SilentDreamer
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Joined: 4/25/2004 Status: offline
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Sarbonn, I have been to the GR munch many timees, and my first visit there was much the same as yours. You would think an attractive female sub would get a warmer welcome? lol I have never made it to the K-Zoo munch, although many of the people from K-Zoo come to GR from time to time, so I have met many of them as well. The first munch I EVER attended was in CHI, and I got a very different sort of 'welcome', but it left me feeling even more nervous about ever returning. Every person I encountered there, male or female, tried to talk me into going off with them! Given the two options, I'd much prefer a "slow start" with people who are genuine rather than a frenetic ride with a bunch of swingers who happen to have lifestyle interests. Please keep this in mind. The GR munch that is held in a hotel lounge is designed to welcome newcomers, however, we often get inudated with men who show up only because they have an idea that a submissive is an easy pick-up. Newcomers are noticed, and remembered. Sometimes they do get to feeling a little neglected, as many of the people who attend are old friends who don't get to "catch up" with each other as often as they'd like. Come back a time or two, you will see the difference. Also, there is another munch in GR now that is geared towards people more experienced in the lifestyle. It is held upstairs in a gay bar downtown, and fetishwear is allowed. Yes it is open to the public, no invitation is required. It is more of a "club night" atmosphere than a traditional munch, but if you truly are an "old timer", you should feel very comfortable there as well. Many people go to both munches, as they are both held on Thursday night. If you are interested in attending, drop me a note and I'll be happy to give you the particulars. Mr Voltaire is correct in saying it's an "odd mix" of people at the munch, there are professionals, laborers, homemakers, the educated as well as the barely literate. You will meet lifestylers who range the whole spectrum, from full-time Gorean families to part-time people looking for play partners only. The only thing that truly amazes me about that statement is that, given such a broad range of individuals, no one could meet his "standards". While I admit there are people who attend that I wouldn't find myself socializing with under other circumstances, I have always found intelligent, stimulating conversation and pleasant company at the local munches. I hope to meet you at one of them in the future. Take care
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