pixieunleashed
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The question being posed as I understood the original posting to be, was if switches were just subs topping from the bottom...that is a labeling issue more than anything else. To go with that idea....I would say, if a switch was a sub topping from the bottom, they would label themselves a sub. Now we have another issue being raised in this forum as well that I would like to adress and share my opinions on. Topping from the bottom.......*smiles* interesting concept when dealing with relationships, even short ones that only involve a scene. My belief is that ALL subs/slaves and switches in bottom mode, top from the bottom. I think this because relationship laws govern it to be true. The one that has the power to say no, is the one with the control, or, the one on top. When a sub/slave has a safe word they can use to stop the scene, they have the control. When a Dominant gives a sub/slave a command, they immediately relinquish the control to the sub/slave, because it is the sub/slave that has the choice now to either obey or reject it. If a Dominant owns/collars a sub/slave and wants to keep them, and abuses them, or does things repeatedly that the sub/slave doesn't like, or never does what the sub/slave likes, the sub/slave always has the optoin to end the relationship, again...putting the sub/slave in control, or on top. In reality, "topping from the bottom" is something that ALL subs/slaves/bottoms, do. Being rude about it when staying in role however, is an entirely other story. Being rude and demanding while portraying yourself as a submissive/slave is either acceptable or not to the Dominant and they can decide how to best handle that situation. Myself, I don't deal with rude people. Thanks for reading this, and have a great day, pixie
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