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We Met ChelleKitty - 8/13/2007 4:54:14 PM   
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We met chellekitty and let's just say she is everything she represented herself to be...and in this day and time that is a refreshing change. Master was so pleased He offered her a collar of consideration and a formal collaring is pending training and relocation to DFW Tx. Please welcome the beautiful slave now known as Hisbellaluna to the family.


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RE: We Met ChelleKitty - 8/17/2007 7:28:17 AM   
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grinz, i didn't even know this was posted...

after taking a chance and being picked up at a truck stop, i spent a good amount of time in the home of these two and found a place that i will call home...the seperation wasn't as hard as it has been in the past cause i knew i would be back...right now...long distance sucks...but i gotta get loose ends tied up...my Sir and my sister are everything they claimed to be, and wanted nothing more from me than was stated...no organ donor contracts were force-signed (sorry i watched the Pet on my way up lol) and i even went home with a few good reminders...only 42 days till i see them again...sigh...

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RE: We Met ChelleKitty - 8/17/2007 11:42:39 AM   
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 bella luna (beautiful moon),

well maybe if you "tie up the loose ends quicker" you can be up here sooner......winks!

J

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RE: We Met ChelleKitty - 8/25/2007 9:54:59 PM   
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chelle,

i am so sorry you did not work out under consideration,  and yes i agree with your assesment, work on the me before you become a we. best of luck to you and your future!

sincerely,
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RE: We Met ChelleKitty - 8/26/2007 12:30:01 AM   
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This seems to have gone from a positive experience to a not-so-positive experience, and at this point the thread is getting out of hand.  We really need to get a play by play on other people's failed relationships?  That shit always nauseates me, especially when you only get one side of the story.

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RE: We Met ChelleKitty - 8/26/2007 12:45:21 AM   
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RE: We Met ChelleKitty/Positive Experience - 8/26/2007 1:02:51 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

This seems to have gone from a positive experience to a not-so-positive experience, and at this point the thread is getting out of hand.  We really need to get a play by play on other people's failed relationships?  That shit always nauseates me, especially when you only get one side of the story.



Sir,

I would have to agree to disagree.

We did meet chellekitty in person and she is a very sweet girl, has a good heart, has good intentions. Just because the consideration of a collar pending training did not work out or was not a good fit for our household does not mean she will not be a good fit for someone elses household.

It was a mutual agreement for both parties to part and again I feel you can learn and make somethng positive out of any situation if you choose to.

I was simply in agreement with her public post in another thread "another one bites the dust",  and did not want to hyjack that thread so i posted it on my thread instead...

I was simply in agreement with her that maybe she was not ready, maybe she did need to work on the me before she could become a we.  Working on self improvement is not negative, actually it is positive step in the right direction.

Poly relationships or any relationship for that matter are work and do require feedback and communication and you can learn, I think the word You used is "failure", you can learn from failures or from wrong fit's. It is not a bad thing, and i do not look at it as a failure but as a learning experience, a positive one at that.

I do not consider it airing dirty laundry or trying to make people look bad or feel bad, that is not my intent. I think the word You used is "nauseated". The girl does have a account and she can respond if she so wishes so, create new threads which she has done,  there is no claim to "one side of the story". If you wish to read her threads they can be located under hisbellaluna or chellekitty.

And We truly wish nothing but good things for her, along her journey in this lifestyle. she has alot to offer to the right couple or Master and I sincerely hope she finds the fit that is right for her and her needs.

And as always if this thread bothers You, you can hit the little x in the upper right corner or the little red hand in the lower left corner.

Ending the thread on a positive note
His Alpha Slave J

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RE: We Met ChelleKitty/Positive Experience - 8/26/2007 1:08:52 PM   
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I don't see where she mentioned either one of you by name in "another one bites the dust."  That makes a difference.  There's a fine line between what you can say about other members and what you can't.  There is a forum called "Positive Experiences," so obviously you are free to report positive experiences with other Collarme members.  But I think updating an old thread to report a FAILED relationship with another Collarme member crosses a line.  Really, what was the purpose of your Post #4?  You could have told her the same thing in private if that was all you needed to say.  Making it public is offensive.

And this one is for the moderators to decide.  Bye.

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RE: We Met ChelleKitty/Positive Experience - 8/26/2007 1:20:53 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

I don't see where she mentioned either one of you by name in "another one bites the dust."  That makes a difference.  There's a fine line between what you can say about other members and what you can't.  There is a forum called "Positive Experiences," so obviously you are free to report positive experiences with other Collarme members.  But I think updating an old thread to report a FAILED relationship with another Collarme member crosses a line.  Really, what was the purpose of your Post #4?  You could have told her the same thing in private if that was all you needed to say.  Making it public is offensive.

And this one is for the moderators to decide.  Bye.


i have to agree... i wouldn't want it posted by name if it were me... of course, i wouldn't want to post a "positive" experience after meeting someone once - but that's just me and how i operate.

