Going to a BDSM club for the first time

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Constanza -> Going to a BDSM club for the first time (8/17/2007 2:58:54 PM)
As my Master wants to take me to a BDSM club for the first time, i want to know what other slaves/subs have for experience with it. i realy would like to hear some first time experiences as i am totaly new to it and i don't know what to expect.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Going to a BDSM club for the first time (8/17/2007 3:15:46 PM)
Act like you would at any party- as long as you act like a gracious and happy guest at any party. Be a bit more sensitive about touching others and don't touch other peoples things without express permission (asking to touch is fine). Don't talk to people IN scenes and don't get too close physically or talk too loud near them. Otherwise, it's just like any party. What to wear? If you want to look like everyone else- something black, sexy, kinky, gothic type is great. But asking the host is fine and anything from shorts and tshirt to ballgowns to full nudity CAN be fine at parties. http://www.collarchat.com/m_1193237/mpage_1/key_first/tm.htm#1193413 party etiquette http://www.collarchat.com/m_576521/mpage_1/key_party/tm.htm#576524 first time party? http://www.collarchat.com/m_323269/mpage_1/key_first/tm.htm#323597 First Lifestyle Meeting http://www.collarchat.com/m_311113/mpage_1/key_first%252Cparty/tm.htm#311125 Your First Experience http://www.collarchat.com/m_291346/mpage_1/key_first%252Ctime%252Cclub%252Cplay/tm.htm#291346 1st Time at the Wet Spot http://www.collarchat.com/m_195507/mpage_1/key_first%252Ctime%252Cclub%252Cplay/tm.htm#195507 Behaviors and Reactions During Play http://www.collarchat.com/m_78610/mpage_1/key_first%252Ctime%252Cclub%252Cplay/tm.htm#78610 Question about First Time Scenes http://www.collarchat.com/m_249091/mpage_1/key_first%252Cscene/tm.htm#249091 My first real scene! http://www.collarchat.com/m_221923/mpage_1/key_first%252Cscene/tm.htm#221923 First Play party http://www.collarchat.com/m_202913/mpage_1/key_first%252Cscene/tm.htm#202913 Novice Reactions http://www.collarchat.com/m_95381/mpage_1/key_first%252Cscene/tm.htm#95381 "playing" on the first meet?

instynctive -> RE: Going to a BDSM club for the first time (8/17/2007 4:07:15 PM)
Here's a novel idea... Ask your Master what He expects from you.

Constanza -> RE: Going to a BDSM club for the first time (8/17/2007 4:18:21 PM)
He expects me to have fun and experience what ever happens. I know that already, i just wanne hear about more experiences from other Subs/slaves.

violetaelf -> RE: Going to a BDSM club for the first time (8/17/2007 5:28:08 PM)
The first time Sir and I went to the club, I was excited, but when I got there... I felt very shy and self conscious (I was shocked at that myself). Sir sat with me for a bit while I've gotten used to the surroundings and were able to watch people around. He was very patient. When he thought I was ready he directed all my attention to him and made me forget all that's around me and just enjoy the experience with him... (My first time on a St. Andrew's Cross big grin. ) Though I don't think I was able to fully block the fact that there were other people there... but it only added to the adrenalin rush for me. Now I am fine going to a club, having fun and enjoying serving Sir. People there are all nice (at least where we go). All best on your first experience with a party-scene and just try to relax and tell your Master how you feel. :) You'll be fine! 'violet'

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