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mselisetoyou -> Enema Play...Ideas Please (7/16/2005 10:29:58 AM)
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Novice Domme here.
I'm playing with my fiance sub (more experienced than I) and I've asked him to run a bath. I've administered an enema, inserted a plug, told him to get in the tub and shave his legs/balls. I'm loving this scene... He's out of the tub, dried and powdered and I tell him he is permitted to release the enema. He asks me - in the sweetest way - whether I want him to do this alone or whether I'm going to stay with him to make certain he does it right.
Well, I feel a slight panic. This was not a question I had anticipated. I don't know why but I hadn't. Not wanting to lose control of our play during my moment of uncertainty, I tell him to come out of the bathroom when he's finished. I wish I had stayed with him because when we lost contact physical contact with one another, the scene sort of cooled off and became a bit disjointed.
I have a few questions. They may seem silly but I hope not.
1) Is there an incorrect way to relieve oneself following the administration of an enema?
2) Any ideas about how I could extend the play by coming up with some rule for my sub to follow when relieving himself? I'm perhaps thinking I could have directed his actions more and given him some groundrules.
3) What tips can you offer when you have planned a scene and your partner innocently asks a question or causes a deviation that gives you causes uncertainty (even if for a second or two) while trying to manage a scene?
Thanks.
ME
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