earthycouple
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Self control is something, as far as I am concerned, all of us should have...humans that is, not just dominants. To what extent we exert that control varies day to day, minute to minute, situation to situation. I hate to wait. I absolutely hate with a passion to wait for something I want. I've said it many times before "I want what I want when I want it". That's not to say don't save my birthday present for my birthday but if I feel strongly about meeting someone I don't like to delay it. I prefer to not exercise my self control there and will work to make it happen as quickly as I can. When it comes to my want to strangle someone for doing something I don't like; well then I exert self control and don't strangle em. We are all human, and as I believe I said just here yesterday, we have foibles. No one is perfect and we all must adhere to common sensical things day to day. It's ok to not always have control of one's self...but it is imperative that we always know when we should have control and exert it at those times.
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