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ORIGINAL: Griswold

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

I'm going to be hired out soon and was wondering how those subs / slaves out there who have already done this felt about it? Did you enjoy it / hate it? Were you nervous, anxious etc etc?
 
Also have any Doms / Dommes out there hired a slave / sub and if so did you enjoy it?
Would you consider hiring your sub / slave out if you havent already?

I'd just like to say at the outset...I pay better...and you look pretty motherfucking delish to me.

In truth i do not know how much Sir will be recieving for my services but ill be sure to inform Him you would pay well

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

Ok, i'm hoping i will cover all bases and answer all the questions asked of me in this post but forgive me if i miss anything again and just holler your question again if you still want the answer.
Firstly let me apologise for my absence from this thread since posting it but i have been busy with that thing we call a job lol. I work in the licence trade and keep weird hours / weird shifts.
Where to start!?! Safety maybe? Sir and i have been discussing the possibility of hiring me out for a few months now. We have covered every angle of safety repeatedly. Major concerns are obviously opening me up to abuse, sexual health, being able to trust the other person / people in the equation etc etc.
It has been decided by us both that i will only be hired out to people we know or friends of people we know that come with for want of a better description, a good reference. Still not foolproof i hear some of you say!! Well yes that may be so, but since when was anything not without risk?
Am i doing this for myself or just for Sir? For both of us is the answer.
What will my service entail? Domestic, sexual, play, whatever is required really.
Will money exchange hands and to whom? Yes is the simple answer. The money will go to Sir. My first experience of being hired out will be with one of Sirs very good friends and he has agreed a sum with Sir. I do not know what this sum is and i dont want to.
Judgement of my actions from others. Everyone is entitled to their opinion of what i am going to do. I knew there would be those who strongly disagree with what i am going to do and would strongly state it. This does not bother me in any shape or form and can lead to interesting discussion.
What i will say is that just because it is not your kink to be hired out or hire out does not make it wrong in any shape or form.
So in short this is no spur of the moment ill planned action we are about to take. We have covered safety, we are both consenting and we are harming noone in the process.
For those who called me a prostitute or stated my actions if they were to be sexual were those of a prostitute all i can say is and.......? This is the only statement in the 4 pages i have read that has annoyed me. There is absolutely nothing wrong with prostitution and if i choose to sell sexual services for whatever reason who is anyone to tell me it is wrong!?!

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ORIGINAL: Padriag

Missturbation asked for advice from people who had experience with this particular fetish.  If you don't fit that description then you've got nothing to contribute... get it?

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Would you consider hiring your sub / slave out if you havent already?

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

For me personally it makes me feel good that someone would be willing to pay for my services (whatever they may be). It also makes me feel more whorish and i enjoy the feeling.
Sir jokes it is to fund His retirement lol. The money will go to Him. To be honest without discussing this with Him and recieving His permission i would rather not go into His feelings about it.

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ORIGINAL: Prospective

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

For me personally it makes me feel good that someone would be willing to pay for my services (whatever they may be). It also makes me feel more whorish and i enjoy the feeling.
Sir jokes it is to fund His retirement lol. The money will go to Him. To be honest without discussing this with Him and recieving His permission i would rather not go into His feelings about it.

I could see it being very easy for people to miss judge the situation, hence why you might get some strong views. I commend your trust in him and i'm sure he will carry that trust well. I only wish that some day, some one would show such an intimate trust in me.

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

To you, and Missturbation (whose most recent posts I've just read) I can only say: you asked for our opinions, this is what they are. Deal with it.

Hang on just a sec, i said everyone has a right to their opinion and to state it in this thread. I didnt ask for and did not want just people to reply who were for this kink, i wanted and got many different opinions.
The only thing i did respond to was being called a prostitute for my actions when it is meant in a negative way. I find it insulting to myself and those out there whose career is prostitution.

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

To you, and Missturbation (whose most recent posts I've just read) I can only say: you asked for our opinions, this is what they are. Deal with it.

Hang on just a sec, i said everyone has a right to their opinion and to state it in this thread. I didnt ask for and did not want just people to reply who were for this kink, i wanted and got many different opinions.
The only thing i did respond to was being called a prostitute for my actions when it is meant in a negative way. I find it insulting to myself and those out there whose career is prostitution.

