HisAlphaSlaveJ
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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster This seems to have gone from a positive experience to a not-so-positive experience, and at this point the thread is getting out of hand. We really need to get a play by play on other people's failed relationships? That shit always nauseates me, especially when you only get one side of the story. Sir, I would have to agree to disagree. We did meet chellekitty in person and she is a very sweet girl, has a good heart, has good intentions. Just because the consideration of a collar pending training did not work out or was not a good fit for our household does not mean she will not be a good fit for someone elses household. It was a mutual agreement for both parties to part and again I feel you can learn and make somethng positive out of any situation if you choose to. I was simply in agreement with her public post in another thread "another one bites the dust", and did not want to hyjack that thread so i posted it on my thread instead... I was simply in agreement with her that maybe she was not ready, maybe she did need to work on the me before she could become a we. Working on self improvement is not negative, actually it is positive step in the right direction. Poly relationships or any relationship for that matter are work and do require feedback and communication and you can learn, I think the word You used is "failure", you can learn from failures or from wrong fit's. It is not a bad thing, and i do not look at it as a failure but as a learning experience, a positive one at that. I do not consider it airing dirty laundry or trying to make people look bad or feel bad, that is not my intent. I think the word You used is "nauseated". The girl does have a account and she can respond if she so wishes so, create new threads which she has done, there is no claim to "one side of the story". If you wish to read her threads they can be located under hisbellaluna or chellekitty. And We truly wish nothing but good things for her, along her journey in this lifestyle. she has alot to offer to the right couple or Master and I sincerely hope she finds the fit that is right for her and her needs. And as always if this thread bothers You, you can hit the little x in the upper right corner or the little red hand in the lower left corner. Ending the thread on a positive note His Alpha Slave J
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