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OnyxDelphi -> A favored session... (9/20/2007 9:01:01 PM)

I have become recently curious as to the settings of certain sessions I've been told about. Enough to ask and say, "Describe a session you have had that is your favorite."

Even more so, what would you say a new slaves first session should entail?




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: A favored session... (9/20/2007 9:02:32 PM)

A) The ones where we end up exhausted and laughing

B)  Should entail exploration of a few things, and again lots of laughter




Celeste43 -> RE: A favored session... (9/20/2007 9:07:33 PM)

What do you mean by a new slave? A newbie with no experience in wiitwd? Or someone you are playing with for the first time? Or someone you've known for months or longer and have played with innumerable times but have just collared? Because the answer will be different for those three different scenarios.

The first time I played with him I was a newbie. We had both filled out BDSM checklists on another site where we met. He picked only activities that we both picked 5's on, the highest ranking available there. By doing things to me that I liked, I had a positive experience and was much more interested in trying it a second time. He didn't try to do everything under the sun, he gauged my mood, we took breaks for food and water and to talk and cuddle. All of which made it a perfect day for me. But what was perfect for me might be not nearly intense enough for someone else.

More importantly, you need to negotiate ahead of time with her what she would like and wouldn't like. Because even if she's been a slave to someone else, she isn't your slave on that first play meet.




slaverosebeauty -> RE: A favored session... (9/20/2007 9:10:50 PM)

With a new partner?? Exploring eachother and taking things slow. Then ending with something to drink after coming out of subspace if one is so lucky to get there; soft talking and wanting to do it all over again. Works for me. 




curiouspet55 -> RE: A favored session... (9/20/2007 9:13:44 PM)

Don't mean to hijack...but what does "wiitwd" stand for?




Celeste43 -> RE: A favored session... (9/20/2007 9:16:52 PM)

What it is that we do. Used to mean BDSM which of course is what those of us here do.

YMMV means your mileage may vary, used to indicate differences between people.

Any other acronyms you need an explanation of? Because I'm on a roll here :)




Ponyboy7 -> RE: A favored session... (9/20/2007 9:21:15 PM)

WIITWD = What It Is That We Do

I would echo Celeste43's question: someone new to the lifestyle or someone playing with you for the first time? Either way I think you should take things relatively slowly until you know each other. I suppose this would be a matter of degree depending upon whether the person is completely new to BDSM or if s/he has experience, but is someone with whom you have not previously played.




curiouspet55 -> RE: A favored session... (9/21/2007 11:43:27 AM)

thanks! no other ones I can think of right now




MsKittyBlack -> RE: A favored session... (9/21/2007 2:47:14 PM)

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BoiJen -> RE: A favored session... (9/21/2007 2:48:19 PM)

I don't think sessions have anything to do with being a slave...sessions would have to do with being a bottom. Slaves do chores....anyways...

And I don't have a favorite session. I've had a few where they're pretty high up there...one was recent so I'll cite that one as well as another...though these are not my "only" favorites...

Our evening started off really late...so by the time we got everything ready (meaning I set up the toys She wanted to play with and She had showered) She wasn't in the mood to warm up ...which is done for Her benefit rather than mine. Wouldn't want Her to pull a muscle swinging back too far or anything. Anyways...She sat down on my lap and pushed me down said something about it being a shame that She had "forgotten" put any panties on to gag me with and then grabbed a pillow to cover my face and smother me while She masturbated leaning on the pillow and leaving quite sticky mess on my chest and stomach. I believe I heard something like "what a warm up" before being instructed to fetch cuffs. I was restrained over a horse style spanking bench and caned for about an hr and a half...until my sore bruised butt was used yet again as a place for Her to get off on. Something about being beaten until past uncomfortable and then getting the beaten part fucked on is really hot to me. Wonder why...hmmm

Anyways my other favorite type of scene is what I call the "crazy Bitch" scene. She'll figure out some horrible way to have me bound and I can't move..litterally no wiggle room. And She just goes crazy. She never spends more than 5 minutes with a certain toy and She swings just about as hard as She can before switching and immediately going onto the next tool for my torment. There's no recovery time and it's like being a wirlwind of Sadism. Pretty freakin hot for me too. I end up feeling exhausted and worn by the end of those scenes.

And there's my pitch
And damnit I hate cookies that won't clear when I set them to




HollyBlue -> RE: A favored session... (9/22/2007 9:45:40 AM)

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ORIGINAL: OnyxDelphi
I have become recently curious as to the settings of certain sessions I've been told about. Enough to ask and say, "Describe a session you have had that is your favorite."

He buckled our thick leather play collar around my neck, put restraints on my wrists and ankles, and then clipped my wrist restraints to the sides of my collar. Alternated putting vibrator on my clit, spanking and hitting me, nipple torture, and some fucking...

Told me if I didn't come in the next 2 minutes I would be beaten with the hairbrush. I didn't come. (Was it because I wanted the hairbrush more, in truth?)

Flipped me onto my stomach, restrained my ankles spread to the corners of the bed, beat me with the hairbrush for two minutes. Loosened the ankle restraints so I could turn over onto my back, put the vibrator on me and said I had 3 minutes to come; if I didn't, I'd get the hairbrush for three minutes this time. I still didn't come...maybe the same reason as before?

Flipped me onto my stomach again, started beating me with the hairbrush again. Little kisses of pain became fiery chomps all over my butt and thighs. He was hitting me in the same place repeatedly, sometimes, and hard. It was more than I could silently breathe through, as is our standard practice. Then, something happened.

I could breathe through it. Vaguely, I realized I was about to "fly." He ordered me onto my back so he could beat my front. I was slow in responding, but turned over when he repeated the order. I wondered if his hitting me on my front would stop me from going further into whatever state I was entering. It didn't. He beat my thighs and belly with the same fury he had been applying to the back of me, then ordered me back onto my stomach. I slowly, languidly complied.

He announced the three minutes were up. Fuzzily, I managed to get out the following meek request while lying bonelessly on my stomach...

"Master, if you were to beat your slave for another three minutes please...I believe she is flying..."

I needed say no more. He continued the beating, stopping after the next three minutes, because we had not flown me before, and he didn't want to overdo it. When he stopped, I could not move...or didn't want to move? I couldn't speak...or didn't want to...

He turned me over onto my back and held me for some minutes. Time had slowed and my normally racing mind was still and calm...only the occasional unformed thought intruding...

Finally, in awe, I managed to form the words, "Sir, it's even better than coming!"

I will never, ever forget that session, even though I did not orgasm once the entire time.

quote:

ORIGINAL: OnyxDelphi
Even more so, what would you say a new slaves first session should entail?

This is such an open-ended question, I don't know how to answer it. Not every submissive is a slave, and as others have said, what do you mean by "first session?"

I would say it depends largely on the type of sub, and the level of the experience of his/her Master or Mistress. In general, I would recommend keeping things simple -- not making plans for too elaborate of a scene, and building slowly, no matter what is done, keeping communication open with the sub, but not being tentative. The Master/Mistress must appear in control at all times for the sub/slave to feel safe and to remain in the right headspace to enjoy the scene, especially if the sub/slave is a novice.




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