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Master0lotsoffun -> online question (7/21/2005 7:26:29 AM)
Hello all... New to the online thing.. Been with my Wife/slave for years... Last year was sent to Iraq for 9 months... This was hard on both of us though the money made was amazing... The Dom/sub role took a standstill reallly for the entire time I was away.. When I came home.. It became heard to pick it back up where we left off... Well now I am getting ready to go back... and me and my wife/slave are talking about what we are going to do.. I know normally people start going from o/l to r/l.. but Military service is forcing me away.. So my question becomes.. Don't have a clue but we want to try online dom... Just not sure really how it works.. I can sended her emails and talk on the phone wih her one or two times a week... but will be on the other side of the globe.. Major things I would like some help with is online punishments.. Shes always been one to push me because she likes her punishments and I love to give them... Just don't know how I can spank her from across the seas... I assume these punishments are more mental then physical but would like any suggestions other doms have Thanks o and by the way.. please don't send me a bunch of emails thanking me for mil servce... I posted a simaler message on another board yestereday and thismoring i have a dozen or so just thanking me for mil serves... but no answers

imtempting -> RE: online question (7/21/2005 7:38:50 AM)
Well Ive had punishments given to me though online. Its more a thing of not being able to do something etc. Its good but can be difficult if constant contact cant be up-held and circumstances arise un-expectly. Like if you tell her be online at blah blah time something un-avoidable can come up. Although if your lifestyle is private then your wife will have to do alot of normal things as people would be worried im sure if she did not do anything. Could that part of your life be over with? Your wife/submissive ( i dont belive in bdsm slaves, please dont cause an argument people) would of had alot of freedom and may actually like the freedom but enjoy kinky sex. If what I said made no sense im sorry as its late here in Australia and im tired.

FangsNfeet -> RE: online question (7/21/2005 1:59:04 PM)
This is a situation where creativity comes into play. You can always make her do stuff such as wearing clothes pins on her nipples, orgasim denial, doing things with dildos, having her to read stuff, and matters of that such. Verbal abuse and talking dirty works pretty good as well. Because of your great service to our USA, I hope that you can have fequent online access as well have a little fun with web cams. Best of luck in this endevor as I wish a safe return home for you.

Gem -> RE: online question (7/21/2005 2:46:08 PM)
Brightest Blessings Before you leave set up house rules that she has to follow each day. Set up a mantra that she must say when she wakes up, and when she goes to sleep ( something like, I your slave Master, I live to serve you) or something that has meaning for the two of you, it will keep her in the head space that she is there to serve you. Have her send you a journal page each day, detailing what she has done, what she is thinking, if she has broken any rules. As for punishment ( even though I do not believe in punishment SM is for being a good girl not a bad one, and hey you aren't there to enjoy it) Give her assignments, she has to research some obscure thing and write a indepth report to you and e-mail it or send it snail mail. She has to take pictures of herself, in self bondage hitting herself with a wooden spoon, and she can not go easy on herself the end pic has to show a red bottom. Make her write ( not type write with pen and paper)5000 lines saying I will obey Master in all things) and either send it to you snail mail, or take pics of each page of lines and e-mail it to you. Blessed Be Gem

proudsub -> RE: online question (7/22/2005 1:34:44 AM)
quote: Major things I would like some help with is online punishments.. There's a thread on this, i'll find it for you tomorrow, need to go to bed now sorry.

proudsub -> RE: online question (7/22/2005 11:00:23 AM)
quote: There's a thread on this, i'll find it for you tomorrow, need to go to bed now sorry Here you go: long distance punishments

cumslutcockwhore -> RE: online question (7/22/2005 3:03:00 PM)
What the OP is describing in my mind is NOT D/s but BDSM. D/s is in the mind, the heart, the soul and it stays with you no matter how far away you are. Who has time to do a report of some obscure idiotic subject just to PROVE she is submissve? What dom needs to punish a girl verbally with humiliation just to PROVE he is dominant. The wife/slaveknows her place, knows her mind, knows to whom she belongs and carries on as if the husband/master is guiding and directing all the time. To me this is D/s. If the wife/slave wishes to scene with a dom, give her permission ...she knowing she is only sceneing but not to being owned..........................TRUST!! Tis as bad ImHO of these porfiles where it says my big badass dom will hunt you down if you email me..... ahh shat ya yap!! It boils down to TRUST and OBEDIENCE! IMHO. period. [>:]whats it to ya.

teapaw -> RE: online question (7/22/2005 4:41:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Master0lotsoffun quote] Shes always been one to push me because she likes her punishments and I love to give them... In my mind I agree with D/s being in the heart and soul and trust... Though I enjoy doing the obscure and idiotic for my Master :) He does not punish physically, verbally all he has to say is Bad girl or I'm disappointed in you, that just breaks my heart. He does things such as this because he knows that not only do I enjoy them I need them. Some subs need that punishment, its a good thing. For ME it doesn't make me feel more submissive just makes me feel...well.....loved, secure, needed, whole...I don't know fill in a word here._____....LOL SO I say try some of the things posted...and see what happens....if not find a friend who can spank her...grin I am slave to my master...I want to be OWNED...totally.. completely...all the time...we don't scene. we live.... Just my 2 cents....:) pamela PS..the profile with the “my big ass dom will hunt you down” OMGS LMAO...thats just too funny....

