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RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience - 9/25/2007 12:05:05 AM

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Thank you laurell3…Your comment improved my confidence that much more.

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RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience - 9/25/2007 12:12:47 AM

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Thank you laurell3…Your comment improved my confidence that much more.

Not only that, I perved your profile and found it to be eloquent and perfect english as well. I think you might be selling yourself short...hell look at it this way...when people here piss you off you can yell things in another language and they won't know what you're saying!

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RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience - 9/25/2007 12:41:04 AM

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Not only that, I perved your profile and found it to be eloquent and perfect english as well. I think you might be selling yourself short...hell look at it this way...when people here piss you off you can yell things in another language and they won't know what you're saying!

Great minds think alike…i perved at your profile also…lol. It took a use of a couple of dictionaries a thesaurus a few cups of coffee and maybe a day or two to produce such a profile. It takes a lot for someone to piss me off but if they manage to do, i will gladly head your advice.

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RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience - 9/25/2007 12:56:16 AM

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Not only that, I perved your profile and found it to be eloquent and perfect english as well. I think you might be selling yourself short...hell look at it this way...when people here piss you off you can yell things in another language and they won't know what you're saying!

Great minds think alike…i perved at your profile also…lol. It took a use of a couple of dictionaries a thesaurus a few cups of coffee and maybe a day or two to produce such a profile. It takes a lot for someone to piss me off but if they manage to do, i will gladly head your advice.

Trust me dreamy there are plenty of subs on here that don't take any time to make a meaningful profile and they speak english as a primary language. The fact you took the time to come up with something so eloquent says alot about you as a person and your comittment to the lifestyle.

I would caution you, I tend to get myself in hot water without really knowing it, my advice may not be the best to take on issues of expressing anger, lol!

Good luck to you!
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RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience - 9/25/2007 1:08:59 AM

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Ladies, Gentlemen of the jury, I officially pronounce this girl as me from 3 years ago. Which means that, given time and tempered by continued rough handling, she'll become decent humanity. I'm not masochistic in the slightest, life has and continues to deliver enough physical pain, thank you--I seem to be in the process of discovering that I do, in fact, delight in releasing my sadistic side. (yes, my french pet, I'm talking about you if you see this.) But the mindset, pacing of the arguments, combativeness, and use of statistics all speak of my own paradigm. Slightly altered.

And what I'm reading is that this girl wants to be loved and beaten senseless at the same time; to have no control, but still be safe; and she's testing her limits EVERYWHERE, including those places where it's not appropriate. What she's getting is crowd control tactics, which are perfectly appropriate--but to her, she's not sure how to deal with them. Or how to get back on the right foot, re loved and controlled and safe.

So, I suggest continued castigation and public (if this forum serves as public) humiliation, but a gram of "this is for fun, you're being baited, and you're a young fool, but we like that." I like her, at least. She makes me want to kick her ass, and I really like that.

And if you really are pissed off at her, and would rather kill her than kiss her, just... pay attention to the fact that she's replying mostly to the really venomous posts. You're feeding her, babes. The worst thing you can do to her is be silent, so start living a better life than she has, and enjoy it quietly. It's possibly what pissed her off in the first place, the idea that she was being left out of the party.

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RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience - 9/25/2007 1:14:53 AM

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As I read the O.P., I believe that what this young lady needs is a REAL dominant.

One that will leave the correct marks on her; one who will treat her the correct way; one who will realize how valuable a submissive she is; one who will prove himself to her.

Problem solved?

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RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience - 9/25/2007 1:27:44 AM

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more likely a psychiatrist, but we're not giving her any more attention, paradox is right. How are you Michael? How goes the late night posting? Why are we awake still?
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RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience - 9/25/2007 8:49:37 AM

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As I read the O.P., I believe that what this young lady needs is a REAL dominant.

One that will leave the correct marks on her; one who will treat her the correct way; one who will realize how valuable a submissive she is; one who will prove himself to her.

Problem solved?

You were as they say, "spot on." But I also understand how I erred in my posting and in my methodology of searching. Thank you one and all. BTW, I did get some long and highly insightful posts about this and I may just post them to demonstrate what a person was looking for instead of what I got.

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RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience - 9/25/2007 9:35:41 AM

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Not only that, I perved your profile and found it to be eloquent and perfect english as well. I think you might be selling yourself short...hell look at it this way...when people here piss you off you can yell things in another language and they won't know what you're saying!

