Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

menopause and bdsm


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Health and Safety >> menopause and bdsm Page: [1] 2   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
menopause and bdsm - 7/7/2005 10:14:10 AM   
saltie


Posts: 101
Joined: 6/30/2004
Status: offline
Does anybody know if this (BDSM-getting hit etc)can affect menopause in any way? Know it is a stupid question but no idea and dont know who to ask so posted here and hope somebody does.
Profile   Post #: 1
RE: menopause and bdsm - 7/7/2005 10:37:09 AM   
pandoravampire


Posts: 374
Joined: 12/6/2004
Status: offline
In a word - no.
Menopause is the bodies syptomatic response to changes within the hormone system.
Its hormones, not pleasure/pain that cause it, or affect it.

The other way round however, can menopause effect your bdsm? Yes. Fluctuations in hormonal levels, have a direct effect in levels of pain for instance that can be endured.
Your bed at night is more likely to be wet from night sweats rather than squirting lol.

and there are no stupid questions, only stupid answers

(in reply to saltie)
Profile   Post #: 2
RE: menopause and bdsm - 7/7/2005 10:58:36 AM   
saltie


Posts: 101
Joined: 6/30/2004
Status: offline
thanks for answering me. did not know could affect the pain level either. i only do this for session and know so little about any of it.

(in reply to saltie)
Profile   Post #: 3
RE: menopause and bdsm - 7/7/2005 5:05:49 PM   
perfection20005


Posts: 419
Joined: 4/20/2005
Status: offline
I agree with Pandora. It hasn't affected any of my playtime. I'm only 38, and I know thats young for menopause, but I have been to the docs and tested, so I know I'm going thru it. I actually enjoy play more now. I haven't had to worry about when I was going to have a period. I do have the mood swings and the sweats though!

perfection

(in reply to saltie)
Profile   Post #: 4
RE: menopause and bdsm - 7/7/2005 7:51:22 PM   
saltie


Posts: 101
Joined: 6/30/2004
Status: offline
thanks perfection. i just started going through it only a few months ago so is still only the prechange. so far no period at all for 2 months and for the next two very short but not normal time of month so never know when is coming so hard to plan when it is ok to play. not moody or anything else so am luckly. will be going to the doctor soon and will mention it. nice to go through it early.

(in reply to saltie)
Profile   Post #: 5
RE: menopause and bdsm - 7/7/2005 8:41:44 PM   
Mercnbeth


Posts: 11766
Status: offline
quote:

so far no period at all for 2 months and for the next two very short but not normal time of month so never know when is coming so hard to plan when it is ok to play. not moody or anything else so am luckly. will be going to the doctor soon and will mention it. nice to go through it early.


this slave has been going through "it"(hormonal imbalanes and fluctuations) for at least 20 years.....at 38, this slave looks forward to when it is finally over(hopefully soon!!!!). the more in tune you are with your body, and the more you can make use of natural remedies and therapies, exercise and fresh air, the better you are able to deal with the seemingly unbearable times when they hit. don't JUST rely on an M.D. and/or prescription. good luck!

(in reply to saltie)
Profile   Post #: 6
RE: menopause and bdsm - 7/7/2005 11:35:13 PM   
saltie


Posts: 101
Joined: 6/30/2004
Status: offline
20 years? am sure you will be glad when it is finally over! i do excerise every day as need to for another health reason. a hour at least every day i do. am not into natural products as to expensive but i agree they are better but that is because of animal rights that i do and the chemicals added. if need to take something i will look into it. there is a store that sells natural products near me and more stores that has starting to sell those products. thanks as did not think of that at all. no longer a vegan/buy crulety free so did not think of natural. thank you.

(in reply to saltie)
Profile   Post #: 7
RE: menopause and bdsm - 7/8/2005 6:40:38 PM   
saltie


Posts: 101
Joined: 6/30/2004
Status: offline
i spoke to soon about not being moody but the problem is that it could be another reason why i am but not able to get an appointment to the last day of aug with a medical doctor. does any into natural products know what is ok to use for menopause but safe to still use in case it is that other thing and not menopause getting me this way. or maybe a good health site to see if i can find out which of the two it is so know what to get. hoping is not both at the same time!!!

