SeeksOnlyOne -> RE: Heritage or Hate? (9/25/2007 6:01:48 PM)
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fr....... i said i was done a few pages ago, and i meant it.....i lied on the internet, so sue me..... today i went to the funeral of my aunt, daddys baby sister. now theres only 2 kids of 11 left, and it made me think about the meaning of life and all that jazz....im typing this to show a kinder and gentler side of me, but it may come off as showing my true colors and piss someone off-if so, so be it.... sitting at the cemetary, after the service, we were talking and catching up...sadly, funerals are also semi family reunions too-i dunno if thats another southern thing thats peculiar to others, but thats how it is. anyhow, im sittin there, looking around at my family......one who was let out of band camp(jail) for 2 days to bury his mom, one with a long gray ponytail, who was also burying his mom. ponytail cuz hugging his lesbian daughter, who had on the best looking suit there, and a shaved head. i think she is about 30 now, and has been adorable since birth...... there was the son of another cousin there, he was born a bi-racial baby in the 70's, before it was cool yanno.....his wife and their new baby........ friends of the cousins they have known for years, and love......some of who were black, and they all cried as they hugged and felt the pain of losing a mom......all of us hugging, laughing, seeing folks we havent seen in way too long....... before i thought about this silly thread, i didnt see the color of the folks, or the bald headed butch lesbian girl, just people i love......and for some reason this thread popped into my mind and i thought i have lost my damn mind...... then i realized, folks hugging black folks had old ga flags on their trucks! gasp.....and they were hugging BLACK men and women and crying with them.....and they werent grossed out and the black men and women werent screaming about the flags.......the kids flock to my dear sweet cousins child, who was born a lil girl, and has fought it since she was a toddler i think......and no one screamed keep that deviant away from our innocent children.......for we all know each other, and we know who we are, and we know were good folks who love and hurt and cry and laugh...... and i realized i love my family, all of them, and all their old friends who have stuck by them through thick and thin, friends who have allowed us to come to the funerals of their family members, and show our respects, in spite of cultural differences and an appreciation or love of different symbols, symbols such as long gray ponytails on old fart biker dudes, butch lesbians who shave their heads, and old ga flags that show a symbol of hatred for some. and i decided im happy being who i am, and i cant and wont worry about what i do offending folks... i will live by the words on the lid of my aunts casket...... may my works speak for who i am......
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