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Missokyst -> RE: Ancestral BDSMers? (9/18/2007 2:02:09 PM)
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I do agree there are subliminal patterns we can pick up along the way. I know my dad was kinky. I know my mom was frigid. I suspect my sister spent some time as a phone dom (she is both horny and money needy). But I would never say that I am "X"th generation dom or sub. Why? Because to say that implies that I was taught to be what I am, directly. Or that the household I grew up in was open about their sexual activity. And dang.. I cannot imagine my parents generation being that open about anything!
The acquaintence I know who was openly presenting himself as a master while his young daughters were around did influence them, helped form their ideas into dominantion and submission. Classified his eldest daughter as a dominant, and his youngest as submissive.
If they continued on with that as they became adult, I would say yes, they are "X"th generational ds'rs.
The rest of us just may found something familar and went with it.
Kyst
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