(in reply to saltie)
Profile   Post #: 8
RE: menopause and bdsm - 7/8/2005 7:41:19 PM   
redpetals


Posts: 229
Joined: 6/27/2005
Status: offline
try goat weed ..its packaged as horny goat weed etc. its embarrasing to buy but it works on menopauseal problems.i got my lubrication back and my sex drive.this has worked on men friends whom have a rather..umm. short fuse also.it's not expensive,it works on your circulation i think,maybe on your hormonal system.not sure just know it works for me and has worked for others.

(in reply to saltie)
Profile   Post #: 9
RE: menopause and bdsm - 7/8/2005 8:33:56 PM   
saltie


Posts: 101
Joined: 6/30/2004
Status: offline
thanks redpetals. there is a local health/natural food store i can try getting it at. no problem physically just moody but might be speaking to soon like i did about my mood.

been having trouble with computer and site so if anybody answers me and i dont get back to them that is why. been getting booted but will answer when i can stay connected

(in reply to saltie)
Profile   Post #: 10
RE: menopause and bdsm - 7/9/2005 9:36:38 AM   
subcheryl


Posts: 280
Joined: 11/2/2004
Status: offline
as far as the bdsm part of it, it doesn't really affect it, just the dryness and there are things to help with that, but for the night sweats and even the daytime hot flashes I once read where if you sleep in a cool room, with as little covers as possible it helps to keep them at a minimum, I tried this and it does seem to help. I still get "warm" during the day but not as bad as use to, when working in the factory in wis. the girls in the fall, winter, and early spring would be running around in t-shirts and sweatshirts and sometimes jackets, and I would be in just a t-shirt, and near boiling pt. LOL would get some strange looks esp if I asked if it was hot in there or if it was just me, LOL. But started sleeping in a cold room and it did help. So something to try if spouse doesnt' mind a cool place to sleep in

(in reply to saltie)
Profile   Post #: 11
RE: menopause and bdsm - 7/9/2005 4:43:40 PM   
saltie


Posts: 101
Joined: 6/30/2004
Status: offline
i was the same way, hot even though was cool or cold but that was from medicine when was on some for other reasons. have not got the hot flashes yet. but will keep that in mind for when it does start. either luckly or just not started yet. not much but moody and periods not regulear or none at all. only started about 5 months ago. guess will find out later next month when i go to the doctor. some could be from the stress and depression but none of this has happened before so dont think so. thanks for the advice.

(in reply to subcheryl)
Profile   Post #: 12
RE: menopause and bdsm - 7/9/2005 4:57:15 PM   
saltie


Posts: 101
Joined: 6/30/2004
Status: offline
just wondering if anybody going through this now or before and was talking to a dom how they brought it up. i was with one and was having a bad day so in the instant message started to complain and complain which is something i dont normally do. have not heard from him since but was only yesterday so maybe he is just busy. it is something dont put on the profile but dont want to keep from mentioning but not bring up right away but maybe should in case the one is no longer interested and do talk with somebody else. know i have to make the decison myself when/how much to say. hopefully i dont have another day like yesterday and get to the store soon to get something for moody. dont want to be at all and when i am, am good for avoiding situations i know will set me off. i dont use this or anything else as an excuse to do so then say not my fault.

(in reply to saltie)
Profile   Post #: 13
RE: menopause and bdsm - 7/10/2005 8:51:01 AM   
boynicholas


Posts: 27
Joined: 4/26/2005
Status: offline
Most of the herbal preparations that purport to 'safely and naturally' treat menopause rely on one of two things for effect: placebo or phytoestrogens. However, despite what their proponents would have you believe, the estrogen effect that happens from phytoestrogens is just as able to cause side effects as is premarin. If a chemical compound sits on the estrogen receptor and turns it on, it doesn't matter whether it is from a weed or a factory, you get the same effects – namely: relief of some menopausal symptoms, but also increased risk of breast cancer and vascular disease.

That said, in some women menopausal symptoms can be a big problem and cause a lot of morbidity, so it is not unreasonable treat these symptoms when the small absolute increases in risk are outweighed by the benefits of treatment. So while taking certain of these herbal preps is sometimes OK, you need to make an informed decision understanding the risks involved as well. Don't make the mistake of assuming that 'natural' = 'safe.'

