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"Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/13/2007 1:42:35 PM

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Seriously, whose fetish is "financial domination"? I know of no one who says:
"Yup, time to get myself a Financial Domme".

Please don't get me wrong, I have no problem making the goddess of my choice as happy and rich as I possibly can, but we better be sharing a residence if I'm going to be financially dominated.

The endless influx of Nigerian scammers with their "am good lookin honest godfearing name Cindy Smith lokin honest man soul mate" profiles aside, this site is a bit too crowded with supposed lifestylers requiring tributes up front prior to further exploration/evaluation and/or "financial domination".

Makes a sincere fellow with an unlimited offering of devotion to give wonder about the sincerity of many of the ladies here.

Best wishes to all. :~)

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/13/2007 1:49:23 PM

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hum. good luck in this thread, pal.

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/13/2007 1:54:13 PM

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Seriously, whose fetish is "financial domination"? I know of no one who says, "Yup, time to get myself a Financial Dom"

You are wrong here. Who died and left you the the determinant of what others' kinks ought to be seriously. My first slave could have been just that if I were a financial dominant; I'm not saying that I'm not, would just require a long term commitment along with it.

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Please don't get me wrong, I have no problem making the goddess of my choice as happy and rich as I possibly can, but we better be sharing a residence if I'm going to be financially dominated

Nothing wrong with your parameters, but they needn't be everyone else's rule right?

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The endless influx of Nigerian scammers with their "am good lookin honest godfearing name Cindy Smith lokin honest man soul mate" profiles aside, this site is a bit too crowded with supposed lifestylers requiring tributes up front prior to further exploration/evaluation and/or "financial domination".

You're mixing up way too many issues on here. The scammers from any part of the world are a part of the internet now, and everyone should use his brains/senses to fell out whether he's being taken for a ride before giving up something he cannot afford to lose.

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Makes a sincere fellow with an unlimited offering of devotion to give wonder about the sincerity of many of the ladies here.

Good to see you consider yourself a sincere fellow with an unlimited devotion. Good luck than in finding whom you should devote yourself to sincerely, and try and skip the ladies whose profiles annoy you and make you think phony. M

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/13/2007 1:57:31 PM

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/13/2007 1:58:57 PM

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hum. good luck in this thread, pal.

Thanks.

A more direct response to the question(s) raised would be appreciated, but the good wishes are most welcomed.

As scientific studies now have shown, we basically make our own luck, and I'm grateful for the good luck I've enjoyed throughout my life.

May all be so blessed.

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/13/2007 2:07:42 PM

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Makes a sincere fellow with an unlimited offering of devotion to give wonder about the sincerity of many of the ladies here.

Best wishes to all. :~)

More like you should be asking about the sincerity of the boys who ask for it, I can tell you, I get at least two offers a week from seemingly intelligent guys who want to be financially dominated-- (not My thing)--as someone said to Me a few days ago, don't knock someone's fetish, you might have some that make us shudder.

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/13/2007 2:10:19 PM

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Seriously, whose fetish is "financial domination"? I know of no one who says, "Yup, time to get myself a Financial Dom"
You are wrong here. Who died and left you the the determinant of what others' kinks ought to be seriously. My first slave could have been just that if I were a financial dominant; I'm not saying that I'm not, would just require a long term commitment along with it.

I've claimed to speak for no one other than myself and my observations are true to myself. However, I do agree with that a long term relationship would be required.

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ORIGINAL: FullfigRIMaam

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Please don't get me wrong, I have no problem making the goddess of my choice as happy and rich as I possibly can, but we better be sharing a residence if I'm going to be financially dominated
Nothing wrong with your parameters, but they needn't be everyone else's rule right?

To each their own. But, the question remains, how many men (in comparison to the abundance of "Financial Dominants") really seek this from women they hardly know?

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The endless influx of Nigerian scammers with their "am good lookin honest godfearing name Cindy Smith lokin honest man soul mate" profiles aside, this site is a bit too crowded with supposed lifestylers requiring tributes up front prior to further exploration/evaluation and/or "financial domination".
You're mixing up way too many issues on here. The scammers from any part of the world are a part of the internet now, and everyone should use his brains/senses to fell out whether he's being taken for a ride before giving up something he cannot afford to lose.

Am I really mixing up too many issues when there are so many now here just looking for money?

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Makes a sincere fellow with an unlimited offering of devotion to give wonder about the sincerity of many of the ladies here.
Good to see you consider yourself a sincere fellow with an unlimited devotion. Good luck than in finding whom you should devote yourself to sincerely, and try and skip the ladies whose profiles annoy you and make you think phony. M

No problem there, but these are forums, right?

Best wishes to You. :~)

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/13/2007 2:18:55 PM

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Ah Demand Trubite! Ah SPEEK Gud enlish!

Indeed!

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/13/2007 2:24:24 PM

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Makes a sincere fellow with an unlimited offering of devotion to give wonder about the sincerity of many of the ladies here.

