JerryInTampa
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My suggestion: Tackle them one or two at a time. Talk with your subbie about her helping (reminding you that she can get that). Depending on your interests, make it a game (if she doesn't manage to anticipate a need and you get up and get it yourself, there can be consequences). If you are less into that, but just after the service, remind her to remind you. So, perhaps starting today, you won't get your own drinks anymore... or she'll lay out your clothes for you in the morning, or lay out hers and have you pick which she will wear. I've also adapted several 'nilla habits into D/s habits. For example: I get the car door for my girl... she sits on her hands and I buckle her in. It's very subbie for her and dominant for me, even though it looks the other way around.
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