IronBear -> RE: online question (7/22/2005 9:26:11 PM)
On line doesn’t have to be overly difficult if you are creative and especially if you both can get into the mental picture. I’ve had a couple of kajira on line, and I can remember the caning I gave one of the on line for punishment felt (according to her) as real and as painful as if I was administering the punishment in person. It really is a state of mind you both get into. In time you can develop a sense of what is going on to a point where its just like the sub/slave being really with you. Cyber sex.. Not everyone’s cup of tea but each to his or her own and if it works for you then go for it. Web cams can be great as well.

teapaw -> RE: online question (7/22/2005 10:33:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IronBear I can remember the caning I gave one of the on line for punishment felt (according to her) as real and as painful as if I was administering the punishment in person. It really is a state of mind you both get into.. ONline Canning....Wow....I wonder what kind of punishments you can do the computer mouse? giggles and runs... pamela

IronBear -> RE: online question (7/22/2005 10:43:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: teapaw quote: ORIGINAL: IronBear I can remember the caning I gave one of the on line for punishment felt (according to her) as real and as painful as if I was administering the punishment in person. It really is a state of mind you both get into.. ONline Canning....Wow....I wonder what kind of punishments you can do the computer mouse? giggles and runs... pamela ~Chuckles with merriment and then roars with laughter.~ I dont know, I've thwapped it with a broom stick when it wouldn't work at one stage. That worked.. I swear at it regularly, usually just as I'm ready to dismantle it and clean it.... ~ Tosses a hazzel twig (about wand length) after her so she can catch it. ~

teapaw -> RE: online question (7/23/2005 2:45:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IronBear ~Chuckles with merriment and then roars with laughter.~ I dont know, I've thwapped it with a broom stick when it wouldn't work at one stage. That worked.. I swear at it regularly, usually just as I'm ready to dismantle it and clean it.... ~ Tosses a hazzel twig (about wand length) after her so she can catch it. ~ Does that work on the keyboard too? I have taken it apart various times with its insides laying all over my desk a q tip and witch hazel.....even after a good cleaning it still doesnt listen...grin pamela

MstrHellsFury -> RE: online question (7/23/2005 7:29:00 AM)
well said...so I need not throw my 2 1/2 cents into the mix...just want to wish a safe and speedy return home to all who provide the freedom we have to even post these threads... Fury

IronBear -> RE: online question (7/23/2005 11:14:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: teapaw quote: ORIGINAL: IronBear ~Chuckles with merriment and then roars with laughter.~ I dont know, I've thwapped it with a broom stick when it wouldn't work at one stage. That worked.. I swear at it regularly, usually just as I'm ready to dismantle it and clean it.... ~ Tosses a hazzel twig (about wand length) after her so she can catch it. ~ Does that work on the keyboard too? I have taken it apart various times with its insides laying all over my desk a q tip and witch hazel.....even after a good cleaning it still doesnt listen...grin pamela My solution to an evil keyboard which needs replacing anyway is to toss it in the car, take it to the pistol range and use it for a target

proudsub -> RE: online question (7/23/2005 8:34:49 PM)
quote: My solution to an evil keyboard which needs replacing anyway is to toss it in the car, take it to the pistol range and use it for a target LOL I hope that's not what you do with a misbehaving slave.[:D]

Phoenixandnika -> RE: online question (7/23/2005 9:34:57 PM)
Patience. Trust. Creativity. Open Communication. I think these are a keys to carrying on any type of long distance relationship due to circumstances. My Master was on the east coast while I was on the west coast for 5 months. Here are some things we did. We talked via phone, online or email daily. We had microphones and web cams so we could talk real time. I had specific things that had to be done each day. I was restriced from sexual acts however I was allowed to to go to munches ect. I had to ask permission to go to clubs ect. Punishments were typically essays or loosing contact for a period. We reminded each other daily this was only a temporary situation and we would be face to face, I would be at his feet soon enough. Im not sure if this will help at all I hope it does even a tad. nika, Phoenix deviant

IronBear -> RE: online question (7/24/2005 9:55:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: proudsub quote: My solution to an evil keyboard which needs replacing anyway is to toss it in the car, take it to the pistol range and use it for a target LOL I hope that's not what you do with a misbehaving slave.[:D] Naaaa far to messy and I'd have to clean up. besides, there'd be way too much paper work.. [;)][sm=lol.gif] Of course I'd miss her and have to train a new trik [8\|] anyway there is always a variety of floggers and a quirt or two of if really necessary, there is ther dreaded "CORNER".

teapaw -> RE: online question (7/24/2005 2:13:18 PM)
[/quote] My solution to an evil keyboard which needs replacing anyway is to toss it in the car, take it to the pistol range and use it for a target [/quote] Oh my ! I willhave to try that..its sounds so very exciting...much better then the paper and cardboard....the sound of it blasting apart....hmmm [:D] giggles* pamela

teapaw -> RE: online question (7/24/2005 2:15:39 PM)
EKKKKKKK the CORNER.....runs and hides behind couch..... whispers pamela

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