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RE: Okay, here's a new one on me for why I'm not "... - 6/29/2004 10:45:21 AM

goddessoflight

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duane,
First off. You have a good website and I hope people go there and check it out. Second, I think everyone should be honest about what they look like. Personally I don't care that much , I care more about the person. For alot of woman , I feel it's very hard, because on the net there are sites and pictures of beautiful dommes, professional and models. But, the way I look at it is this. I'm over weight, I like/love myself anyway. I'm a wonderful person and if your looking for a model ( with or without a brain) then go for it. But, lets not waste each others time. If a man wants to see the full body ( clothing or not) then just come out and ask. To me that means that it is a very important factor. So don't get down on yourself if your that shallow ( just kidding!!..lol)
I've had men ask me right away for my picture and some that never asked until I suggested that I'd send them. Either way was no big deal to me. My pictures are recent , if you have an old picture it's not hard to get one taken and put on the web. If you need help doing that ask me or someone. My guess daune is, that it's either something else, or she is getting to many emails and having a hard time knowing who to write to or not. Personally, I feel like maybe one of the best men on earth , for me , I may have passed up in not writing back. And it wasn't because I wasn't interested. So my advice is for the men to not give up so easy. I'm found some that it's truly been a pleasure communicating with. And most of them were ones that didn't give up writing to me. Hope this is a bit of an insite for you. Or it could be just some more rambling on here..lol!!

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RE: Okay, here's a new one on me for why I'm not "... - 6/29/2004 11:46:54 AM

atursvcMaam

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My response to that would be as follows:
Ma'am, Look at the next person that you see. Find the thing about them that you find the most beautiful. Please trust me it is there. The skill that we bring to the world is our ability to see beauty in all people, and most things. The hardest place to see it is in ourselves. But believe me, it is there. I can see it in the words you write. I can feel it in the way you ask about me. You are beautiful to me, and seeing you could only serve to connect the dots in my mind.
Do, however, be ready to elaborate on your mind's eye view of this goddess.
Good luck.

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RE: Okay, here's a new one on me for why I'm not "... - 6/29/2004 4:46:01 PM

MzDonna

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Well looking at this from the Domme's side .. I personally would have offered my picture . granted mine is posted in any and all profiles I have.. I dont think not asking for a picture would make you "incompatible or a player" in fact .. many times I do not ever ask for a picture, unless we are planning on meeting in the future, and then merely as a form of reference so I will know what the person looks like . I am not into this to collect "boy toys" or "pretty boys" .. the way someone looks on the outside has zero to do with who they are on the inside, and as far as I am concerned . true dominance or true submission comes from the heart , from their inner most self .. and the only way we can see that is by learning about the person ..
I can say this... the "Domme" you spoke to, may have in all honesty lost a very good chance for a lasting D/s relationship.
MzDonna

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