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RE: Learning Curve when letting someone else control or... - 9/13/2007 9:25:48 AM   
Mercnbeth


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Knowing beth's issue and Merc's talents, I wouldn't be surprised if they truly pull it off.
Michael, my good friend, if you only knew...

Seriously though - this is another case of "careful what you wish for...". The easy to orgasm woman presents a whole other set of issues. Consider that all my life I enjoyed long, prolonged scenes. beth comes along and she presents a completely different challenge. Before she was mine, and until I learned her body better, she would often call for a 'time-out'. The truth is, the "training" and "learning curve" focused on NOT cumming until the command was given. It was a learning experience for both of us.

Sometimes it involves a touch or a look, but it mostly is just words of permission. It's worked on airplanes, cars, and boats. Its a game and distraction I love playing with her. I won't try to express what beth feels and how those feelings are processed but there is no doubt its not faked.

'Cumming on Command' is, like any other activity, subject to the people involved. The process involves a large dose of observation along with mental and emotional interaction. The physical aspect is, in reality, least important. Its a corollary of 'head space'. Isn't cumming the ultimate 'head space'? We have a local couple who used 'hypnosis' as a tool for this result. I don't claim any such talent or ability I just know that 'connection' that I have with beth facilitates this result. If any one thing is 'MOST' important, my opinion is that would be absolute Trust.

The doubt will always exist especially concerning women. But I've witnessed 1st hand a Domme effect a very visual result with a male slave using no touch whatsoever. How long he had gone without cumming may have influenced the result, but on that night, the result was accomplished with absolutely no tactile interaction. 

People can be conditioned and the phenomena does exist. If you have any doubt, next time we're together play the Rod Stewart cover of the van Morrison song, "Have I Told You Lately". That was our wedding song and beth has a standing order to cum when she hears it. Watch her and you tell me if she faking it. It makes you listen closer to elevator 'Muzak'.

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RE: Learning Curve when letting someone else control or... - 9/13/2007 10:22:24 AM   
BossyShoeBitch


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Merc,
Would it be TOO sadistic of us to put that song as my ringtone next time we see you?

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RE: Learning Curve when letting someone else control or... - 9/13/2007 10:39:25 AM   
Mercnbeth


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ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch
Merc,
Would it be TOO sadistic of us to put that song as my ringtone next time we see you?


BSB,
Can you ever be "TOO sadistic"?

PS -  Have a GREAT time this weekend! We still say you shouldn't go back until after Folsom!

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RE: Learning Curve when letting someone else control or... - 9/13/2007 11:11:46 AM   
BossyShoeBitch


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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

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ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch
Merc,
Would it be TOO sadistic of us to put that song as my ringtone next time we see you?


BSB,
Can you ever be "TOO sadistic"?

PS -  Have a GREAT time this weekend! We still say you shouldn't go back until after Folsom!


This is true!  LOL
If only I could stay for that long..I would do it in a second!! 

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RE: Learning Curve when letting someone else control or... - 9/13/2007 5:49:38 PM   
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As soon as we go married, my husband/slave was trained to wait before penetration and release: I need foreplay till I say to come inside me, and then he needs to do a good job before he can come. It works.

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