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what makes a woman turn into a domme - 7/8/2005 7:04:52 PM

msstephanysbitch

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i was caught 3 years ago and after a much heated argument and me being thrown out she came to me and told me if i was serious about i could move back in but as a woman. Dont ever leave 6 copies of forced womanhood lying around . i agreed thinking it would wear out but it hasnt in fact shes taken it farther than i ever dreamed it would go. she knows a friend and i have to go there to get my long nails redone every two weeks as well as my eyebrows and shes even had inlays placed in my lashes. its been 3 years since ive seen a stitch of male clothing and she loves to keep me dressed the way women used to do to attract men . short skirts spike heels and god big boobs which she glues in place. How can a wife go from a loving companion to this in 3 years. i just was caught in her clothes reading those mags and jerking off. Do i desirve to be kept a woman for life as she puts it. now shes even making me pay for all those bj's i got from her by making me give them too. Is there no hope or mercy left in this woman or has it all went to revenge and humiliation of what she has turned me into

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 7/9/2005 5:27:24 AM

Niran

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I'm caught between applauding her strength and doing the sympathetic "Ohhhh man..." giggle. Lack of communication caught you in a merciless grip. Damn, I admire your wife. I cant say its something I would have done, but 3 years is a long time to hold up to that. Ultimately, you need to remember that you consented to it, and consent can be revoked. Dont let the trap of miscommunication catch you again. Good luck..

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 7/9/2005 6:33:07 AM

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thats right Niran---communication and consent---key elements in any relationship--vanilla or otherwise--and you are there of free will----but at least you are still there--My ex eons ago before I knew of this life came to bed in My lingerie, as a young woman I freaked--and threw him out, I had no idea till much later what he was and needed, he would have made a great partner---besides, what makes you think just because She became a Domme, that She stopped loving??

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 7/9/2005 6:37:31 AM

LadyJulieAnn

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I am curious. Do you work outside the home, and if you do, do you dress as a female? How do you deal with the sexual nature of your marriage being in chastity for two years now? Are you having any health concerns due to going two years without being allowed any release?

Be well,
Julie

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 7/9/2005 6:42:10 AM

CuirAngelMaam

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Wow!

How did you managed suddenly appearing female in all of your life and relationships?

What did your friends say? Your family? How about your boss? The neighbors?

This sounds like the submissive man's ultimate fantasy of forced-fem not something to complain about, so those may be your fingers I feel tugging on my ankle.

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 7/9/2005 3:32:09 PM

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Wow, you know in a way I really wish my Mistress had that kind of domination inside her, I know she has that potential, but as of yet she hasn't instilled her domination.

Lol, can you introduce your Mistress to mine ;) lol Always good for a domme to have a powerful re-enforcment.

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 7/9/2005 3:33:08 PM

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Cuirangel- your response was the most telling- he/she left a lot of the story out like the long hours it took of determined efforts to get to this stage. Hopefully he/she has been at least shown off to other knowledgable & inderstanding females.

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 7/9/2005 4:08:33 PM

Euryanx

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Not a stitch of male clothing in 3 years?

I could be wrong, and if so i apologize, but this sounds more like fantasy than reality. Or at least reality mixed with a healthy dose of fantasy. If "her" wife is glueing breasts on her chest, she's obviously not on hormones, and I'm sorry, but if you're not on hormones, you're not going to make a very passable woman out in public, especially not at 52 yrs old, 5'11", wearing a wig and fetish clothing.

Very few males can pass as a woman out in the sunlight without years and years of electrolysis to get rid of their facial hair. Getting your nails down and your eyebrows waxed isn't going to make you pass as a woman. Even dressed in everyday women's clothes, with very feminine features (like some Asians), without years of electrolysis, you have to spackle on the foundation to hide facial hair - which generally means you're not fooling anyone.

Again, apologies if I'm wrong, but this reeks of fantasy with maybe 25% of reality thrown in.

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 7/9/2005 4:22:54 PM

onceburned

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quote:

Again, apologies if I'm wrong, but this reeks of fantasy with maybe 25% of reality thrown in.

I think you are being generous.

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 7/10/2005 11:09:20 AM

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i'm old enough, and experienced enough, in life and the lifestyle, to not get caught up in this, so;

IF what you say is true, and just taking YOUR word for it,..
what ARE you complaining about? or are you bragging?
if you consent to it? go for it.
otherwise? and i am not being mean to you, but you KNOW where the door is!

as someone else said, i wish to hell MY life had a domme like this, but someone else mentioned, give me the hormones! make me change completely...........go get the OP and all.

ah wellllll. i may as well shut up.
i am in too deep now.
make a decision. it's YOUR life.......remember? and this is not being mean to you either.....my pa always said.......put up or shut up!
you're a big boy. handle it bro.
if ya need a friend, i'm here. i always listen.

the wolf......on a lazy laid back sunday.

take care dude.
i should be so lucky!

