LadySonelle
Posts: 280
Joined: 8/24/2004 From: Santa Fe NM Status: offline
|
Actually, disabled subs are sort of a (no pun intended, but still gleefully enjoyed) sub-specialty of Mine! I feel that a disability tends to focus the person who has it more on the 'here' and 'now' of doing things. as for kneeling, if a sub cannot kneel, s/he can do the Egyptian Obeisance (bent forward slightly (or farther, according to his balancing abilities) with both arms stretched forward at waist level, hands flat, palms down parallel to the floor. If the sub requires a cane or walker, then either Roman Obeisance (one hand on the balancing device, the other across the chest with palm to shoulder) or simple bowing of head is in order. If only the head is bent, then the slave, if s/he can, must also "make a leg" meaning to place one leg forward, toes pointed, as s/he bends hir head to Me. Think of trick horses bowing and you will get the image. If balance difficulties are severe, then I fall back on the standard Military Salute or even the Egyptian Blessing stance which is straight up, head tilted forward, hands out from sides (the fingers must be at least six inches away from the body) hands turned so that the palms are facing Me. For submissives who have difficulty in holding still, such as in some forms of cerebral palsy, where restraints can be difficult, I will modify My restraints with a length of bungee cord between the cuffs so that they may have a certain degree of involuntary movements, but still have the bondage in place. Hard bondage is *not* a good idea with athetoid, paroxysmal or spasmodic movements as it can throw muscles into a painful spasm and even damage joints. For slaves with breathing difficulties, I either do not gag at all, or I use a wide open tube gage so that the airway is not restricted. Subs in wheelchairs are the most fun! Oftentimes a wheelchair user has trememdous upper body strength. I can use their chair or I can transfer them to standard equipment, beds, chairs etc. In order to transfer a person from a wheelchair if they cannot do it, themselves,, you first place the chairat right angles to the surface you want to transfer the user to. like so: _______{ *_______ you are where the assterisk is, facing the wheelchair user. Have the brakes on the chair locked. Flip up the footrests and have the sub place hir feet on the floor. If the sub can brace, all the better. If not, you might have to brace hir feet with your own, but this is more dangerous. Have the sub interlace hir fingers behind your neck and hold on. Place your own hands on the sub's waist and then, keeping mindful of your own balance, lean backward a bit, (from the knees and hips, not just the back) while straightening up. The balance point should (if your weights are similar) be between your four feet, By straightening, you lift the sub clear of the chair. Place one of you feet slightly back (enough to balance) and pivot on your forward foot turning the sub toward the surface you want hir on. From the knees and hips, lean forward, lowering the sub into position. Make certain s/he is balanced and settled, then turn and move the chair. To return sub to the chair, simply re-position the wheelchair and reverse directions. Impact play (floggings, crop etc) must be modified in submissives who have thin skin, nurological impairments or circulatory difficulties. A wide flat surface (belt, slapper) is often better tolerated than thin whippy strands. Timing of strokes must be slow in order to assess the effects between blows. Spankings and paddlings (with care) are actually beneficial to wheelchair users as it encourages blood flow to weight-bearing and helps prevent pressure sores (decubiti) from forming. Do not feel intimidated by braces, canres, chairs, breathing apparati. The submissive has often dealt with all this stuff and has no qualms about discussing it. If you have questions, ask. No question is stupid if it is sincere. If you can eroticise the equipment, so much the better! I once dangled a sub's forearm crutches from his balls! Horizontally, of course! Enjoy! Lady Sonelle
_____________________________
Come to My domain and read My Lessons online! http://www.LadySonelle.com then place yourself beneath My loving Hand!
|