On the flip side, most of the supplements that are marketed as libido aids generally have some sort of chemical effective at the androgen receptor. And again, if it actually sits on the receptor and activates it, you will get the effects and the side effects of androgens. And the side effects in women can sometimes be unpleasant. There is a good Consumer's Report article about this: “Dangerous supplements: still at large.” Consumer Reports. May 2004. In that article, one of these androgenic substances was actually listed among the 12 dangerous products you should avoid.

However, the biggest reason that I can see to avoid herbal preps and to use prescribed medications is simply that you are much more likely to get what you expect. In that same consumer's report article, they cite that in their analysis, the amount of the active ingredient in certain supplement preps varied from none to 150% of the stated amount on the bottle. Moreover, unlisted compounds are not infrequently included in certain supplements... as I recall recently there was a problem with one of the imported TCM preps containing an oral diabetes medicine.

So you certainly can take supplements if you like, however, you should choose to do so in an informed manner. I think that consumer's reports article should be required reading for anyone who wants to take a dietary supplement.

Nick

(in reply to saltie)
Profile   Post #: 14
RE: menopause and bdsm - 7/10/2005 4:55:26 PM   
saltie


Posts: 101
Joined: 6/30/2004
Status: offline
i know that something natural does not mean it is safe to use. as cant get appointment to the last day of next month and not even am able to talk to a doctor need something but dont want to take any chance either. have to try something but it might be better to just wait and hope i dont get worse. thanks.

(in reply to boynicholas)
Profile   Post #: 15
RE: menopause and bdsm - 7/10/2005 5:00:36 PM   
Lordandmaster


Posts: 10943
Joined: 6/22/2004
Status: offline
WHY HAEVNT PEOPLE MENTIONED THE BEST THING ABOUT MENAPAUSE AND BDSM THE BITCHS DO'NT GET PREGNANT!

(in reply to saltie)
Profile   Post #: 16
RE: menopause and bdsm - 7/10/2005 8:24:25 PM   
saltie


Posts: 101
Joined: 6/30/2004
Status: offline
i had my tubes tied and there is no sex invoulved at all with the one i see. well none for me that is so i dont have to worry about getting pregnant.

(in reply to Lordandmaster)
Profile   Post #: 17
RE: menopause and bdsm - 7/10/2005 9:25:11 PM   
Lordandmaster


Posts: 10943
Joined: 6/22/2004
Status: offline
Smiling...I'm just yanking your chain. Don't take me too seriously when I post in caps.

(in reply to saltie)
Profile   Post #: 18
RE: menopause and bdsm - 7/11/2005 4:53:53 AM   
saltie


Posts: 101
Joined: 6/30/2004
Status: offline
thats ok. thought it was funny but was shocked when i saw that in this kind of message board (health)

(in reply to Lordandmaster)
Profile   Post #: 19
RE: menopause and bdsm - 7/11/2005 10:14:19 AM   
pleasureforHim


Posts: 171
Joined: 7/2/2005
Status: offline
[quote]WHY HAEVNT PEOPLE MENTIONED THE BEST THING ABOUT MENAPAUSE AND BDSM THE BITCHS DO'NT GET PREGNANT! [/quote]

i am not yet in menopause..so i do not know what to expect..but when i turned about 47..my body came AFLAME with a DESIRE FOR SEX..and i could hardly concentrate enough to drive..every man turned me on..i lusted after the garbageman..the pharmacist..the UPS Store guy...i mean ALL THE TIME..it was quite a shock..and THEN..i found D/s..and my mind went racing...ooo..BONDAGE!!!!!.......oooooo..ROLE PLAYING!!!...oooooo...THROAT F**KING!!!...ooooo, LOOKEY, LOOKEY!!!...ROFLMAO...i think i should be a charity case and people should send $$ so i can research this..ahem..yeah..research..ya..LOL.

pleasureforHim


< Message edited by pleasureforHim -- 7/11/2005 10:17:38 AM >

(in reply to saltie)
Profile   Post #: 20
Page:   [1] 2   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Health and Safety >> menopause and bdsm Page: [1] 2   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.094