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RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? - 7/11/2005 11:56:22 AM

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And please, if you can't use the word "bitch" on a BDSM board, I really have to wonder what the world is coming to.

*laughing*

Well...you only think that because you are a cockcarton...

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RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? - 7/11/2005 11:58:28 AM

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OMG i cannot believe that from one post yall are fighting over the word bitch........which by definition is a female dog.........So an answer to your question is this........every man has a different prefrence i have met some who do not like bj's but most do. i personally love to suck a nice hard cock...........but thats me

hehehehe.........just go with the flow if they like it do it........if they dont find out what they like and do that

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RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? - 7/11/2005 1:17:46 PM

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my Master has patiently taught me to deep throat His (very) sizeable cock over the last couple of years and i love the sore throat feeling the following day knowing His cock has bruised me...........

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RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? - 7/11/2005 3:07:16 PM

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Ok, I'm going to stay WAY far away from commenting on the various uses and misuses of certain words and just answer the question.

Personally, I love a good bj. Unlike most of the wannabe's that are reeking up the online world, I don't have a 13" penis. Nor is it as thick as a salt box. That said, after starting off my sexual career in my teens and wondering if I was ever going to get a bj, much less get deepthroated, I met someone that had no qualms about it. I was definately nonplussed by the entire thing.
It wasn't until I met a lady that not only knew what she was doing, but LOVED doing it that I found out that I love a good BJ, deepthroat or not.
So, count me on the list of those that do enjoy them.

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RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? - 7/11/2005 3:40:02 PM

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Next, i must say, i am absolutely bowled over that men walk the earth who do not crave blow jobs 24/7..and this kinda scares me..cuz i have a major bj jones..and i dun wanna end up with an indifferent man...o Lordy.

How common is Lam's opinion on blow jobs? How much do i need to worry?

Don't panic!! I'm sure I love them enough to make up for LaM...

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RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? - 7/11/2005 4:49:25 PM

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I appreciate a girl who can deepthroat with skill. I have found it's usually indicative of a greater tolerance for having her throat forcibly fucked. I also think it's waaay better than an alarm clock in the morning. Barring actual emergencies, it's the only approved method of waking me.
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RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? - 7/11/2005 6:37:53 PM

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Hello,
First I would like to say YES, Deepthroating is great. Maybe it is because only ONE has been able to do so...and she did a very good job doing so.
Second. When referring to a sub as a bitch. it would best be done to your own sub only. Because many Doms do not like others calling their property deragatory names. she has value. What a Dom calls his own sub is between those two and no one else. If she doesnt like it, she can walk. But, referring to ALL subs as a bitch isnt acceptable in the circles I have been in.
I found this thread very funny. shy had to qualify what she said repeatedly. I believe she spoke it well the first time around. Good job shy and regards to your lucky Master.

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RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? - 7/11/2005 6:43:17 PM

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Personally, I like it.

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RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? - 7/11/2005 6:44:34 PM

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Hello,
First I would like to say YES, Deepthroating is great. Maybe it is because only ONE has been able to do so...and she did a very good job doing so.
Second. When referring to a sub as a bitch. it would best be done to your own sub only. Because many Doms do not like others calling their property deragatory names. she has value. What a Dom calls his own sub is between those two and no one else. If she doesnt like it, she can walk. But, referring to ALL subs as a bitch isnt acceptable in the circles I have been in.
I found this thread very funny. shy had to qualify what she said repeatedly. I believe she spoke it well the first time around. Good job shy and regards to your lucky Master.

Why thank you Sir.
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RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? - 7/11/2005 7:13:06 PM

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I need to put in my two cents on this.

I am VERY sensitive to being called names by someone who isn't my partner. I don't like pet names, let alone "insulting" names. I will tell someone calling me "sweetie" to stop.

LaM didn't call ANYONE names in the spesific, neither did he make a comment about the nature of submissive women in general.

The OP's question was--"do dominant people like to be deep throated?"

LaM answered "I can take it or leave it, but do it on occation to prove to the bitch that I can."

"the bitch" in this case is the person he is with. He doesn't say "I would be interested in getting deep throated by the OP to prove to the bitch I can." Nor does he say "all submissive women should deep throat me because they are bitches and I have the authority to make them."

It's pretty clear, I think, that he's refering to someone that he is -with-, therefor someone he has hte authority to refer to as bitch. It's also pretty clear that "the bitch" isn't a general reference to all submissive women. If I wanted to say that, I would write "to prove to bitches (or the bitches) that I can."

Like I said, I get angry at diminuatives, let alone derogatories, even in mild forms and this post didn't set off my radar. I don't like seeing people lecturing him, when it's obvious that he didn't make a blanket statment, or one to the OP. He refered to someone he is with, in a situation where he has the control.

