and they end up essentually as little good for anyone unless you are a sub looking for a fix or a Domme looking to make a profit.

Heres an idea for you...Go start one of YOUR own.
That way you can control everything.No Pros or FD allowed.
Simple as that.

I couldnt agree more and if I had the time I would. However I do not think it would work anyway, I have written about why that is on the 5 post from the bottom on page 4.

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ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66

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ORIGINAL: FitnessModel

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66

quote:

ORIGINAL: FitnessModel

I think it would be nice if there could actually be personals sites for a change, while Pro's and FD's continue on their sites. This would make it easier for everyone including Dommes looking for relationships, subs looking for Dommes for relationships and the like. I dont feel this is going to happen though because any personals site that was evermade will end up with a vast majority of Pro's FD's amd tribute Dommes on while the other Dommes get peterbed and dont bother and as a result the sites become less usefull for subs too and they end up essentually as little good for anyone unless you are a sub looking for a fix or a Domme looking to make a profit.

Heres an idea for you...Go start one of YOUR own.
That way you can control everything.No Pros or FD allowed.
Simple as that.

I couldnt agree more and if I had the time I would. However I do not think it would work anyway, I have written about why that is on the 5 post from the bottom on page 4.

Thanks but I read it once and that was more than enough.
I was just trying to help you out so maybe you could stop bitchin already.

Now...I'm off to suck the money out of every submissive I meet...

Too right! I think youve got a good point there, I should stop my bitching! On this place I might as well be someone walking into a Pro Dommes dungeon and asking why he cant find a girlfreind in there! lol. Perhaps I'll just leave these places eventually altogether like many of the other lifestyle people and other Dommes, Ive been less and less interested in them over time anyway. Oh well, its good to stick around for the messages in my inbox from the Canada and the States.

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/17/2007 11:00:00 AM

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model,
No wonder you get approached by Dommes in the U.S. when your perving them what would you expect.

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/17/2007 11:13:11 AM

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Here comes the WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAmbulance!

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/17/2007 11:30:55 AM

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If they just added a professional category it would make it easier for all but they arent that hard to ignore. Personally if i was after professional services then i wouldnt be impressed with anyone advertising here as there are much better free sites for pros or they can easily afford to pay for a professionally presented site of their own. Each to their own i guess.

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/17/2007 11:35:47 AM

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I do professionally presented sites...

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/17/2007 12:02:21 PM

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ORIGINAL: TheKernel

If they just added a professional category it would make it easier for all but they arent that hard to ignore. Personally if i was after professional services then i wouldnt be impressed with anyone advertising here as there are much better free sites for pros or they can easily afford to pay for a professionally presented site of their own. Each to their own i guess.

I see nothing wrong with using whatever means that are available.
When first starting out I didnt have the money for a site(building the dungeon up was more important) now I do.
But I still stay here...why because I have met some really awesome P/people here.
Some are loyal worms,some are just friends.
I know its hard to understand,but some guys really enjoy a Pro for
so many reasons I cant even list them all.

And on a side note... I have seen some of Instynctives websites and He does a great job.

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/17/2007 12:49:44 PM

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ORIGINAL: TheKernel

If they just added a professional category it would make it easier for all but they arent that hard to ignore. Personally if i was after professional services then i wouldnt be impressed with anyone advertising here as there are much better free sites for pros or they can easily afford to pay for a professionally presented site of their own. Each to their own i guess.

I see nothing wrong with using whatever means that are available.
When first starting out I didnt have the money for a site(building the dungeon up was more important) now I do.
But I still stay here...why because I have met some really awesome P/people here.
Some are loyal worms,some are just friends.
I know its hard to understand,but some guys really enjoy a Pro for
so many reasons I cant even list them all.

And on a side note... I have seen some of Instynctives websites and He does a great job.

As I said there are plenty of free sites for professionals. You dont need money. You have underlined the point I was making. I do appreciate not everyone has the time or knowledge to delve through the minefield when starting. As you say "when you were starting out", so shows instantly you are inexperienced at leastas a pro is concerned I dont expect I am the only one that would think that either. Just a general rule of thumb really in the same way inexperienced emails are judged. I in no way criticised pros for thier service or their clients, as you say there are many and varied reasons.

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/17/2007 12:53:42 PM

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And on a side note... I have seen some of Instynctives websites and He does a great job.

Awww.. thank You, Mistress. :-)

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/17/2007 12:55:09 PM

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Hrmm.. 5 posts and already fighting with people...

This is a disturbing trend..

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/17/2007 1:35:05 PM

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Hrmm.. 5 posts and already fighting with people...

This is a disturbing trend..

Really could you point out where I was "fighting".? It looked much like a discussion to me. I may have 5 posts but i wouldnt presume i am a "newbie" to forums or even BDSM forums at that. I just answered someone who responded to a comment I made in a civil manner.

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/17/2007 2:44:13 PM

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*yawwwwn*

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/17/2007 2:58:38 PM

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Yes you are correct-Max Fisch is really the place to go for sites, reviews, valuable insights into pro sessions. I am here because I love the message boards and I have found my best longterm play partners on CM-the ones who come over to act a guinea pigs for new toys, equipment, leather outfits.....If someone approaches for a session, I give them my Domina Ms. web address, up to them if they want to pursue it.

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/17/2007 3:05:10 PM

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I do professionally presented sites...

Wow do I need you then! Could you pm me some of them?

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/17/2007 3:15:38 PM

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You've got mail...

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/17/2007 3:39:53 PM

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Even if instynctive has taken an instant dislike to me I hope he gets a few commissions out of this. ;)

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/17/2007 4:06:02 PM

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No, no "instant dislike" at all.. I'm not not in the mood for a debate today..

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