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Coupleofwhats -> RE: Guy being dommed by a lesbian couple - fantasy or feasible? (7/25/2008 10:41:37 AM)

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ORIGINAL: ChicagoSwitchMal
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Madame4a -> RE: Guy being dommed by a lesbian couple - fantasy or feasible? (7/25/2008 10:55:38 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SensualFemDom

I think your title is messed up. Why are you asking for a "lesbian couple"? Shouldn't you be asking for "two women" instead? That way you can find two women who have bisexual tendencies. Why would you want to sexually service people who clearly self-identify as not wanting to be sexually intimate with your gender?

I am a lesbian Domme and every time I see a guy requesting a lesbian domme, I start to ask myself, "Is this guy clueless?" You do realize that lesbian means "homosexual woman."

Why would a homosexual woman want someone of the opposite sex between her legs? That's like a girl wanting to give a gay man a blowjob. Why would a gay man want a female to suck him off when he can get a male he is attracted to? Why would *I* as a female lesbian dominant want a man between my legs when I could have a girl instead?

I just think you're confused what lesbian actually means. It does in fact imply homosexuality of the SAME sex.


Actually... I think you're confused.. at least that's what it means to you, it means many things to me, most of them unrelated to sex and play.

As to the why... uhmmm.. cause its fun, it gets me off and it makes me wet -- doesn't mean I want to marry a guy...



LaTigresse -> RE: Guy being dommed by a lesbian couple - fantasy or feasible? (7/25/2008 11:34:27 AM)

No thank you. No interest in a guy around. Not even in a dress.



matt4u -> RE: Guy being dommed by a lesbian couple - fantasy or feasible? (7/27/2008 8:04:26 PM)

How many times have I read people say its not about the sex?



CallaFirestormBW -> RE: Guy being dommed by a lesbian couple - fantasy or feasible? (7/27/2008 8:19:44 PM)

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They told him he was stupid for thinking they'd hold up their end of the bargain. They told him he was a disgusting low life male who didn't deserve fair treatment because they just KNEW he'd mistreated some woman or another in his past. They told him he had just been taught the true meaning of humiliation and they knew he just loved it, so shut up and go get dinner ready. He asked if they ever intended to fulfill their end of the written agreement. They laughed again and told him they'd not intended to honor the agreement from the moment it was written and they sure didn't intend to do anything as yucky as play with a stinky-pig male.


This makes all paired dominas look bad. There is -no- excuse for breaking a written contract or breaching even a verbal agreement. If a promise is made, it needs to be -kept-.

My companion and I are both bisexual. I am truly bisexual and my companion gravitates towards the het end of the bi scale. That being said, these women, even if they orient as 100% lesbian, are, above and beyond their gender orientation, liars, deceitful, dishonest, ignorant, and reprehensible. If they didn't want to take on a guy, they could have said "no"... instead, they set out -intentionally- to make and break an agreement as some form of gender-based revenge.

*shakes my head* I have no idea what some people are thinking, or how they can sleep at night or face themselves in the mirror.

That said -- no queening for me. EWW

Calla Firestorm



Dnomyar -> RE: Guy being dommed by a lesbian couple - fantasy or feasible? (7/28/2008 6:52:23 AM)

Having sex with bi women happens a lot. With my lesbian friends cuddling while talking is as far as it goes.



rc4otkVA -> RE: Guy being dommed by a lesbian couple - fantasy or feasible? (8/1/2008 2:08:52 AM)

I am a bi female in a committed relationship with a bi female, and I could see a scenario like that happening. It's not impossible, but so many men want to be with or beneath 2 women, that it's hard to be one of the chosen few.



corysub -> RE: Guy being dommed by a lesbian couple - fantasy or feasible? (8/1/2008 3:55:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: matt4u

How many times have I read people say its not about the sex?


Rehetorically speaking matt...it really is not about the sex for some submissives...and I would include
myself in that category.  Just a stern word from a Mistress can get my knees shaking and deep inside
excitment growing.  Doing tasks that most would consider boring a dull around the house or apartment
become exciting fantasy in submitting to her will.  Having sex is the last thing I would be thinking about
with a domme...and having it is rare, indeed.  

I guess I represent a failure of the educational system in this country in that I can't fully reflect in words what I feel when power is turned over to a Domme...it's something you have to experience...like a fine wine.





hardbodysub -> RE: Guy being dommed by a lesbian couple - fantasy or feasible? (8/1/2008 8:37:32 PM)


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ORIGINAL: matt4u

How many times have I read people say its not about the sex?


