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Lawrence111 -> RE: Why is being a Dominant exciting to a Dom? (7/16/2004 2:22:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: submissvelilbrat i know why i am submissive...i understand what it does for me to be in the submissive role...to be with someOne i trust completely with my body, my heart, my mind and my soul....to know that i am safe and controlled......but what is it about being a Dom that is satisfying for a Dominant? i would like to understand; have thought about it often...but am unable to come up with the answer....can someOne please explain it to me? I think the reasons are as varied as the people, and many before me have posted to that end. I would add that as submissives can become endorphin-junkies, dominants can become serotonin-junkies (there are other chemicals including testosterone, but the names escape me now). These are some of chemicals that are released in the body during play (see Molly Devon who has done some research on this, presentation at Living In Leather, Ct. Lauderdale, circa 1998) , and give the user certain sensations. At their normal levels, they hardly make a difference, but when the levels are high... they produce all kids of pleasant sensations. Just my 2 cents, Lawrence Ithaca, NY

Sensualist -> RE: Why is being a Dominant exciting to a Dom? (7/21/2004 8:31:23 AM)
For me at least it is not so much wanting something as being who I am. My dominance exhibits itself in my whole world. I own a business a fine home, have good employees and I take care of my property whether it be my clothes washer or a lovely slave on my arm. So dominance, like your submission comes from within. Chosing to exercise that with a sub is another matter. Those dynamics are well covered by other doms in reply to you.

TallDarkAndWitty -> RE: Why is being a Dominant exciting to a Dom? (7/21/2004 8:42:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lawrence111 I would add that as submissives can become endorphin-junkies, dominants can become serotonin-junkies (there are other chemicals including testosterone, but the names escape me now). These are some of chemicals that are released in the body during play (see Molly Devon who has done some research on this, presentation at Living In Leather, Ct. Lauderdale, circa 1998) , and give the user certain sensations. At their normal levels, they hardly make a difference, but when the levels are high... they produce all kids of pleasant sensations. Hey Lawrence, I almost wrote about this in the Subspace thread in the general BDSM section. I certainly go into some sort of chemically altered state when I play. It doesn't even have to be physical play for me. It starts with what I call my "dom tingle", which is this "charge" in my lower stomach. It progresses to subtle mental buzz, much like what you would feel after taking a first shot of alcohol. My lips then get kind of tingly. I almost never become erect when I am in this space, but it is a very sexual experience for me. Perhaps that is too much information, but I have wondered if others have shared such experiences... Yours, Taggard

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