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RE: Why do subs disappear? - 9/21/2007 10:43:29 AM

SlaveSubtoserve

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....could be that the male sub has trouble connecting his fantasies with the reality of really starting a relationship with a Dominant woman--- sort of the ' gosh do i really want that after all? - questions' -- for me the answer is always yes and its just a question of finding the right match but for many it is a soul searching reality check if only for a cup of coffee so.....

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RE: Why do subs disappear? - 9/21/2007 2:57:22 PM

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Maybe when the mystery of single sock disapearences from dryers world wide is solved.. the disappearing of subs and Doms will as well.!

**Let them feel the misery of of freedom.

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RE: Why do subs disappear? - 9/21/2007 7:15:03 PM

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ORIGINAL: Subboy06

I drove all the way down to cincinnati from columbus to meet a Mistress this was a weel after she'd come up to Columbus and bought me a sandwitch. I ended up cleaning up her home she ran out to get some groceries and was soo shocked that I had everything done by the time she got back she dropped her groceries. However now she never emails me back or returns my calls or anything.

Awww subboy, come clean my house, I'll give ya more than a silly sandwich!

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RE: Why do subs disappear? - 9/21/2007 7:44:46 PM

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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

i'm not afraid to meet people offline.

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RE: Why do subs disappear? - 9/21/2007 7:46:35 PM

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But got scared after I met em They are not always who they say they are!

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RE: Why do subs disappear? - 9/21/2007 9:45:22 PM

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ORIGINAL: MistressJane23

I'm just confused. Someone says he's really interested, I put aside some time to chat with him with a view towards meeting up, and suddenly his profile is gone.

Cold feet? Fantasist? Offended someone else and got deleted?

One wonders.

Jane

Does it really matter-or should you be happy instead?

One less flake to weed out.

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RE: Why do subs disappear? - 9/21/2007 10:55:38 PM

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I was looking for the "deleted profiles' thread - this is perfect!

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This is so weird, especially after just sending Me a "Hi, liked your profile." and a nice smiling face pic.
Deleted even before I read it.
Not even giving Me the chance to say "Thanks".
Honestly, I don't get it!
What do you think about starting a "Deleted profile file"?

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RE: Why do subs disappear? - 9/22/2007 5:54:28 AM

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Mistress Jane

i see your not thrilled about a sub disapperaring !!!!!! Now i see why a sub like my self cant ever get any Mistress too chat or notice me if sub chatts then runs and hides . I fell the sub that comes along next kinda pays the price with a Mistress not wanting too trust the sub .. so i understand and know its tuff meeting and find that speical some one too have good times with

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RE: Why do subs disappear? - 9/22/2007 8:26:16 AM

lonlyrossInNeed

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Very Tipical for Both Tops and Bottoms Males and Females
It happens to meet all the time
and it is so upsetting if you spend the time and alot of it speaking with them but if its just a few chats then think of it like this at least you did not let them waste to much of you time

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RE: Why do subs disappear? - 9/22/2007 8:42:19 AM

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

I met a wonderful woman off of here...We shared time that would be envied by most....After that, she never contacted me again....On lonely evenings I find my thoughts drifting towards her, I wonder how she is and what she is doing....It is moments such as these that I force myself to recall upon the fact that I killed her.

Love it! ROFL.

I would suggest that it takes a certain amount of courage to pursue your desires, wheter it be D/s., skydiving, or finally planting those rose bushes. For many it is easier to live in a world of "what if" instead of "why not?"

It is frustrating, without a doubt...but for those of us who have the courage to try and the courage to keep on trying despite the ones that go *poof* for us, the rewards can be very satisfying!

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RE: Why do subs disappear? - 9/26/2007 10:15:26 AM

chathamvahere

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Amen:)

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