BINGO!!!



hardbodysub -> RE: Guy being dommed by a lesbian couple - fantasy or feasible? (8/1/2008 8:43:47 PM)

Removed after re-reading the OP.



oceanfun78 -> RE: Guy being dommed by a lesbian couple - fantasy or feasible? (3/28/2010 6:11:48 PM)

Would love to chat with you sometime and I agree with your take. 



VideoAdminZeta -> RE: Guy being dommed by a lesbian couple - fantasy or feasible? (3/28/2010 7:10:42 PM)

We encourage posters to start new threads, when the thread they are responding to is more than 3 months old.This gives people new perspectives on older topics. Thanks!



MadeiraDarling -> RE: Guy being dommed by a lesbian couple - fantasy or feasible? (3/31/2010 7:07:48 PM)

Well my girlfriend and I are professionals, and we'd happily work this scenario out...



hardbodysub -> RE: Guy being dommed by a lesbian couple - fantasy or feasible? (3/31/2010 8:37:35 PM)

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homosexuality of the SAME sex.


Directly from the Department of Redundancy Department.



VaguelyCurious -> RE: Guy being dommed by a lesbian couple - fantasy or feasible? (4/1/2010 3:14:07 AM)

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ORIGINAL: hardbodysub

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homosexuality of the SAME sex.


Directly from the Department of Redundancy Department.
Well, you say that, but you'd be surprised how many people need the extra emphasis to get it through their heads... :P



rulemylife -> RE: Guy being dommed by a lesbian couple - fantasy or feasible? (4/1/2010 3:27:20 AM)

Never mind.

I didn't realize someone resurrected a thread from 2 1/2 years ago.






LaTigresse -> RE: Guy being dommed by a lesbian couple - fantasy or feasible? (4/1/2010 3:39:06 AM)

For fucksake...



Ladylocks -> RE: Guy being dommed by a lesbian couple - fantasy or feasible? (4/12/2010 12:18:46 AM)

I am involved in this kind of relationship and it is working splendid for Monica and me. We are both bi not lesbian. Our male slave Dainty has become an important asset in our lives. We both have full time careers which sometimes means long hours. Its nice to be able to come home and relax and just be together doing what we like instead of having the household chores waiting for us after work and weekends. Dainty is worth keeping. Its nice having someone to look after your needs and is always there. I used to hate to come home to an empty house. He makes a good companion when Monica is working opposite shifts from me which happens quite a lot. When we are both home he disappears into another room to let us have time alone together. He keeps the house spotless, laundry done, our vehicles clean and vacuumed. In summer he keeps the yard looking nice and grows vegetables in the garden. In winter the snow is already shoveled when we get home from work. He is our maid by day and our helpless cuddly pet at night.  He is not  tall or handsome. He is quite small for a male and the quiet shy type. He 's not what most women on the forum are looking for but that's good for us not being sexually attracted to him ensures no jealousy in our relationship. We are both taller than him even when he is wearing high heels and we are flat foot. It feels natural to dominate him because of this and we like keeping him dolled up in a dress, heels and a baby bonnet covering his always shaved head. He is a fun toy to have around. Because he is so submissive, with time, patience and some pain persuasion, he has become what we have planned for him to be. Having him always there ensures our home won't be robbed which has happened in the past before he came along.



DarkSteven -> RE: Guy being dommed by a lesbian couple - fantasy or feasible? (4/12/2010 5:39:12 AM)

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ORIGINAL: rulemylife

Never mind.

I didn't realize someone resurrected a thread from 2 1/2 years ago.



Ad it's not even clear which poster he's responding to!



undergroundsea -> RE: Guy being dommed by a lesbian couple - fantasy or feasible? (4/12/2010 10:17:36 AM)

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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious
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ORIGINAL: hardbodysub
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homosexuality of the SAME sex.

Directly from the Department of Redundancy Department.


Well, you say that, but you'd be surprised how many people need the extra emphasis to get it through their heads... :P


Funny! Each comment.

To be fair, sometimes this confusion occurs because of limited vocabulary available to us. It is this limited vocabulary that sometimes causes debates over what a slave is (do they have rights, can they leave, etc). It is this limited vocabulary which is creating the different perspectives here.

Many people would use lesbian to describe the following women:

1. A woman who has romantic and sexual relations with women only.
2. A woman who has romantic relations with women only but might have sexual relations with men on occasion.
3. A woman who has romantic and sexual relations with women only but might engage in BDSM with men.

While there is some room to say that number 2 is a lesbian-leaning bi, more than likely such a woman will identify as a lesbian due to what she primarily seeks.

The world is not black or white. Attraction is not black or white. Gender is not black or white. A person with male anatomy might convey feminine energy so as to be somewhat attractive to a woman who otherwise prefers women.

Cheers,

Sea



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