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RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? - 7/12/2005 11:29:22 AM

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But NOT all men enjoy a deepthroat. And i think, well...maybe... i might have found the only 2 doms who dont....or are there more?

I'm sure that there are more than those two. I'm not one of them (well, I would prefer shallow oral that did not have to be stopped to avoid retching to someone trying to DT too long and too often with mixed success... unless I'm in a "gag her mood"), but there are certainly some out there.

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RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? - 7/13/2005 5:24:30 AM

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The only time I want a blow job is when it is a demonstration of power. The mouth simply isn't designed to give as much contact as the vagina.

I don't enjoy blow jobs from my romantic partners at all. I'd much rather have vaginal sex or a hand job.

From my slaves, I would much rather have a blow job.

And, for the record, it would tickle me to no end to be called a "cockcarton"...

Taggard

Dear Taggart and Lam..You lovely cockcartons...i object to the negativity in "bitch". In my experience, in real life, it was used to describe an ascerbic, argumenative, domineering woman. So as a submissive woman, it feels wrong. Also, we dun know each other well enough to be trading endearments..so i just expect to be called by my nick. It's sorta the dilemma posed by c**t; it may be an endearment from a lover, but on the boards, it can only be what it has always been in real lfe -- a term of great disrespect.

i still dun know what a "dick bitch" is. Would someone please explain so i can expand my vocab?

Lastly; i stand in amazement that You two cockcartons dun crave bjs and throat f**king. Makes me wonder if You've just never had it done right? However, it still scares me..Doms and Masters who dun want bjs 24/7..o Lordy...what would i do?

i truely do not think i could be with such a Man. My bj jones is especially strong.

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RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? - 7/13/2005 6:04:49 AM

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Cockcarton??? Roflmao... i like that one. Can anyone tell me how to get a gallon of coffee out of a keyboard? What a way to start the day.

Never been deep throated. No it isn't because i have a huge penis just haven't found anyone with either the talent or inclination for it. Can't comment on how it feels but i can't imagine any guy that doesn't relish a good bj administered by someone that likes doing it and is accomplished. There's a wide variety of talent in this respect. Does a good bj replace good vaginal sex? Depends upon the mood.

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RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? - 7/13/2005 6:56:02 AM

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[It's sorta the dilemma posed by c**t; it may be an endearment from a lover, but on the boards, it can only be what it has always been in real lfe -- a term of great disrespect.

Yet, what I don't understand is why a term of great disrespect from some nobody on some message board would create such a strong reaction in anybody. If I were to start calling everyone I replied to a cunt, whore, bitch who would care? Who am I but some nobody on some message board. I have never understood how people can just surrender their power to any knit-wit with a keyboard.

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Lastly; i stand in amazement that You two cockcartons dun crave bjs and throat f**king. Makes me wonder if You've just never had it done right? However, it still scares me..Doms and Masters who dun want bjs 24/7..o Lordy...what would i do?

Ok, I will try to explain what it is I don't care for in blow jobs.

When I am with a woman, her mental and physical state is very important to me. I need to have a constant open channel of communication. I like to look into her eyes and I am very aware of the physical state of her body. I pay attention to the flush of her cheeks and her chest. I monitor breathing and her reactions to various stimuli. When I am physical with a woman, I need to be in control. Due to the simple physics of a blow job, so much of woman's body is hidden from me. On top of that, when a woman has my cock in her mouth, there is not much control on my part.

All that said, as a demonstration of power, blow jobs are cool. A good face fucking, with one of those blow job gags that would prevent any biting, does indeed work for me.

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RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? - 7/13/2005 6:56:38 AM

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Ok, I'm going to stay WAY far away from commenting on the various uses and misuses of certain words and just answer the question.

Personally, I love a good bj. Unlike most of the wannabe's that are reeking up the online world, I don't have a 13" penis. Nor is it as thick as a salt box. That said, after starting off my sexual career in my teens and wondering if I was ever going to get a bj, much less get deepthroated, I met someone that had no qualms about it. I was definately nonplussed by the entire thing.
It wasn't until I met a lady that not only knew what she was doing, but LOVED doing it that I found out that I love a good BJ, deepthroat or not.
So, count me on the list of those that do enjoy them.

To Bbare and Dommemagnet..yes..very few women can really deep throat. It's not just controlling the gag relex..it's being able to suck..HARD..while the cock is so deeply buried..and attaining a rythm so that the woman has enough air. i (used to be able to) do it for hours; keeping a man on the verge of orgasm until i knew it had become almost painful for him, then having him cum.

i did have lovers who wanted nothing besides bjs..selfish men.

