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New to all - 7/5/2005 5:37:05 PM

MistresSplash

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So far I have had many request to want to move in with me. My question is as a Mistress mind I am new. If they seek me out and begin to chat and ignore me and not respond back what kind of slave is this. I had one that had intrest me deeply but disrespect with answering and had phone call. Do the slaves seek many mistress/masters at once then choose who they want? Like I said I am new to all this so not sure how it all works.
Most of the sub/slave have been very respectful was surprised by the one who has been one for 15+ with his responding back. The I actually had one reply back to my reply cause at the time I was showing intrest in another sub/slave and wasnt intrest in him at the time. He replys with swearing? Any suggest or input will be greatly appreciated thank you name is June

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RE: New to all - 7/5/2005 8:58:44 PM

SirDiscipliner69

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My question would be to you would you want this person to move in if they were vanillia? I have known many that were great to scene with yet had little grasp on the day to day responsibilities that were ned to function well in today's society...

I might suggest that you be true to yourself first in laying out your perameters regarding your needs...the rwesponsibility of a sub is enormous if done properly...anyone can get a sub,...but what do you do once you have them...not merely sexual gratification...tho that has its place but what are they going to be trained in..to do...and what are your target results..what means are you prepared to reach this objuective?

you need not be distracted by the the throngs that will impart to your wisdonm and time..there are MANY windowshoppers that paly a numbers game and many are of the "out of sight out of mind" caliber...you need not bother with them unless you need a simple prop to occupy your time honing a new means or approach to a particulair theroy you may have...

I like to test My hypothenuse ...after all a question is not a question when you already know the answer...yet is does make for good fun when you see them surying for the cheese...then predictably do one of the plausible options...

The need for respect is important as is trust...I give both until proven otherwise..many a scurring have proved Me wrong in doing so...

Some will challenge you to see just how far the rope will go...give I like to give them all the rope they need and then remind them as it is going out what initial agreement was...then when it is time...accountability.

Time is valuable...allow them to see what you wish them to see...

Be true to yourself....

Then again..everything I know could be wrong.... ;)

Ever read Illusions by Richard Bach?

Savor a chapter a day...no more...no less...and ponder....

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