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Redoubt -> RE: Finding a Compatible Dominant (8/26/2007 5:17:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: brattybabe4u Good point...I enjoyed serving, especially with the positive feedback in seeing the joy and appreciation in return. I grew weary of serving at my best, to only receive harsh criticism for one out of those 199 tasks, brought back as an example whenever I made a "mistake". I believe, in the right situation, with the right person, I am a sub. I would like to take my time, get to know a person and to trust and explore to find what I do enjoy. I'm not sure how to write that in a profile. Copy and Paste that, remove the "I'm not sure how to write that in a profile", add "In the past" to the start, and then flesh it out as inspiration what you are looking for comes along. Every journey begins with a step, and every epic saga begins with one word. (And every earth-shattering orgasm begins with... I think you get the point)

biracalsub4wmDom -> RE: Finding a Compatible Dominant (8/27/2007 6:36:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross I say you re-read your other thread and take a good long time before going to seek ANYTHING other than your own personal fulfillment as a single person. LuckyAlbatross.... You scare me.

akisha -> RE: Finding a Compatible Dominant (8/27/2007 12:51:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: brattybabe4u From my last experience, I have painfully learned that I want to serve a monogamous dominant, one I can even introduce in my vanilla world. How do I go about finding this person? Easy, go to www.therightDomforyou.com, fill out all the little questions, and they will ship one if 4 - 6 weeks. Come on now be serious!!! BDSM, nilla, gay, straight, whatever. We all find partners the same way. By meeting people, talking to people and seeing how they meld with us and us with them. First off, know what you want and be totally honest with yourself and with the people you are meeting as to what it is you are looking for. Lying to yourself or them just so they might like you makes everyone miserable in the long run. I just turned down a date with a really nice guy because I finally admitted to myself that at this point and time in my life I will not move for anyone. Either I find someone local, or that will move to me, or i'll choose to be single for the time being. Better then wasting some really nice men's time by meetintg with them and getting to know them when I know damn well I'll not move to be with them. Honesty is always the best policy, especially being honest with yourself.

ehlovindom -> RE: Finding a Compatible Dominant (8/27/2007 8:08:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: corsetgirl ORIGINAL: ehlovindom Dom's R' Us, aisles 12 thru 16. Aisles 4 thru 11 are the poly Doms. LOL...do we have guarantees on these types of Doms and if they become defective, can we return them back to the store? For you, I would promise a money-back guarantee but unfortunately, all sales are final, and please stop squeezing the merchandise. Bruised Doms are very hard to move off the shelves and they hate being discounted! Something to do about their male egos!

corsetgirl -> RE: Finding a Compatible Dominant (8/27/2007 9:49:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ehlovindom quote: ORIGINAL: corsetgirl ORIGINAL: ehlovindom For you, I would promise a money-back guarantee but unfortunately, all sales are final, and please stop squeezing the merchandise. Bruised Doms are very hard to move off the shelves and they hate being discounted! Something to do about their male egos! I never squeeze the doms unless they start squeezing me first. I guess I am more of the nurturing sub, so I am a little more choosy in selecting the right dom.

obis -> RE: Finding a Compatible Dominant (8/28/2007 12:33:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Redoubt Every journey begins with a step, and every epic saga begins with one word. (And every earth-shattering orgasm begins with... I think you get the point) Well don't leave us hanging, you were just getting to the good part! [:D] But yes, the key is the same as any other relationship...meet people in life and make sure you're on the same page before you get too involved.

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