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RE: What made you realize you were in love? - 7/14/2005 11:42:14 AM

RiotGirl

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Just something i feel in the heart, in the soul. With no rhyme or reason. Its an all encompassing thing, that leaps and bounds over eternity, unconditionally. Its happened 3 times and i dunno why. It just does. Hits like a ton of bricks and i feel it deep inside of me (usually before i'm ready to admit it). i usually cant explain why i end up past my eyeballs inlove. i just do. Dunno where it comes from, how it got there. I suppose what usually alerts me is when i look at them and can feel them in my heart. Personally love to me is one of THE most serious things. Like Anthro said, it can be dangerous. Love to me, is the most purest emotion. Its not something that can be taken lightly. It can be changed, or taken back. And its why one of my trademarks with those i have loved goes like this.

no matter what, always, and still.

same thing, said 3 different ways, incase they dont "catch it" the first time. Everyone of those words are whole heartedly ment. Mind you though <wg> Inlove, liking a person and love are 3 different things as well.

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RE: What made you realize you were in love? - 7/15/2005 12:07:05 AM

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This is absolutely horrible, but I knew that I was in love with Holly after she told me that she had been intimate with someone ... at that point, we were just friends, and neither of us had even considered bisexuality. But when she told me that, I was insanely jealous. It took me about a week to sort out my feelings about her, and her another 2-3 to sort out hers about me, but ... obviously, 6 years later, it worked out.

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RE: What made you realize you were in love? - 7/15/2005 7:31:48 PM

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Looking back I fell in love with my Dom right before I met him. But I knew I was in love the very first time we met. He flew all the way to my house from California, and had me meet him in a park. I was totally blindfolded, and the first time I saw his green, really intense eyes staring into mine, and I saw his hands on mine, and I threw myself in his lap, I knew it was over. IT WAS OVER, this girl was done. And I knew that I was in love because we both hesitated to say 'I love you.' I know that's because I've felt like I said it to one person once before when I didn't really mean it. And... yeah.

I also knew I think that I was in love when I wrote a song about him. (duh) and I don't know... For some reason I was really hesitant to let him know because I didn't know if that was part of our scene. I didn't know if we were 'supposed' to say things like that. And then I realized it's about us and not about some larger rules or whatever. So yeah. It was a really spiritual experience and I hope to keep falling in love. It is my mission.

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RE: What made you realize you were in love? - 7/16/2005 8:27:15 PM

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i asked Master today, if there was any one point in time that He knew i loved Him.

i have been thinking about this.

there is not any one time, but ohhhh, there are so many incidences i can think of where admiration grew, wheree passion, compassion, adoration, appreciation grew...

i loved Him as a person before i met Him face to face, just because of His caring, and strength.

i realized i wanted to be in His life for as long as possible, one night, after spending 2 hours in a hotel room, just talking about family and dreams, and feeling so close.

i tell Him "i love You." every time it hits me. *l* and i tell Him a lot. He is cool with it.

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RE: What made you realize you were in love? - 7/18/2005 4:07:14 PM

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I strongly suspected it before we even met. Doubts started to fade fast after I had spent a few days with her. I knew for sure after being with her for a solid week, dreading my departure in a few more days, and knowing I never wanted us to be apart from that moment on. Alas, it was not to be, but at least I got to know that wonderful, soul-filling feeling for awhile.

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RE: What made you realize you were in love? - 7/18/2005 7:07:25 PM

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I know I'm in loved not because of something that happened, but because of something that is ALWAYS happening to me...
I get a bad butterfly attack in my stomach everytime I'm about to meet him or call him. I had never got nervous like that before with anyone else! And is not because he's a dominant, it's because I'm totally stupid for him.

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RE: What made you realize you were in love? - 7/19/2005 8:26:28 PM

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Pet and I have already seen each other a couple of times. We had lots of fun with the things we did during our encounters and we were already considering each other bf and gf. One day, while driving to visit my pet, I heard the Counting Crows song "Love" and became very happy singing along with the lyrics. That's what made me realize that I really love my pet. Not to mention, I sing the song while taking a shower. Especially after having a fun night with my pet.

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