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ORIGINAL: Bobkgin

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

To you, and Missturbation (whose most recent posts I've just read) I can only say: you asked for our opinions, this is what they are. Deal with it.

Hang on just a sec, i said everyone has a right to their opinion and to state it in this thread. I didnt ask for and did not want just people to reply who were for this kink, i wanted and got many different opinions.
The only thing i did respond to was being called a prostitute for my actions when it is meant in a negative way. I find it insulting to myself and those out there whose career is prostitution.

I've no objection to prostitution. It is a time-honoured trade and the few I've known who were friends and lovers (not in a professional capacity) have been warm, intelligent, and caring.

But you did ask for honest opinions and there are going to be some who feel that way about prostitution.

This is what I'm referring to in the above quote: asking for opinions is going to bring out opinions that bother you.

That doesn't stop you from responding, but Padraig's rant was criticizing people for doing exactly what you asked of them.

I would have thought negative comments about prostitution should be expected, given that some feel that way and given the wording of the OP that certainly implies this is what is being contemplated.

I would think it possible to defend the profession without giving offense to someone who has given you the opinion you asked for.

To slam someone for doing as you asked merely looks like a set-up for that purpose. I doubt that was your intention, but that is the appearance.

Thus my comment was directed to you as well as Padraig.

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ORIGINAL: ThinkingKitten

Hmmm. Prostitution - the oldest profession...
 
Problem is missturbation, the only people I've ever heard espousing prostitution in a positive way, are prostitutes themselves - and that is from the narrow band of them that are there of their own free-will, as their chosen profession, and who are able to profit from it themselves.  
The rest who are there because they are press-ganged into it by guys who have control over them in other ways (drug-pushers e.g.), or who are battered wives/girlfriends or runaways trying to escape something they perceive as worse, and end up with it as their only means of income (of which they see only a pittance, the rest goes to the pimp).. seem (based on what I have read/seen reported in the media etc), to make up the rest of them. They're not there because they WANT to be. [Sorry, rather long sentence there]

Soooo, if you're a healthy, mentally competent adult who chooses to apply for the "girls wanted" ad at the local brothel, or manage to setup and run your own escort agency (and avoid organised crime rings in the process), then maybe that is positive. But do their clients respect them? I daresay they appreciate their existence, enjoy their time with them, fantasise afterwards, but want to procreate with them? Um......
 
So all I'm saying is that the negative slant (insult) placed on it within this thread should come as no surprise. I personally don't care what you do, I just hope no bad end comes from it.
 

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ORIGINAL: ThinkingKitten

Hmmm. Prostitution - the oldest profession...
 
Problem is missturbation, the only people I've ever heard espousing prostitution in a positive way, are prostitutes themselves - and that is from the narrow band of them that are there of their own free-will, as their chosen profession, and who are able to profit from it themselves. The rest who are there because they are press-ganged into it by guys who have control over them in other ways (drug-pushers e.g.), or who are battered wives/girlfriends or runaways trying to escape something they perceive as worse, and end up with it as their only means of income (of which they see only a pittance, the rest goes to the pimp).. seem (based on what I have read/seen reported in the media etc), to make up the rest of them. They're not there because they WANT to be. [Sorry, rather long sentence there]
 
Soooo, if you're a healthy, mentally competent adult who chooses to apply for the "girls wanted" ad at the local brothel, or manage to setup and run your own escort agency (and avoid organised crime rings in the process), then maybe that is positive. But do their clients respect them? I daresay they appreciate their existence, enjoy their time with them, fantasise afterwards, but want to procreate with them? Um......
 
So all I'm saying is that the negative slant (insult) placed on it within this thread should come as no surprise. I personally don't care what you do, I just hope no bad end comes from it.
 

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ORIGINAL: missturbation
 
'For those who called me a prostitute or stated my actions if they were to be sexual were those of a prostitute all i can say is and.......? This is the only statement in the 4 pages i have read that has annoyed me. There is absolutely nothing wrong with prostitution and if i choose to sell sexual services for whatever reason who is anyone to tell me it is wrong!?!'

That is what i wrote. I never said they were wrong or insulted them in any way. I asked who were they to make such judgements of me in a negative fashion? 

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

I never said they were wrong or insulted them in any way. I asked who were they to make such judgements of me in a negative fashion? 

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

My kink is not everyones but live and let live surely!!