Adding "throat f**king as slavedesires describes makes me all wiggly in my chair. His hands in my hair? His hips thrusting? OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

i have a MAJOR bj jones. And, i might add, a bj involves balls, ass and cock, not just cock.

i think Taggart and Lam, those lovely cockcartons, have never had a good bj..and that accounts for Their indifference. One submissive's opinion.

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RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? - 7/13/2005 7:19:30 AM

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To Bbare and Dommemagnet..yes..very few women can really deep throat. It's not just controlling the gag relex..it's being able to suck..HARD..while the cock is so deeply buried..and attaining a rythm so that the woman has enough air. i (used to be able to) do it for hours; keeping a man on the verge of orgasm until i knew it had become almost painful for him, then having him cum.

Reading this thread is just becoming a tease... especially at work.

~wanders off with a funny gait~

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RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? - 7/13/2005 7:23:56 AM

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I am new here... so my thought is how did the question of deep throat and blow job get so lost in the bitch comment... secondly... he isn't saying he doesn't like bj i think he is saying he sets a difference in standard on who is allowed to suck his dick... and if he doesn't feel it is the best feeling for him i guess it isn't ... or he hasn't gotten the right mouth on him yet... OR he precieves it as less and it will always be less....

If you are with someone who feels this way but your desire and expertise is blow jobs/deep throating then say tootles deary... wink

I don't think it is prevelant in men to deny this pleasure... if it bothers you this much to put a post on it... the Nilla men love a bj.... lol just my opinion and i am probably wrong...

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RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? - 7/13/2005 7:56:27 AM

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Cockcarton??? Roflmao... i like that one. Can anyone tell me how to get a gallon of coffee out of a keyboard? What a way to start the day.

Well best off washing it damp cloth. Use some cleaning liquid on it. Then turn upside down and left to dry. Or take the keyboard apart and clean it fully out. Some keys may stuff up untill dry and also some with be sticky. Use more detergent or even WD40 ( if you have it in America).

Sorry for going off topic but I thought hey its already gone off topic so ill help it swing in another direction.

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RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? - 7/13/2005 8:03:34 AM

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i (used to be able to) do it for hours; keeping a man on the verge of orgasm until i knew it had become almost painful for him, then having him cum.

You see, this has absolutely zero attraction for me. There is no way I would want to be (relatively) inactive for hours like this.

I mean, I like to orgasm, but waiting hours for one orgasm just doesn't appeal to me.

I am sure the sub men would love this, giving up that kind of control to their partner, but it never works for me.

Before I found the lifestyle, I had lots of blowjobs. I have had the whole tease and tempt and slow and long. I have had women who have loved to do it and did it well. It still wasn't anywhere near as good as looking into their eyes and kissing their lips while I slowly slid in and out of them.

One of the best things about being a Dom is that I no longer have to sit through boring blow jobs...

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RE: do ALL doms like to be deepthroated? - 7/13/2005 8:26:14 AM

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i (used to be able to) do it for hours; keeping a man on the verge of orgasm until i knew it had become almost painful for him, then having him cum.

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You see, this has absolutely zero attraction for me. There is no way I would want to be (relatively) inactive for hours like this.

Why remain inactive during this period. Couldn't you torture her from a 69 position? i've always gotten plenty of physical feedback while 69'ing. Never tried the torture aspect since i'm sub but why wouldn't that work for you?

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n, I like to orgasm, but waiting hours for one orgasm just doesn't appeal to me.

That's the tease and denial that subs lust after. Talk about building sexual tension, anticipation, frustration, all wonderful things from a bottom's perspective. i realize it doesn't get er done for you, so a simple explanation.

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am sure the sub men would love this, giving up that kind of control to their partner, but it never works for me.

i don't see why you have to give up any control here at all. Wouldn't you be in control of the action and dictating the pace?

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Before I found the lifestyle, I had lots of blowjobs. I have had the whole tease and tempt and slow and long. I have had women who have loved to do it and did it well. It still wasn't anywhere near as good as looking into their eyes and kissing their lips while I slowly slid in and out of them.

I totally agree with you on this point but still think a well executed bj is a work of fine art. Most ladies would probably agree that cunnilingus when properly performed is completely enjoyable in it's own right but with the right person, the intimacy that you describe above is better.

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One of the best things about being a Dom is that I no longer have to sit through boring blow jobs...

Geez Tag, i appreciate your postion and all but a "boring" blowjob? Isn't that an oxymoron?

No offense intended with any of these comments. Just think this thread is a very good illustration that we are all different regarding what we like and how we like it.

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