Best wishes to all. :~)

More like you should be asking about the sincerity of the boys who ask for it, I can tell you, I get at least two offers a week from seemingly intelligent guys who want to be financially dominated-- (not My thing)--as someone said to Me a few days ago, don't knock someone's fetish, you might have some that make us shudder.

Wow, amazing. See the genius of question asking? I'd never have imagined any man (let alone several a week) asking for "Financial Domination". Perhaps they need money managers in a bad way. ;~)

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/13/2007 2:28:14 PM

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I find this to be an interesting conversation only because I know a number of female dominants who are annoyed by the influx of "financial dommes" as a lot of male subs are... I don't think the issue is financial dommes as a whole, so much as the ones who are either a.) fakes or b.) not actually interested in D/s but rather are just viewing it as a way to make a quick buck.

I know of a number of perfectly legitimate financial dommes that hang out around here. I don't serve them, as it is not my thing. That doesn't change the fact that they are legitimate dominants and deserve to be respected as such. They are actually the ones I feel bad for the most, as they put up with no end of crap BECAUSE of the bad eggs among them.

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/13/2007 2:38:32 PM

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I find this to be an interesting conversation only because I know a number of female dominants who are annoyed by the influx of "financial dommes" as a lot of male subs are... I don't think the issue is financial dommes as a whole, so much as the ones who are either a.) fakes or b.) not actually interested in D/s but rather are just viewing it as a way to make a quick buck.

I know of a number of perfectly legitimate financial dommes that hang out around here. I don't serve them, as it is not my thing. That doesn't change the fact that they are legitimate dominants and deserve to be respected as such. They are actually the ones I feel bad for the most, as they put up with no end of crap BECAUSE of the bad eggs among them.

Understood. As I responded to someone who PM'ed me that there is a growing number of pretty young ladies stating right off they are "financial dommes", it's as if they have decided to "work" here instead of Starbucks or Blockbuster.

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/13/2007 2:41:44 PM

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what if they have? What's it to you?

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/13/2007 2:46:55 PM

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what if they have? What's it to you?

Well, for one thing, this site does not represent itself as just another gateway to pro dommes. More importantly, if you are a true lifestyle dominant, then the more important question might be what does this new flood mean to you? ;~)

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/13/2007 3:36:51 PM

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I am not now nor have I ever been a pay for play dominant. However, I have been approached by men who have offered to pay for specific desires and have even suggested I "go pro". While I have toyed with the idea on various occasions, I have to this day refused. Not because I couldn't use the extra cash flow but because receiving money for who and what I am and do simply isn't "my thing". I don't knock those who choose to do so and respect their choice just as I hope others respect my choices in what I consider my life/lovestyle.

Yes, there are a great number of "up and coming dommes" who are very specific regarding financial domination. After all, it can be a very lucrative business if she knows what she's doing and perhaps if I were 25 yrs younger I'd seriously consider it as a career for myself... (only half joking)

I have received various gifts over the years simply because it is something the submissive wanted to do, not because I demanded them. I do however, have no problem financially dominating my partner in an established long term D/S relationship where we have both agreed that what's his... Is also mine ~

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/13/2007 3:53:47 PM

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I am not now nor have I ever been a pay for play dominant. However, I have been approached by men who have offered to pay for specific desires and have even suggested I "go pro". While I have toyed with the idea on various occasions, I have to this day refused. Not because I couldn't use the extra cash flow but because receiving money for who and what I am and do simply isn't "my thing". I don't knock those who choose to do so and respect their choice just as I hope others respect my choices in what I consider my life/lovestyle.

Yes, there are a great number of "up and coming dommes" who are very specific regarding financial domination. After all, it can be a very lucrative business if she knows what she's doing and perhaps if I were 25 yrs younger I'd seriously consider it as a career for myself... (only half joking)

I have received various gifts over the years simply because it is something the submissive wanted to do, not because I demanded them. I do however, have no problem financially dominating my partner in an established long term D/S relationship where we have both agreed that what's his... Is also mine ~

There's no question those gifts You do receive are 100% Pure Devotion in full appreciation of whom You are. And, yes, in a relationship, what is his is indeed Yours. But, imagine what it would be like if he "tributed" much of it away before he was lucky enough to meet You.

My best wishes are always with You. Rock on.

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/13/2007 4:14:41 PM

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I don't have a better alternative, what would you suggest? I fear that money is obfuscating the scene, which is strange as everything else is negotiated. There should not be a stigma, but that's my opinion. I assume some Pro (and non pro) dommes are just acting but there are crooked cops, incompetent doctors and that doesn't ruin those professions in whole.

Money is just one commodity, If you place a stigma on exchanging commodities realize that you selected that perception and you have a choice. Many subs enjoy paying for assorted reasons, for others it's neither positive or negative. Cash flow varies, as does the emotional vesting every individual experiences. Synopses, it's your issue not mine!