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 7/10/2005 3:06:39 PM

GoddessDustyGold

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I actually talked to a boy in England who had this exact fantasy. (Are you sure you are not him?) And he claimed he was already living it. Running his business from his household because he couldn't even go out in public. That boy claimed he was living by himeself also. So , if this was true, a Lady may be begun the proces but he created his own prison. And, I will add, I have had this fantasy presented to Me many, many times.
Which begs the questions...I see you have an income and a net worth listed. How do you go to work everyday? How does your life unfold without anybody knowing of this?
The post is written as complete fantasy. It is an invitation to as much humiliation and self-humiliation you can garner. It goes with your profile. How entrapped are you if you are permitted to be on the internet to participate in a forum such as this, and how do you list an income without ordering some clothing online and changing out of your heels and into some jeans? Finally, if this is a serious question, it goes on for as long as you allow it to go on. Are you incapable of walking out the door? Or are you thrilled that you are getting even a tiny percentage of your secret fanatasies fulfilled?

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 7/10/2005 3:35:19 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: msstephanysbitch

i was caught 3 years ago and after a much heated argument and me being thrown out she came to me and told me if i was serious about i could move back in but as a woman. Dont ever leave 6 copies of forced womanhood lying around . i agreed thinking it would wear out but it hasnt in fact shes taken it farther than i ever dreamed it would go. she knows a friend and i have to go there to get my long nails redone every two weeks as well as my eyebrows and shes even had inlays placed in my lashes. its been 3 years since ive seen a stitch of male clothing and she loves to keep me dressed the way women used to do to attract men . short skirts spike heels and god big boobs which she glues in place. How can a wife go from a loving companion to this in 3 years. i just was caught in her clothes reading those mags and jerking off. Do i desirve to be kept a woman for life as she puts it. now shes even making me pay for all those bj's i got from her by making me give them too. Is there no hope or mercy left in this woman or has it all went to revenge and humiliation of what she has turned me into

Nice fantasy.

When men talk about how their wives or girlfriends were "turned" into a femdom because they were angry or betrayed, or as some sort of a revenge plot, you can pretty much write it off as a male wank fantasy. The way women respond when they find their man has been hiding a huge secret like that is to either leave them or suggest therapy. In your fantasy, though, she gives you no choice but to take your lumps and pushes you even more into your fantasy -- and not give you a choice.

The sad thing is that some men may read this and think there is a remote chance they can "turn" their unkinky wife into a femdom by angering her or making her feel betrayed. It's a male fantasy. Leave it at that.

Akasha

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 7/10/2005 5:17:29 PM

KarbonCopy

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*stands behind Aakasha for defence and makes faces*

Thats right! *bobbs head* You tell it like it is Aakasha.

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 7/13/2005 8:31:24 AM

KCAttitude

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Very true! And very well put Akasha!

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 7/13/2005 2:17:16 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Euryanx
Not a stitch of male clothing in 3 years?

I could be wrong, and if so i apologize, but this sounds more like fantasy than reality. Or at least reality mixed with a healthy dose of fantasy. If "her" wife is glueing breasts on her chest, she's obviously not on hormones, and I'm sorry, but if you're not on hormones, you're not going to make a very passable woman out in public, especially not at 52 yrs old, 5'11", wearing a wig and fetish clothing.

Very few males can pass as a woman out in the sunlight without years and years of electrolysis to get rid of their facial hair. Getting your nails down and your eyebrows waxed isn't going to make you pass as a woman. Even dressed in everyday women's clothes, with very feminine features (like some Asians), without years of electrolysis, you have to spackle on the foundation to hide facial hair - which generally means you're not fooling anyone.

Again, apologies if I'm wrong, but this reeks of fantasy with maybe 25% of reality thrown in.

Oh My, that is exactly what I thought! I wasn't going to say anything since everyone seems to believe him, and since my inexperienced senses may be off, but I agree with you completely... And will apologize if I'm wrong. M

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 7/13/2005 3:20:33 PM

Niran

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So I feel dumb LOL *makes several notes*

1. Wait til about 10 other people reply.
2. If its a little too out there to be real...it probably is. First lesson learned at VRD holds true here.
3. Find out what that is in Onceburned's avvy.

LOL

N

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 7/13/2005 7:02:42 PM

Euryanx

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Niran

So I feel dumb LOL *makes several notes*

1. Wait til about 10 other people reply.
2. If its a little too out there to be real...it probably is. First lesson learned at VRD holds true here.
3. Find out what that is in Onceburned's avvy.

LOL Niran. Wouldn't worry about it. You're obviously a trusting person that takes people at their word. Nothing wrong with that. I was just trying to do a little reading between the lines.

Considering that the originator of this thread has posted on other threads, and has not tried to defend herself on this one, would seem to confirm our suspicions.

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 7/14/2005 5:57:19 AM

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i agree with Euryanx, this sounds more like fantasy than reality. Since you've been there, done that, got the t shirt, i defer to your experience and expertise.

Also agree entirely with Akasha. You don't force a vanilla partner to become a dominant (yup, that's how you spell it-tired of reading "dominate"-for those that don't know, i give lessons) simply because they get chapped about your kink.

You'd either be on the street by now or out of therapy after 3 years.

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 7/14/2005 8:34:52 AM

onceburned

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Niran
1. Wait til about 10 other people reply.
2. If its a little too out there to be real...it probably is. First lesson learned at VRD holds true here.
3. Find out what that is in Onceburned's avvy.

LOL

I can help you out with number three: its a field of fire lilies.

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RE: what makes a woman turn into a domme - 7/14/2005 8:45:59 AM

Niran

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Thanks all, lol. I still feel silly, but oh well. Live and learn, no?

N

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