Great minds think alike…i perved at your profile also…lol. It took a use of a couple of dictionaries a thesaurus a few cups of coffee and maybe a day or two to produce such a profile. It takes a lot for someone to piss me off but if they manage to do, i will gladly head your advice.

dreamy, it is a shame that you are so far away. I think you would be very in demand in the states.

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RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience - 9/25/2007 9:41:58 AM

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i am happy that you are returning to your former Master. For me if i find someone and leave my Dom and the relationship doesn't work out, i will not be able to go back to my safe haven. So that's why i'm still here looking for the right Dom for me.

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RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience - 9/25/2007 10:26:40 AM

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So,
Should you find a:
Faster
Better
Younger
More exciting
Improved model

Then what?
Walk away again and then after 3 months return to the 'olde' man because you sowed your seeds again and nothing grew of it. No matter what happens, the trust issue will always be in the back of his mind or the fact that you might just want to be a 'kept woman'.
At 65, it is only a matter of time before things stop working and 'male enhancement' is needed. Running around with a woody for 36 hour might be the death of him....LOL

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RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience - 9/25/2007 10:31:27 AM

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I have had an expressional exprerience.

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RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience - 9/25/2007 10:46:08 AM

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I think some people have missed a fundamental point...

She's not going back to him just because she's tired of searching, but because he is what she's looking for, just not her own age.
The replies she has gotten have obviously not been satisfactory, as they've been made by men looking for something else than her.

Health,
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RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience - 9/25/2007 1:01:53 PM

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Gee I looked at your profile a long time ago because I too am in Ca and I thought you were fake.
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RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience - 9/25/2007 5:27:44 PM

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ORIGINAL: dreamysubmale

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Not only that, I perved your profile and found it to be eloquent and perfect english as well. I think you might be selling yourself short...hell look at it this way...when people here piss you off you can yell things in another language and they won't know what you're saying!

Great minds think alike…i perved at your profile also…lol. It took a use of a couple of dictionaries a thesaurus a few cups of coffee and maybe a day or two to produce such a profile. It takes a lot for someone to piss me off but if they manage to do, i will gladly head your advice.

dreamy, it is a shame that you are so far away. I think you would be very in demand in the states.

Oh my, thank you for that. I often say it's only a plane ride away, but i haven't managed to fulfill my childhood dream so far and that is to vsit your great and wonderfull country.
For some weird reason i have Elton Johns song "Daniel" in the back of my mind now...lol.

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RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience - 9/25/2007 5:38:23 PM

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you were a spoiled only child, weren't you? i'm surprised you wasted 3 whole months of your precious time here on this earth trying to find "someone." Good thing your former "Master" was waiting with bated breath.
Are there fakes and assholes here? Absolutely. But not anymore than there are in the real world. i work in retail and am in Nursing school so spend 16 hours a week working in a hospital... it's the same all over sweetheart. ya gotta take the good with the bad...

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RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience - 9/25/2007 5:43:33 PM

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Sounds like she is settling for the consolation prize .. and what Dominant wants to be known as Master or Mistress Consolation Prize ???

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RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience - 9/25/2007 5:48:57 PM

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Over 65. But his father lived to 103 and drove his car till about six months before he died. His family is all long lived. "smell funny"? Now that is something I never noticed at all. But soon I'll be able to sniff him out

Shoot girl, you should hang on to Him for dear life... when He croaks, maybe He'll leave you all His money and then it won't be so hard to find a younger Dom? Just a suggestion...

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RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience - 9/25/2007 5:54:17 PM

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A wise dragon told me once not to waste my money playing the lottery....I bet my wise dragon could fuck and eat your wise dragon.

Ooohhh... can i watch??

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RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience - 9/25/2007 5:58:27 PM

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Edited cuz i'm tired and forgot to proof read... dang it all...

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Dear Mistress of Snark;

You are right. I do value myself highly and I don't submit on line and only when there is that peculiar connection. You just joined here, and you have a mate so I don't see that you would have had all of the experiences I have had. One reason I avoided posting for most of my time here is that so many don't offer real advice but seem to practice a level of being mean that is probably only matched by some of the so called reality shows that depend upon people liking to see others humiliated and degraded for their entertainment.

Giving an opinion and calling it like we see it isn't being mean - it's being honest... and spoiled brats don't always like brutal honesty... just mho of course.

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