I am also compensated for the educational seminars or classes I offer, does paying diminish the value? Not at all, in fact there's an economic principle called "implied value". So, what's the difference? I fulfill in both cases and am valued. Some people go to a library, others just buy a book. In both cases that book was purchased, directly or indirectly. One is not better than the other, they are just different with unique advantages and disadvantages.

At risk of you becoming defensive I see you as one of "those people" who say how a real Domme/Dom should conduct themselves. And yes it's worth repeating that judging participants actions in the lifestyle opens you to that same critical examination. As Rodney King said "Can't we all just get along?"

MaDom Aura

While on the subject this kind of thread was posted and active days ago. I wonder why these flammable threads just reignite?

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/13/2007 4:46:15 PM

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I don't have a better alternative, what would you suggest? I fear that money is obfuscating the scene, which is strange as everything else is negotiated. There should not be a stigma, but that's my opinion. I assume some Pro (and non pro) dommes are just acting but there are crooked cops, incompetent doctors and that doesn't ruin those professions in whole.

Money is just one commodity, If you place a stigma on exchanging commodities realize that you selected that perception and you have a choice. Many subs enjoy paying for assorted reasons, for others it's neither positive or negative. Cash flow varies, as does the emotional vesting every individual experiences. Synopses, it's your issue not mine!

Thank You, for Your input. I do agree that money is obfuscating the scene. However, I don't think that there's a stigma on people exchanging "commodities" when it comes out of true devotion. Nor is this really an issue with me as much as it is an observation of how something genuine can become corrupted by one placing a "tribute" demand up front. No prob for me, I don't seek "sessions" as much as I seek a reality of substance. If I offered You a yummy ice cream cone, You'd smile with happiness until I mentioned I needed a buck fifthy first for it.

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I am also compensated for the educational seminars or classes I offer, does paying diminish the value? Not at all, in fact there's an economic principle called "implied value". So, what's the difference? I fulfill in both cases and am valued. Some people go to a library, others just buy a book. In both cases that book was purchased, directly or indirectly. One is not better than the other, they are just different with unique advantages and disadvantages.

That's great. You should be compensated for Your educational efforts. And, as a champion of the arts, I clearly feel the artist has the right to a living. But, at the same time, the "labor of love" involved with the arts also encourages a greater exposure of the art.

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ORIGINAL: MaDomAura
At risk of you becoming defensive I see you as one of "those people" who say how a real Domme/Dom should conduct themselves. And yes it's worth repeating that judging participants actions in the lifestyle opens you to that same critical examination. As Rodney King said "Can't we all just get along?"

MaDom Aura

While on the subject this kind of thread was posted and active days ago. I wonder why these flammable threads just reignite?

I have never been one to either tell others how they must live nor have I been one to remain silent when I have felt a need to express my personal opinions.

Not having seen the other thread (I am not one to normally visit these forums), I assure You that this thread is not "flammable" in intent. Rather, it is a discussion which I feel we all may take something positive away from.

Rock on.

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/13/2007 4:57:44 PM

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I do practise FinDom. I've been lifestyle, professional, and lifestyle. I don't use CM as anything other than a way to make personal play contacts and participate on boards.

FinDom is a logical outcropping, to me, of the kind of humiliation and psychological play interests I have. Why is it OK that everyone plays to the gender/power question but the minute someone plays to the class/money/power question she's ruining the scene?

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/13/2007 4:58:58 PM

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I have received various gifts over the years simply because it is something the submissive wanted to do, not because I demanded them. I do however, have no problem financially dominating my partner in an established long term D/S relationship where we have both agreed that what's his... Is also mine ~

There's no question those gifts You do receive are 100% Pure Devotion in full appreciation of whom You are. And, yes, in a relationship, what is his is indeed Yours. But, imagine what it would be like if he "tributed" much of it away before he was lucky enough to meet You.

My best wishes are always with You. Rock on.

What needs to be remembered here is, those who pay tribute have made the conscious choice to do so. Ours is not to question why but to respect that individual's choice, for it must satisfy some want, need or desire that perhaps cannot be satisfied any other way. On the otherhand, there are those for whom it is a fetish like any other and obviously prefer to be dominated this way. Those who require tribute as pro dommes are simply providing a service much like any profession and most certainly should be compensated for it.

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RE: "Financial Domination" as a career choice? - 8/13/2007 5:13:36 PM

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I do practise FinDom. I've been lifestyle, professional, and lifestyle. I don't use CM as anything other than a way to make personal play contacts and participate on boards.

FinDom is a logical outcropping, to me, of the kind of humiliation and psychological play interests I have. Why is it OK that everyone plays to the gender/power question but the minute someone plays to the class/money/power question she's ruining the scene?

"FinDom"

Excuse me for at first thinking You had misspelled FemDom. It strikes me as signifigant that this practice now has its own quick abbreviation.

I can understand some "playing the class/money/power" aspect. But when almost all new young female players are requesting a tribute up front before becoming acquainted, isn't this more a career choice than an honest celebration of empowerment?

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