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RE: moral standard in bdsm - 9/10/2007 9:29:38 AM

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We also need to keep in mind that people choose differing standards for how they like to conduct interactions-there is no default setting.

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RE: moral standard in bdsm - 9/10/2007 10:03:35 AM

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OK. I think I'm seeing the bigger picture of what you mean now. D/s as a category of lifestyle isn't special. Similarly to saying hetero lifestyles aren't special, or gay lifestyles aren't special, or marriage isn't special - the use of "special" meaning something unque and superior. I can understand that. This is why you said "as a whole" before, and I misunderstood what you meant by that. So I'm understanding it is your opinion that D/s, as a lifestyle category, isn't any more special overall than any other lifestyle category. But that some D/s type relationships are more special to people than non D/s typs relationships, and vice versa. Is this correct?

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I want some the blue jello now...

I can't say I've ever had or even seen blue jello...heh.

Really? It's my favorite kind. Rasberry flavor! I do like the green stuff too.

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I hope you feel better!

Aww, thank you! I think I'll start feeling better once I get some more sleep.

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RE: moral standard in bdsm - 9/10/2007 10:48:32 AM

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Really? It's my favorite kind. Rasberry flavor! I do like the green stuff too.

LOL I'll have to try it. I actually like "red" flavor

Thanks for the great exchange!

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RE: moral standard in bdsm - 9/10/2007 1:32:45 PM

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my moral standards are the same.. in my marriage, in my M/s relationship, in my vanilla life, how i deal with friends and family. they are the core of who i am, who i have always been, and will continue to be. that won't change... for anyone ~smile~

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RE: moral standard in bdsm - 9/12/2007 10:38:56 AM

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My moral code is the same inside BDSM activities as it is outside. While I will do things with and to my sub that many people might frown on in a vanilla context, it is always done as a matter with high respect for my sub. Without that respect, I would not be good in any relationship, and could do serious harm in a BDSM one.

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