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yuyu777 -> anybody here is a Dom but also a masochist? (8/14/2007 9:03:56 PM)

how do you fulfill your desires, I suoppose you willl have to order your sub to spank you, isnt it weird... hehe




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: anybody here is a Dom but also a masochist? (8/14/2007 9:06:25 PM)

Many weirder things, a sub is there to provide service.

Or you could just go play with another friend.  It doesn't have to be topping just to get your masochism on.




SimplyMichael -> RE: anybody here is a Dom but also a masochist? (8/14/2007 10:31:13 PM)

You train her to do it just right.  I like my back scratched just so and that is harder than most can take it.  I also like to have my neck bitten and even a few nips on my nipples at times.  It helps that she is a sadistic top so I have to rein her in as opposed to push her to do so.  My safeword is "fuck, it is going to come off"

Spanks, absolutely not!  I actually for the most part detest pain being quite the wuss.




MasterFireMaam -> RE: anybody here is a Dom but also a masochist? (8/14/2007 10:46:50 PM)

What we do does not necessarily define who we are. Topping and bottoming are physical skills/desires. Anyone, no matter what role, can have them.

Master Fire




Viridana -> RE: anybody here is a Dom but also a masochist? (8/15/2007 6:06:14 PM)

In an d/s aspect I'd consider myself a dom. However I'm also a huge masochist. Therefore I don't do d/s during s&m play. Me and my partner do it in companionship. 




FangsNfeet -> RE: anybody here is a Dom but also a masochist? (8/17/2007 3:06:19 AM)

I don't recall myself ordering a sub to spank me. When I am in need for pain, biteing and clawing is what's normally required along with some occasional burn play.




RavenMuse -> RE: anybody here is a Dom but also a masochist? (8/17/2007 5:21:05 AM)

I think We are all masochists.... with the number of headaches you subs give us it is about the only explination for why We keep going [;)]

(bottoming doesn't appeal to Me, but couldn't resist that little comment *g*)




ProlificNeeds -> RE: anybody here is a Dom but also a masochist? (8/17/2007 7:59:56 AM)

He likes a 'struggle' in which we both inflict some pain on eachother, sometimes it's a bit staged but it can be fun. Especially when he gets to yell "When I get out of this I'm so gonna <insert creative threat>."




Stunning -> RE: anybody here is a Dom but also a masochist? (8/17/2007 12:51:57 PM)

Nothing more fun than a sub who bites.




instynctive -> RE: anybody here is a Dom but also a masochist? (8/17/2007 3:01:51 PM)

Spanking, NO (agreed, Michael).

CBT?  Absolutely.




Damocles809 -> RE: anybody here is a Dom but also a masochist? (8/18/2007 9:11:48 PM)

Well I do like a sub who puts up a fight, and a very painful one at that.  




arayofsunshine55 -> RE: anybody here is a Dom but also a masochist? (8/18/2007 11:25:54 PM)

There is some specific pain he likes.  I kow what it is.  I kow how he likes it.  And as another said, since I am also a sadistic top I've got absolutely no problem dishing it out to him.  Biggest issue is not hurting more than he'd like. 




BabyNyla -> RE: anybody here is a Dom but also a masochist? (8/18/2007 11:29:35 PM)

My Daddy is a big sadist ... but he also has a bit of maso in him ... which is fun since I have my Domme moments.  I am allowed to choke him during sex, scratch his back as hard as I like ... and in the evenings I am also allowed to do cbt ... as he loves to have his balls played with.  I get my "fix" but at the same time I am still pleasing him and getting him off.




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