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ORIGINAL: pearldoe

ok, i am going to consider that there are alot of idiots on the internet but still i will answer.....let me make this clear so even the most dumb can understand.....this is not a matter of he said, she said....it is a matter of a criminal spanning twenty plus years....a sociopath/psychopath....as for calling the police....it is a matter in the hands of not only local police but federal.....the man is now in custody and i am sure you will one day read about it....we are not looking for your sympathy or trying to make accusations against someone....the facts are the facts...he is in custody and will stand trial....the point of this post was to reach out to any others he may have hurt who may be afraid....

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some of you types are the reason people like him can continue to cause harm....as i said it is time for TRUE LIFESTYLERS to stand up and say enough.

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i will speak for myself...i know my responsibility in being with him....i did not use my head nor follow any of my training....i will be looking hard at myself to figure out why i made the choice i did and why i allow myself to be used in that way....but regardless of why i made the choices i made the fact remains...he is a very bad man and a criminal who used this lifestyle to harm .....many many women.....if anyone who reads this has been in contact with him....i am here to listen and help....but i will let you others know right now...i will not back down nor stop my mission to alert others and help to educate other women so this will not happen to them.

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ORIGINAL: omegasone

PLEASE READ THIS!!!!!!!!!!!! Today I am on a mission....It is time that we as a community stand up and start policing ourselves....We must stop those who use this lifestyle to prey on others!!!!!!! Part of this insert is from another women whom has fallin victim to this mans' con and she has givin me permission to repost. "...i realize when i am done some will say how stupid i am...how desperate... how much a fool i am.....but i do not care how anyone views me at this point.....all i care about is possibly saving another woman from hurt and harm.  What I am about to quote is part of his con "Recently i started talking with a man on Collarme who wrote to me....we exchanged many emails on Collarme and then on Yahoo and chatted online on messenger. we then began talking everyday...several times a day on the phone. He was extremely charming and seemingly knowledgeable about this lifestyle. The one thing that made him different was his approach.... he stressed that he was very old fashioned and over protective and he liked to court a woman. He was a man of character that spoke several different languages, Japenese and Russian to name a few. The story he told was good....he had been married for 20 plus years and his wife had died a few years ago and now he was ready to find a mother for his children. He said how he did not believe how lucky he was to finally find someone he was so attracted to who could be the light of his life who spoke to his heart." He has used the sisterhood of slaves to garner information from us in pretending to be a slave in disguise until he gained our trust and profiled everything about us and other times he approached us as a Master. He is a sociopath/pschopath . PLEASE PLEASE Be aware I am not alone in this as there have been a multitude of women that he has either been in contact with or fallin victim to his scam which has resulted in many losses financially, mentally and even physical abuse. If you feel you have been there with us in this con even if your ashamed to admit it as there is no shame in wanting or needing what you desire to be fullfilled in your life as he uses that to get to you, we are reaching out to others in our time of bringing men like him to justice. SISTERHOOD lets stand up and say we aren't going to take it anymore and stop PREDATORS like this by turning witness against them.

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i did not use my head nor follow any of my training

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ORIGINAL: pearldoe

my losses are mostly finanacial and emotional but i will say that it will be a very long time before i can ever trust again and the emotional damage will take alot of time for me to work through. my mission now is to tell my story every chance i get so that others will know not only about this man but also that there are others out there like him. If i look like a fool or stupid...oh well...i will just look it but i will not stop until my sisters hear me.

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 I should have known right from the start that the bitch was crazy!!!....She was buying cantaloupes without even sniffing them first....I mean, how fucking crazy is that shit?

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ORIGINAL: omegasone

He has been doing it going on 30 yrs. He is now in jail for alot of his crimes.

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ORIGINAL: BeingChewsie

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I admit to not getting this. I have met many people online over the years, I have never been scammed. I followed the same simple rules I followed when meeting men anywhere else. I didn't form emotional attachments to screen names, I didn't give money to people I have not met and am not in a live-in relationship with, I didn't engage in mental masterbation or discussion of fantasies online, I didn't do phone sex. I met them as quickly as possible and checked their backgrounds as best as one can. If anything seemed off I discussed it, and if not satisfied, I walked away...just like you do meeting men offline. Stop being so damn desperate for attention, you'll be much better off.

You allowed yourself to be taken advantage of, accept responsibility for your role in that, stop blaming other people and move on, be wiser next time.