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RE: In your experience what was it that made you feel &... - 8/17/2007 11:09:36 AM

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when He came in and i sat down . HE told me to get up. and i did without question. His eyes told me i was taken and i understood without the words being spoken.

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RE: In your experience what was it that made you feel &... - 8/17/2007 11:43:25 AM

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All I can say is wow, I agree with all!!!!

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RE: In your experience what was it that made you feel &... - 8/17/2007 11:58:09 AM

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i do this because i choose to to was no longer the truth, no longer something i do... it became because i need to ... as primitive as my need to breathe.

I just wanted to say how beautiful this is put & sounds like a spot on description to me...... just so very beautiful & strong.

Thank you for putting that up.... has really made me think

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RE: In your experience what was it that made you feel &... - 8/17/2007 12:26:24 PM

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i coulndt edit my statement . so here it goes
i had no experience being submissive nor was i looking to be one. any other man i would have laughed and not gotten up. i was playing and just was looking forward to sex. i got much more than i bargained for. without looking i was found. funny how i knew He was the One to tame me.

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RE: In your experience what was it that made you feel &... - 8/17/2007 12:31:03 PM

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I'll have to go with FortunateDiomedeidae on this one. Hand him a shovel.

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RE: In your experience what was it that made you feel &... - 8/17/2007 1:24:27 PM

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I agree BoundDragon, it was beautifully put.

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RE: In your experience what was it that made you feel &... - 8/17/2007 1:38:57 PM

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I felt when i was taken when he took me to the next level. We were talking about the rules and what i wanted and experience. And before i knew it, i told my Master that:"You know what, you decide what happends". He knows me better then any one and i trust him completly. I know he will never hurt me or get me into things i really don't want or in danger. He respect me as i do him and i will do everything to satisfy him.

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RE: In your experience what was it that made you feel &... - 8/17/2007 3:03:44 PM

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I have had a recent experience with a sub that was unique. he kept begging Me to "take him" he was not meaning psycally he was meaning mentally. So here is My question. In your experience wether it be in your head or in real, what was it or will it be that will give you the feeling of being "taken"?
What would need to be done or said to make you feel you are no longer your own but have given over to your Mistress/Master.

I can only be *taken* by wanting to be..which really negates the *taking* part. *Inspired to want to belong* is more the case for me. I don't feel taken because I wasn't taken.

There weren't any particular acts or words that made me feel owned. I'm owned because I asked to be and M took up ownership. His behaviour says that he owns me and my behaviour says that I know it. It doesn't need to be spoken; it's an internal acceptance.

For me, it's evident in everything and it's quite difficult to describe. Outwardly I accepted the *deal* straight away.....but internally is where the real effect took place and it's an ongoing process. I've been accused of having M *Right up there, next to Jesus*......it's an astute observation, if obvious, and some people find it rather *sickly* but after a fair few years, he's still hanging onto that spot with relative ease.

I suppose I *am and do* because he *is and does*.

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RE: In your experience what was it that made you feel &... - 8/17/2007 3:08:48 PM

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I suppose I *am and do* because he *is and does*.

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What she said.

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RE: In your experience what was it that made you feel &... - 8/18/2007 9:31:58 AM

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I think maybe you are looking at it the wrong way. You are looking at it here almost as a command from your sub, which is why it is confusing to the dynamic. I think what it actually is, assuming the power dynamic has truly been established, is that his act of begging you to take him in actuality means he feels taken at that point. He is surrendering, giving himself to you. Speaking from my own experience, the point at which I beg my Dom to take me is when I feel taken. Not for what follows, but for the act of my submission at that point. It doesn't matter what you do after that. Do nothing and ignore him, objectify him, cherrish him, punish him, push his limits, thank him, what ever you want to do and whatever you feel as the Dom. His act of begging to be taken has confirmed that he has in fact been taken.

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RE: In your experience what was it that made you feel &... - 8/18/2007 9:33:08 AM

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ORIGINAL: TheLadyDesires

I have had a recent experience with a sub that was unique. he kept begging Me to "take him" he was not meaning psycally he was meaning mentally. So here is My question. In your experience wether it be in your head or in real, what was it or will it be that will give you the feeling of being "taken"?
What would need to be done or said to make you feel you are no longer your own but have given over to your Mistress/Master.

First and foremost for me to feel "taken", a domme simply needs to really take control. Her aggressiveness is prime. Secondly, she needs a method for taking control. Whether she uses purely physical methods, seduction, some other psychological method, or ideally, a combination, is up to her. When I begin to feel that I'm hooked, and either unable or unwilling to escape her clutches, that's when I feel "taken". It doesn't need to be a permanent thing; the "taken" feeling can be something temporary as well, but for the moment it doesn't feel fleeting.

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