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captainblack -> RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck (8/18/2007 11:49:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: NefertariReborn

IMHO giving head is neither dominant or submissive. I DON'T think the Doms stand there all Domly and say no I'm not going to suck pussy because it's submissive. Why do should Women have this problem with cock?


Speaking as a Dom Male:

I enjoy very much going down on a nice clean pussy. I love the way the female in question melts
right on the spot, but with my slave girls I only do it on rare occasion if they have somehow created
a very positive impression. I do not want them to think they get a study supply of the good stuff
just for being around. Noppers even though I love licking pussy, when it comes to slave girls I do it only rare occasion.



CB




BruisedHick -> RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck (8/18/2007 11:52:30 PM)

I didn't read the whole thread, but did we find any loose Dommes?

I could really use one for the long, cold Canuck winter.




FullfigRIMaam -> RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck (8/19/2007 1:15:55 AM)

Some of us admitted to doing it, but I don't think any loose dommes.   Sort of like "I'm free, but it's going to cost you," lol[:-]  We'll keep you apprised if some loose babe volunteers to come up and keep yah warm.   M




trustingsubHF -> RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck (8/19/2007 2:53:52 AM)

i love giving oral... yet, i am sub! i think that it would be humiliation for the Domme if She were to drop to Her knees and suck Her property's cock, just my honest opinion!




LaTigresse -> RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck (8/19/2007 5:05:06 AM)

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ORIGINAL: cwytch

i wise woman once told me that a man can not give a woman any greater compliment then getting an errection...


After spending many years working in the nightclub atmosphere I quite honestly would call bullshit on this being a wise statement. I have seen some of the women that men can get a hardon with..........nothing complimentary about it at all. We used to call them beerglasses.

As for the topic at hand. I somehow don't envision me having alot to say about blowjobs with a male submissive but any woman that thinks I won't be investigating all the parts I own is fooling herself.




MHOO314 -> RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck (8/19/2007 5:56:22 AM)

Wow, made a post. went to sleep and woke to 4 pages of marvelous debate. This is one of the reasons, I do love CM, we debate, we express opinions and yet at the end of the day, "its up to the definition if the individual dynamic"
 
I agree with LadyIce, to approach a woman that way, D or s, is insulting---however, after reading many of the posts here, boys may come to the table thinking that a BJ is part of the "normal" repetoire of the Domina's interests---and  assume it is and if She doesn't---well could be a disconnect--
 
I can imagine FullfigIRMaam---bringiing Her boy to the brink, then walking away as he writhes helpless---heh
 
meticulousgirl: oh yes dear, there are hundreds of ways of teasing him to beg for mercy and allowing release.
 
TheKernel and FullFig as well as SimplyMichael, it is a Dominact act if " I" chose to mkae it so---but to come to the table and expect or demand it, pfftttt takes you right off the A list---smiles
 
and My thanks to Aileen for the link she included, that continues the debate and does get some interesting perspectives as well---
 
in that thread, DianneVesta best describes My feelings on this subject----(and they are only My feelings and not a jiudgement of others)----" I dont't think its wrong, its wrong for Me and most of the men I come in contact with would feel uncomfortable as well.."
 
--however that does not prevent Me from having them suck My strap on-----heh  heh
 
and I apologize, I did not do My research on this one, had I , I would have found the thread Aileen started and not taken up space with a new one---




caitlyn -> RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck (8/19/2007 5:57:49 AM)

Beerglasses ... I heard that term just the other night at a club.
 
I don't understand why chicks get to be "do me" subs, and guys don't. Maybe they are hot guys and can get away with it. [;)]
 
As a general rule, I find giving oral sex to be more of a dominant act, because I feel in control ... and getting oral sex to be more a submissive act, because I tend to have next to no control over anything.




Jasmyn -> RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck (8/19/2007 6:16:22 AM)

Blow jobs are overrated ...




slaveluci -> RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck (8/19/2007 7:19:04 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Jasmyn
Blow jobs are overrated ...

Yeah.  That's what Master thought for 60 years until He had one of mine[;)].........luci




MHOO314 -> RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck (8/19/2007 7:28:47 AM)

Well all be told, I give one hell of a BJ, and when I was a submissive for a time to be sure I was a Domina---heh heh--well they were sad when I left---however, I have found so many more inventive ways to make little boys  beg----[8D]




MHOO314 -> RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck (8/19/2007 7:31:13 AM)

WTH is a beer glass?




Phin -> RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck (8/19/2007 7:47:27 AM)

beer googles= seeing an unattractive person as attractive after drinking a few too many beers, or other alcaholic beverages.




WhiplashSmile -> RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck (8/19/2007 8:24:21 AM)

The "what" in question here (a blowjob) is neither submissive or a Dom act.. however, "How" it is done can be submissive or Dom in nature.

There are Dommes out there that will give a killer blow job, and make their sub/slave beg to come.  Perhaps even bring them to the edge and back off.  Some only let good little boys cum as well.   Some will give blow jobs in the middle of cock torture too..   Hell, some Dommes will take a mouth full of cum and force to swap it their sub/slaves mouth.  Now this humilation at work is it not?  There are some Dommes that love the taste of it too... will treat thier male slave/sub more like a cum milking machine.  Tie somebody up, and force them to cum several times, until their balls are drained dry, and cumming actually starts to hurt. 







MisPandora -> RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck (8/19/2007 9:00:11 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyIce

The issue is men off the internet approaching Dominant's as if they are
cheap whores.

The difficulty is that there is no "gold standard" as to what an individual does with their dominance.  "Cheap whore" to you is another's chosen style. 




MisPandora -> RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck (8/19/2007 9:07:59 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

What a teeny tiny world to live in where some sex acts are off limits becaue they might affect your status.  I do whatever the fuck I want to and it hasn't ever affected MY dominance. 

That's what I'm thinking. 

Many imply that having an orgasm is 'losing control', so does that also mean the OP doesn't have them in the presence or at the hand/mouth/cock of a submissive for fear it might compromise one's stature as a dominant?




LATEXBABY64 -> RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck (8/19/2007 9:11:30 AM)

ah yess beer glasses  seen that a many times  i think it happens after then eight shots of JD and coke or seven and seven or everclear and something  lol you wake up in a hotel with who what was her name what state am i inn and did i drive home last nite yep that is what normally happens with the beer glass syndrome rofl  now of course with women they go omg i slept with him.. Or they go dude wheres my car yep it can happen to anyone




littlesarbonn -> RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck (8/19/2007 9:47:28 AM)

Fortunately, that doesn't happen to me because I don't drink. If I end up waking up next to someone I shouldn't have woken up next to, that means she drugged me, kidnapped me and took me home, and then that just means I might like her more.




dawntreader -> RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck (8/19/2007 10:19:08 AM)

Once again Whip, you have said it better than i!
 




Level -> RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck (8/19/2007 10:26:59 AM)

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ORIGINAL: cuddleheart50

blowjobs are wonderful not matter what you want to call them.


Exactly! [:D]




MistressDoMe -> RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck (8/19/2007 11:13:49 AM)

Any submissive that approached me and asked me if I was going to give him oral
pleasures, would be gone in 20 seconds.
It is not for a submissive to approach me and even think about asking me that sort of
thing.




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