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Ur4me2spank -> Naughty rhymes (6/22/2004 1:53:39 PM)

I've not had the pleasure,
To meet many here,
So the rhyme may put off,
Some ladies I fear,
But I'm just a Dom,
Looking for his first sub,
Without going to bars,
Or joining a club,
The lady I search for,
Knows her desire,
To be spanked and controlled,
Her spark turned to fire,
She's small and she's nubile,
She's married like me,
She just needs someone,
Who can set her soul free,
Free to explore,
More pleasure than pain,
To give of herself,
In the hopes that she'll gain,
A measure of freedom,
She's been denied all this time,
To reach a plateau,
That's truly sublime,
So if you are out there,
You know who you are,
I'll carry you with me,
No matter how far.....



MistressDREAD -> RE: Naughty rhymes (6/22/2004 5:22:52 PM)


very nice and sly way for a introduction.
but why does the suplicant need be married?
do You like the thrill of cheating? Not very
Honorable actions I think...
I still like your intro tho

yesssss very sly Dom...............



Ur4me2spank -> RE: Naughty rhymes (6/23/2004 5:35:10 AM)

MistressDREAD,

Thank you for your thoughts on my introductory rhyme. As to the point you made concerning her need to be married, and the lack of Honor in that; quite frankly, I would rather have every aspect of life satisfied within my marriage but unfortunately that is not the case. With forming a relationship with another married individual, our expectations and reasons for coming to said union would be the same. Honorable? Perhaps not, but honest none the less.



MistressDREAD -> RE: Naughty rhymes (6/24/2004 11:11:52 AM)

LOL
I understand Your thought process
but it does not fit into what My beliefs
are in My BDSM

Again in My eyes You are simply a Wife
Swapper cheatin the swap, whom desires
to add a kink and not a BDSMer whom
practices Honor which is a part of the
BDSM I was taught.



proudsub -> RE: Naughty rhymes (6/24/2004 11:23:48 AM)

Nice poem. Here's a thread you might find interesting:

http://www.collarme.com/forum/Vanilla_partners/m_8561/tm.htm

Have you talked to your spouse about your bdsm interests? I never thought hubby would understand, but boy was i wrong and after 35 years of marriage he became my Master.



Ur4me2spank -> RE: Naughty rhymes (6/25/2004 5:42:03 AM)

MistressDREAD

At the risk of being ostricized here, I enjoy the aspects of this lifestyle that bring heightened pleasure to both the one that I am with and myself. If that offends the "true" BDSM'rs then I'm sorry to hear that. My point was not to offend or degradate the Lifestyle but simply to put forth, in an upfront and forthright manner, both what I am and who it is I'm looking for. While it may not fit into the moral or ethical codes held by many, there may just be someone out there to whom it does appeal.



Ur4me2spank -> RE: Naughty rhymes (6/25/2004 5:54:45 AM)

proudsub,

Thank you for your thoughts and the link. In answer to your question, no I have not directly broached the subject with my spouse. I've suggested certain enhancements, i.e. spanking, lite bondage, toys, in an apparently joking manner before and have been shot down each time.
I am, therefore, left with a choice. Get out of a twenty+ year marriage, that otherwise has worked quite well, or turn off the needs, wants and desires that have led me here. Ultimately, the choice comes down to destroying the lives of people I hold dear in my life or denying myself. What a miserable choice. :-(



iwillserveu -> RE: Naughty rhymes (6/25/2004 3:28:13 PM)

You won't be ostracized.

"True" anything are idiots. "True" moslems cut off heads, the other 400 or so million are "fake" moslems. "True" christians feel we are all going to Hell and only "fake" ones are here. "True" BDSMers judge you and all us "fake" ones don't.

I'd reccommend honesty between all concerned, but far be it for a mere supplicant to speak up and face the wrath of the "true" Dominants.[:)]

Seriously have you asked your wife if you can pursue a D/s relationship with out sex? (I assume you want one without sex.) If it gets hot you'll come home horney for your wife.



Ur4me2spank -> RE: Naughty rhymes (6/25/2004 3:46:12 PM)

Thank you for your thoughts. I had not approached my wife, concerning my quest, and doubt very seriously if that would be well received. At the age of 42 I'm left to wonder if this is a mid-life crisis or a true need to experience this side of my personality.



iwillserveu -> RE: Naughty rhymes (6/26/2004 2:46:02 AM)

If you don't talk to her, you would be lying, dude. Sure, it is only a lie of omission, but it is a lie. (Besides, too many consentual blackmail stories start this way.[:)] {You want to be her belted slave?[:D]})

Seriously, the problem with a lie is not what it does to her (you can cover your tracks well enough); the problem is what it does to you.

Take it from a divorced guy. If your need is so great, if she loves you she will help somehow. She will be mad at first, but she will be even madder reading the PI report later.



proudsub -> RE: Naughty rhymes (6/26/2004 10:49:29 AM)

quote:

I've suggested certain enhancements, i.e. spanking, lite bondage, toys, in an apparently joking manner before and have been shot down each time.


That is exactly what i did before i sought my needs outside my marriage. When hubby found out about my affair we had a long talk and i explained how i needed to be submissive and explained more about bdsm to him. He said he understood, forgave me and offered to learn to be my Master. Things have been great ever since. So you might try explaining this way of life to your wife rather than just hinting at it. I wish you luck with it.



EStrict -> RE: Naughty rhymes (6/26/2004 11:25:14 AM)

Hi Ur,

Although I don't believe that *my way is the only way*, I do understand some of what Dread is speaking of. *To me* this lifestyle is one of trust, and how can someone REALLY trust you when you are lying to the person you pledged to *love and honor*? Do you think when she finds out (and odds are she will eventually) she will REALLY believe it was your *love* that made you cheat on her behind her back?

As a woman, I know I would much rather my partner (including vanilla) be honest with me (tell me they have needs I am not meeting) and ALLOW me to make decisions, than to learn they lied to me, snuck around, and acted like the *rat* cheaters are labeled. She may give you a the choice of her or this, and again *to me*, if you chose to persue this and am not honest, then you are not the type of person *I* could have as a partner since in the back of my mind you are not being honest with partners.

I left my first husband for many reason. At the time, I had never heard of anything BDSM related. He already would tie me up (and bondage is my only real fetish,, I hate pain), and I was always open to anything. The exception to that was his cheating with the 20 something year old at work, and ignoring me because he was getting things on the side. Honestly, I can say that if he was honest with me, we may STILL be together. But the one thing I won't tolerate in a PERSON (much less a husband, dominant, Master, or even someone I am trusting to play with me in any manner), is lying to me. And I am not as a good a person Proud's husband, I wouldn't give a second chance.



Ur4me2spank -> RE: Naughty rhymes (6/27/2004 11:01:02 AM)

Hi sandy,

I'd like to thank you, and everyone else, for your/their input. It certainly gives me alot to think about. Obviously, the first choice is finding what is needed under one roof, but that is not going to be the case for me.
Ultimately, the choices I have are few. Maintain the honor and dignity I have built to this point in my life or persue that which has been nagging at me for years. Unfortunately, the two are exclusive.

Ur



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