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RE: We Met ChelleKitty/Positive Experience - 8/26/2007 1:39:31 PM   
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my goodness, but things seem to be blown all out of proportion ... i didn't see a thing wrong with what has been said.. if you look at the topic thread .. it states "We Met ChelleKitty/Positive Experience " if you do not care to read about others experiences, then why did you bother with this one Sir ? no one was bashing or flaming, and it seemed to me very respectful. and funny.. all i see are CM id's no "real" names. like anything in life, we have the option to watch, not watch, read or not read if it is something we personally don't care about/disagree with.  it is not like you were unaware of the topic before reading.   the responding party's response concerning the end result of this meeting/relationship was a positive comment, and i fail to see where there is a issue.
Lior's girl, nava
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RE: We Met ChelleKitty/Positive Experience - 8/26/2007 2:20:36 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

I don't see where she mentioned either one of you by name in "another one bites the dust."  That makes a difference.  There's a fine line between what you can say about other members and what you can't.  There is a forum called "Positive Experiences," so obviously you are free to report positive experiences with other Collarme members.  But I think updating an old thread to report a FAILED relationship with another Collarme member crosses a line.  Really, what was the purpose of your Post #4?  You could have told her the same thing in private if that was all you needed to say.  Making it public is offensive.

And this one is for the moderators to decide.  Bye.



Sir,

this thread is about my experience, my thoughts and my opinion.

and i stand by my original statement, after meeting chellekitty, spending two weeks with her 24/7 in our home, endless hours on the phone, in IM, in emails, in journals it was a POSITIVE experience no matter what the out come was of joining or not joining our household. This post was simply to state a beggining, middle and end to our POSITIVE expereince with chellekitty.

it is You who are choosing to make this "negative".

i choose to see the glass as half full instead of half empty, and my opinion is still this is a POSITIVE experience. chellekitty has alot to offer, she is sweet, she is young, she is a good person,she can be service oriented, she is very into the "pain" aspects of the s&m  lifestyle and one day when she finds the right fit she will make someone very happy. I only wish the best for her.

Who knows maybe a prospective Master or Couple read will read this thread and contact her and  another POSITIVE experience comes out of it.

Leaving this comment once again.....this was a POSITIVE experience.

His Alpha Slave J

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RE: We Met ChelleKitty/Positive Experience - 8/26/2007 11:25:33 PM   
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thank you Jezabel...
it wasn't a failure, it wasn't a mistake, it was a learning experience...i learned a lot of things about myself through this experience...if you want to discuss it further, please email me on the otherside...she has said nothing negative about me, anywhere and though i regret that it did not work out, i do not regret my descion...i do need to work more on me...that was my statement, not hers...
please, out of respect for me...the person this thread is about, stop with the self appointed rescue...it is not needed, at this time, in this moment...
thank you Jezabel for opening your house and heart to me, i have good memories to cherish from my time spent there...
take care
chelle...
ps...that package coming to your house will be a little more bulky...with something soft in it

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RE: We Met ChelleKitty/Positive Experience - 8/27/2007 10:05:29 AM   
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chellekitty,

smiles, yes fond positive moments of laughing and learning. i truly wish you the best and i am looking forward to the mail.

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RE: We Met ChelleKitty/Positive Experience - 8/27/2007 11:51:56 AM   
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This isn't the former "House of Hussy", is it?

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RE: OH!!! You ARE the House of Hussy, no wonder! - 8/28/2007 3:04:52 AM   
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Ahh Jezebel..of the House of Hussy....thank you for the childish email which I sent on to the mods, and will not respond to personally.  You guys are banned, no?  Good luck, they are on to you now!  At least now everyone knows to put these new accounts of yours on block too.


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RE: We Met ChelleKitty/Positive Experience - 8/28/2007 10:38:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: liorsnava

Lordandmaster
my goodness, but things seem to be blown all out of proportion ... i didn't see a thing wrong with what has been said.. if you look at the topic thread .. it states "We Met ChelleKitty/Positive Experience " if you do not care to read about others experiences, then why did you bother with this one Sir ? no one was bashing or flaming, and it seemed to me very respectful. and funny.. all i see are CM id's no "real" names. like anything in life, we have the option to watch, not watch, read or not read if it is something we personally don't care about/disagree with.  it is not like you were unaware of the topic before reading.   the responding party's response concerning the end result of this meeting/relationship was a positive comment, and i fail to see where there is a issue.
Lior's girl, nava
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Liors nava,

I would have to agree with you, things are blown out of preportion and panties are in a wad. Lord & Master it is you that is being negative and pointing fingers and threats of the mods coming....why don't you chill out Sir? Puella your comments have nothing to do with this topic, matter of fact you did not address the topic at all, so your double post must be of a personal or childish nature? who knows, I don't know you and after this attack of what seems to be a harmless discussion it makes me shake my head. shame on you both.

Now for the OP I like the fact that you met someone, although it did not work out, you came back a updated the meeting to let everyone know, that even if chellekitty was not for you that she did have alot to offer. Ya know in a society where everyone is so quick to tell you what is wrong, it is nice when someone stops to say something nice. To the OP good job. Keep up the good work!

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RE: OH!!! You ARE the House of Hussy, no wonder! - 8/30/2007 8:12:25 PM   
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wow that was massively bitchy of you and completely non productive...can you take your personal vendetta off the boards please....

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RE: OH!!! You ARE the House of Hussy, no wonder! - 9/1/2007 10:16:28 AM   
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um... i have to say, i agree with you chelle.... whew....

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RE: OH!!! You ARE the House of Hussy, no wonder! - 9/6/2007 1:06:49 PM   
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Not so much of a personal vendetta as it is just a back story. Have to go with puella here.
alyoop

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RE: We Met ChelleKitty/Positive Experience - 9/13/2007 8:54:02 AM   
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oh like i care? what does it have to do with a post about me?

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