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Grlwithboy -> RE: The Answer for why there are more girl doms than Male Subs. (8/18/2007 9:43:05 AM)
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ORIGINAL: TopMeeeeee
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ORIGINAL: EvilGeoff
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ORIGINAL: TopMeeeeee
Because male Subs are looking for TOPS, not f doms.
There aren't as many female tops as there are female doms. A female dom is not interested in the Male Subs "List" of activities He wants to played on Him.
In what world are you living in that Female Dominants and/or Tops outnumber male submissives? FemDoms are the smallest demographic in the kink world, male subs the largest. Why are there Pro Domme's? Because there are more than enough submissive clients out there to pay for their services.
Oh, just quick btw, by your own arguement - the male "subs" with "do me" play lists, they aren't "submissives", they're bottoms.
YIK,
- Geoff
Holy lord $hit! Man i'm kind of thinking I wrote it wrong. One thing is theres not enough male submissives for the femdoms but there are plently of male bottoms to go around forever. Its why femdoms cant find male submissives. I know this seems like a harsh thing to say the male submissive is harder to find and those femdoms arent interested in kinster bottoms looking only or mainly for sex or sexual bdsm play.
How i see it is this.
Male bottoms > femdoms. (more male bottoms for femdoms.)
Male bottoms who are into the physical sorts of kinky play outnumber femdoms.
Male submissives < femdoms (less male submissives for femdoms)
Male submissives interested servitude extending over and above play are not as prevalent and the femdoms outnumber them.
Still trying to figure the reason out. No luck, so far. lol
I don't agree. I think the numbers are pretty even, actually. D and s.
But do they recognize the authority in her, the submission in him? Is she put off by him, or him by her when the behavior does not conform to the fantasy or the preojection, and when put off or disappointed is there enough substance to the relationship to evolve?
I would say that a male submissive and a female Dominant who happens to dovetail with his notion of submission, and he with her interests as a Dominant are highly unlikely to find one another and it can take a long time. And even then it's entirely possible that people with fewer D/s mutual compatibilities may have MORE extra D/s compatibilities.
My husband and I have a lot of mutual areas of interest. There are some things I love that he hates and other things he hates that I love and as the Dominant, if I'm not remotely sensitive to that I'm really foolish. The fact that he, as a person, is suited to me makes that a challenge to be worked with rather than a dealbreaker out the door.
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