planomaid
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Joined: 10/4/2004 Status: offline
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The "Shotgun" approach has been around since, well, pickup lines I guess. For a very long time men have used it to find potential bedmates. The logic being if you ask 100 women, 99 will say no, but 1 (and it can be more than 100..) will eventually say yes. Personally it seems like it is far more effort to find that "1" than it is to invest in a personal relationship, but for some men, that just seems like too much work. Women, on the other hand, haven't had to do this, as they are almost always the ones being pursued. Were a woman to walk up to 100 men and ask them to bed, I'm sure she would probably have 99 'yes!' to the one 'no'. Well, hopefully for my gender there would be more no's, but lets not get picky with the example. When you put yourself out there on the web, asking for attention, you will get it. You can't avoid nor stop the unwanted attention, as the medium is not set up for something like that. What you can do, however, is pick and choose who, if any, you desire to continue contact with. You can delete/block the rest. Dommes are not the only ones who get frustrated with this sort of thing. Men get frustrated as well, perhaps not in the same exact manner, but they still have their own share of the problem. We have to deal with the flaky/horrible/add-your-own-description-of-bad-domme-here ourselves. I've yet to figure out a method that doesn't involve sifting through the bad to find the good ones. If anyone else has, please share!
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